Secret Santa decisions

sophia jane

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We need to discuss/decide on the Secret Santa stuff, so I thought I'd start a new thread for it.
We need to decide:

price limit
when we want to draw names
when we want our gift opening to occur
what info we want included about our recipients. last year it was pretty simple, but if there was something you'd have wanted to know last year, let me know.
also, anything else you can think of that you want to discuss/change/decide.


Thank you very much! (also anyone can still sign up if you're interested)
 
How about those who would rather give than recieve? :devil:
 
This is the list I have so far. If I missed anyone, please let me know.
If there's a star by your name, then I have your info. If not- please get it to me, asap.

Imp *
Abs
TxRad *
Ari *
McKenna *
Trinique *
Cloudy *
Rika *
Fem *
English Lady *
Remec *
Crim *
Angelicminx *
Kendo *
Explaura *
Mat *
Min *
Moonlight Elf *
Vella *
MagicaPractica *
Keyala *
Jett *
Salvor *
Falling to Fly *
Skip *
Wildcard
Nirvana *
Fieryjen *
Stella *
LadyWhiteWolf
 
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Price limit- $10 like last year
Draw names- somewhere about the beginning of December
Some of us are over the pond.
Gift opening- not too close to Christmas, some people will be travelling.
Info? You have more idea than anyone else, SJ.
Anything else- We need more pics of SJ. :nana:
 
kendo1 said:
Price limit- $10 like last year
Draw names- somewhere about the beginning of December
Some of us are over the pond.
Gift opening- not too close to Christmas, some people will be travelling.
Info? You have more idea than anyone else, SJ.
Anything else- We need more pics of SJ. :nana:

Hahaha.

My thoughts on the topics-
I'm going to say 10-15. I know some of you exceeded that last year.

I'm glad you mentioned the over the pond aspect. When you send me your info, I'll need anyone who CAN'T ship out of country to tell me. That goes for everyone. It is going to cost more to ship, so people on a tight budget should let me know. No hard feelings, and no one will know but me.

Name drawing- I'd actually like that to happen sometime in November to give a little more time than last year, but that's just my opinion.

Gift opening- not my department, but it's something y'all will have to decide on so I can harass everyone appropriately about shipping.

Info- last year it was just like favorite things, favorite color. Is there anything that would have helped to know last year?

And for the pics- ha! like you haven't saved all my avs to your computer already! ;) :rolleyes:
 
Oops, I meant November for name drawing- mid to late.

I was rushing to get to the last statement.


And yes! I have them all safely stored.
 
Price limit makes no difference to me. I have no idea what I have in mind is going to cost, but I'm doin' it anyway and you can't stop me... ROFL. (I swear it will be under $30 if it even goes over $15 at all.) Color is VERY important to me for what I have in mind. Also, I vote for now or as soon as feasibly possible to draw (Or sneak me someone :D )... creation takes time. :devil:
 
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angelicminx said:
Price limit makes no difference to me. I have no idea what I have in mind is going to cost, but I'm doin' it anyway and you can't stop me... ROFL. (I swear it will be under $30 if it even goes over $15 at all.) Color is VERY important to me for what I have in mind. Also, I vote for now or as soon as feasibly possible to draw (Or sneak me someone :D )... creation takes time. :devil:


We're not super strict about the $; it's just a guideline so that someone doesn't spend alot of money and then get surprised by a smaller gift in return. Also helps to give people a budgeted amount to plan for.
 
im with da gang here.
10 limit though i know ill go over. i can't help it.
dont care when they are opened. i know we all tried to do so on the same day and that was difficult. im thinking if its in the same week, that would be fantastic.
 
Oh! One of the things I know I'll want from people- if they have any peculiar things like alergies to foods or perfumes, etc. I can't remember the situation, but I know that came up last year. Also any particular things they enjoy, hobbies, interests, etc.
 
kendo1 said:
Price limit- $10 like last year
Draw names- somewhere about the beginning of December
Some of us are over the pond.
Gift opening- not too close to Christmas, some people will be travelling.
Info? You have more idea than anyone else, SJ.
Anything else- We need more pics of SJ. :nana:
This all sounds good to me except we need to draw now so there is more lead time.....


and those pictures of SJ need to be neky ones..... :devil: :D ;)
 
As to information being given out - maybe the participants who want to could write a few sentences about themselves to turn in with their info, if they collect anything, are fans of any sports or teams - whatever may not be generally known about them on the boards that may help in finding a gift.

Is it possible set the gift sending deadline early or can I ask for special circumstances? I am moving on or after the 15th of December and I have no clue yet what my new adress will be :eek: I realize though that this may not be fair to whoever will have to be my secret santa.

I just considered this, so if this is too difficult to work with, I can withdraw.
 
I intend to research my recipient thoroughly through previous posts but perhaps you could ask about sexual preferences, fetishes and quirks (only what the person wants to own up to.) Just thinking I wouldn't want to send BBW pics to someone who would prefer foot fetish stories. :rose:
 
MagicaPractica said:
I intend to research my recipient thoroughly through previous posts but perhaps you could ask about sexual preferences, fetishes and quirks (only what the person wants to own up to.) Just thinking I wouldn't want to send BBW pics to someone who would prefer foot fetish stories. :rose:
I was planning to do that too, actually, but I know that I have many hobbies that I've never ever posted about that would make it a lot easier for someone to find me a gift.

Good point about the fetishes :)
 
fieryjen said:
As to information being given out - maybe the participants who want to could write a few sentences about themselves to turn in with their info, if they collect anything, are fans of any sports or teams - whatever may not be generally known about them on the boards that may help in finding a gift.

Is it possible set the gift sending deadline early or can I ask for special circumstances? I am moving on or after the 15th of December and I have no clue yet what my new adress will be :eek: I realize though that this may not be fair to whoever will have to be my secret santa.

I just considered this, so if this is too difficult to work with, I can withdraw.

I have no doubt we can work it out.
In fact, that's another thing that people should tell me- if they have any date issues, needing to be later or earlier because of other circumstances.
 
angelicminx said:
Price limit makes no difference to me. I have no idea what I have in mind is going to cost, but I'm doin' it anyway and you can't stop me... ROFL. (I swear it will be under $30 if it even goes over $15 at all.) Color is VERY important to me for what I have in mind. Also, I vote for now or as soon as feasibly possible to draw (Or sneak me someone :D )... creation takes time. :devil:

What she said. :D
 
Not much point calling it a limit, if people are alreay planning to exceed it. Maybe go with around a 10-15 dollar suggested present amount. Some gifts won't have an actual price anyway. Home made gifts are all about the time spent on 'em :)

Draw names in the last week of November to give those who need it a bit of a head start. I know I'd like to besure my item would reach someone in time being abroad from most of the other players :)


Gift opening? well it will have to be a week or so before Christmas I guess, so say around the 18th?


Info -well the allergy thing is a good one, but i can't think of anything else new right now, byt then it is 2.34am!
 
I say we draw names mid-to-late November. No later than the 25th.

As for opening gifts, I'm flexible. Don't matter to me. :) (Just so long as we do it on or before Christmas day!)

SJ- do you need our information now?
 
English Lady said:
Not much point calling it a limit, if people are alreay planning to exceed it. Maybe go with around a 10-15 dollar suggested present amount. Some gifts won't have an actual price anyway. Home made gifts are all about the time spent on 'em :)

Draw names in the last week of November to give those who need it a bit of a head start. I know I'd like to besure my item would reach someone in time being abroad from most of the other players :)


Gift opening? well it will have to be a week or so before Christmas I guess, so say around the 18th?


Info -well the allergy thing is a good one, but i can't think of anything else new right now, byt then it is 2.34am!

I would draw names much sooner than the last week of November. For those of us *ahem* who handmake gifts, we need much more lead time to take into account gender, color preferences, etc. - especially if the name we draw is overseas.

I was actually thinking that it might be a good idea to draw names the end of this week/beginning of next. I truly need that much time. :eek:
 
cloudy said:
I would draw names much sooner than the last week of November. For those of us *ahem* who handmake gifts, we need much more lead time to take into account gender, color preferences, etc. - especially if the name we draw is overseas.

I was actually thinking that it might be a good idea to draw names the end of this week/beginning of next. I truly need that much time. :eek:

That was my thought as well. I had hoped we'd iron out the details this week, and then I can have y'all pick numbers the beginning of next week. I just wanted to make sure that wasn't going to be too early for y'all.

McK-I'll probably ask for the info at the end of this week, so that we can figure out what info you all want to get/give. I'd hate for everyone to have to pm me 3 or 4 times to get it all.
 
cloudy said:
I would draw names much sooner than the last week of November. For those of us *ahem* who handmake gifts, we need much more lead time to take into account gender, color preferences, etc. - especially if the name we draw is overseas.

I was actually thinking that it might be a good idea to draw names the end of this week/beginning of next. I truly need that much time. :eek:

ahhh good point. we'll we're already on the 7th so next week is mid november. Maybe next thurs/friday if it's possible?
 
Okay here's my addition to the info list:

Favorite color/ colors...

Piercings? Where? :devil:

Allergies, including metal (think jewelery)

Clothing sizes

Hair length and color

Hand size (S, M, L, XL)

Shoe size

Hobbies

Favorite author

Music preferences

Married/ single/ attached (Name of spouse or SO?)

Children? Ages? Names?
(How personal do we want to allow on personalized gifts?)

Sports teams? (Nascar, football, baseball, basketball, etc.)

Occupation?

Favorite perfume?

Favorite bubblebath (scent, brand, etc.)?

Repulsive scents?



I can't think of anything else at the moment, though I'm sure there's more.
 
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