Secret Exhibitionism

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[Lucy_Lastic]

If you're lying to her, it's cheating. You know it is or you wouldn't ask.

I've always been a nude pool bunny (elsewhere when necessary but I virtually grew up in a swimming pool). I got a little anxious about it during puberty, but not for long.

I can tell you about the first experience of a friend though. There's a couple I've played with a few times. He's early 60s, she's 40 and best described as an SSBBW. She's a bit girl. She also suffers from extreme anxiety. Mike (male half) persuaded her to try a local nudist spa, and she only agreed because several friends were going including one who's as big as she is. I went along with them.

She drove. Her anxiety was high during the drive. She was anxious about the route, Anxious about parking. Anxious about being seen going in. She was a mess.

BUT the moment she was inside, she undressed without a care in the world. Other people there were all shapes and sizes, all ages (adults only). She found out she felt less anxious naked than if she was in a swimsuit.

If you want to go, talk to your wife. Don't cheat. Is it really that important to you?

 

[djole_i_mira]

She also happens to be relatively anxious in social situations or prefers to avoid them.

This I think is tthe problem here.

Going to a nude resort usually means going nude, but not necessarily for women. Usually topples is fine, and if she is with you being nude, I think that that would be fine, even if she wasn't toples might be, if she was on board with seeing other people nude....

When people are anxious it helps to ease them in with some pleasantries, jokes; the promise of fun. But if the anxiety is very high then.... a promise of something, a "bribe" might work?

Sometimes people just need an "out" for things, like: "I would never.... .... But he promised to buy me diner, .... eat me out from dusk till dawn; ... how could I refuse?"

After her first experience, she might like it more then you. Are you ready for that?

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Think about it before you go alone for the first time. Even having ice cream behind someone's back is cheating.... the difference is the level of offense that someone takes.

 

[slightlysubhub]

This I think is tthe problem here.

Going to a nude resort usually means going nude, but not necessarily for women. Usually topples is fine, and if she is with you being nude, I think that that would be fine, even if she wasn't toples might be, if she was on board with seeing other people nude....

When people are anxious it helps to ease them in with some pleasantries, jokes; the promise of fun. But if the anxiety is very high then.... a promise of something, a "bribe" might work?

Sometimes people just need an "out" for things, like: "I would never.... .... But he promised to buy me diner, .... eat me out from dusk till dawn; ... how could I refuse?"

After her first experience, she might like it more then you. Are you ready for that?

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Think about it before you go alone for the first time. Even having ice cream behind someone's back is cheating.... the difference is the level of offense that someone takes.

If you're lying to her, it's cheating. You know it is or you wouldn't ask.

I've always been a nude pool bunny (elsewhere when necessary but I virtually grew up in a swimming pool). I got a little anxious about it during puberty, but not for long.

I can tell you about the first experience of a friend though. There's a couple I've played with a few times. He's early 60s, she's 40 and best described as an SSBBW. She's a bit girl. She also suffers from extreme anxiety. Mike (male half) persuaded her to try a local nudist spa, and she only agreed because several friends were going including one who's as big as she is. I went along with them.

She drove. Her anxiety was high during the drive. She was anxious about the route, Anxious about parking. Anxious about being seen going in. She was a mess.

BUT the moment she was inside, she undressed without a care in the world. Other people there were all shapes and sizes, all ages (adults only). She found out she felt less anxious naked than if she was in a swimsuit.

If you want to go, talk to your wife. Don't cheat. Is it really that important to you?

I appreciate your replies,I definitely understand where you’re coming from. I’m sure everyone likes to think certain acts are considered cheating. I’m asking out of a curiosity,even if I’m not having sex with anyone but simply exploring nudism with others,socializing and talking that would still be considered cheating?
Is it cheating if I’m nude alone but camping or hiking? I don’t mean to be indignant or trying to excuse my behavior but I love to explore my exhibitionist side. Would it be much different if I were to get drinks with others without my wife?
I’m a bit selfish in all honesty,I want to be nude and I want to explore it how I want but not to get away from anyone.

 

[djole_i_mira]

Even having ice cream behind someone's back is cheating.... the difference is the level of offense that someone takes.

As to the aspect of cheating on your partner.

Doing things behind their back is considered cheating. Doing things that are outside of the norm of expectations.

Going to work isn't cheating, having lunch isn't. Being naked at work having lunch isnt normal, and if you get home and tell them how it all came to be, it wouldnt be cheating, but if you keep it to yourself, then it is.

Hiking isn't, but saying that you are going fishing and then you go hiking, weeeellllll.... and then you are naked, and then .....

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We are all on our own in this world, we find someone to share our journey and it makes the journey worthwhile; sometimes you have to make sacrifices, and sometimes you have to find someone else to keep you company on your way.

If the one you are with is not able to follow you, help them. If they don't want to follow you, think about the direction that you are going, do you really want to go there? If you do, and they don't, then think about changing direction or your partner.

But I wouldnt go left and say that i'm going right, just for the sake of going right no matter how appealing it might seem. Because it is just one turn and life is full of them. On the next one you might be the one that is deceived and are you going to forgive? How much will you lose for that one drop of ink that might color the whole glass of life?

 

[djole_i_mira]

As to the aspect of nudity,

Being nude should be normal, getting aroused also. But many people are too conservative to accept it.

Insisting on being nude as often as it is possible for you with your partner, might help them overcome their shyness and grow to accept it.

Ask for them to be nude with you, if not nude to be more casual, wear the least amount of clothing, skimpy skirts, shorts, crop-tops.

Sometimes the sexual aspect is in the way, so plain clothes, big T shirts, plain panties and so. Until they get comfortable. Then press it further, have patience and you might succeed.

Sometimes the barriers are just too strong and they won't fall, but you never know....

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I wrote a multipart story about a religious woman that was having trouble with accepting her sexuality, and what her husband did to 'make' her overcome it.

The story is called "About me", posted here. I wrote it from her point of view and it might be something that might interest you on the topic of nudity in the house, exibitionism, sexual awakenings...

Cheers, and good luck.

 

[slightlysubhub]

As to the aspect of nudity,

Being nude should be normal, getting aroused also. But many people are too conservative to accept it.

Insisting on being nude as often as it is possible for you with your partner, might help them overcome their shyness and grow to accept it.

Ask for them to be nude with you, if not nude to be more casual, wear the least amount of clothing, skimpy skirts, shorts, crop-tops.

Sometimes the sexual aspect is in the way, so plain clothes, big T shirts, plain panties and so. Until they get comfortable. Then press it further, have patience and you might succeed.

Sometimes the barriers are just too strong and they won't fall, but you never know....

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I wrote a multipart story about a religious woman that was having trouble with accepting her sexuality, and what her husband did to 'make' her overcome it.

The story is called "About me", posted here. I wrote it from her point of view and it might be something that might interest you on the topic of nudity in the house, exibitionism, sexual awakenings...

Cheers, and good luck.

Thanks so much! I really like your insight on this.
I also love to hear about anyone else’s experiences with going nude for the first time m front of others. I know I mentioned if you all would consider it cheating and I feel like technically it would fall in line with that. Although not physically(sexually) cheating,I can see where being misleading would definitely be cheating. I don’t claim to be a good person and still would like to try this for my own selfish desires,I just really want to be open with myself. It doesn’t matter if no one else I know would support it,I think I’m just a selfish,over sexed individual

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

I I’m sure everyone likes to think certain acts are considered cheating.

Don't minimise. I don't 'like to think' that lying to your wife is cheating. You tell me what it is. And tell me what your wife would think if she found out you were indulging in an activity behind her back. Her likely reaction would be 'If there's nothing going on, why is he lying about it?'.

If you don't feel like you can be honest with her, don't do it. If you don't think you can present the case for you doing nude shit without her, or can't persuade her to dip a toe in the water, don't do it.

 

[slightlysubhub]

Don't minimise. I don't 'like to think' that lying to your wife is cheating. You tell me what it is. And tell me what your wife would think if she found out you were indulging in an activity behind her back. Her likely reaction would be 'If there's nothing going on, why is he lying about it?'.

If you don't feel like you can be honest with her, don't do it. If you don't think you can present the case for you doing nude shit without her, or can't persuade her to dip a toe in the water, don't do it.

I guess that also puts into question wether or not it’s cheating if I’m online here at all. If I choose to converse with people about sex would that he considered cheating. Is it ok to discuss sex and similar topics online without her knowing? I feel like any thing we do online or in real mide
Is it considered cheating if I masturbate to porn but don’t tell her? So if I choose to go to a nudist camp and go nude to swim and layout and not even touch anyone else I’m not sure if that would qualify. If masturbated so many places that aren’t in my home and my wife hasn’t known about. I don’t think that is cheating even if I’m withholding my whereabouts

 

[aego99x]

Personally I can’t get enough of being nude as often as possible but as of right now it’s only really ever been at home or brief moments on the back porch on hot summer nights. I’ve never been to a nude beach or resort either. My wife is very sexually open and appreciates the nude form and has an absolutely stunning body which I want to see nude constantly. She also happens to be relatively anxious in social situations or prefers to avoid them. The issue(if I should call it) is that I want to venture out to experience more public nudity on my own without her.

It seems like she wouldn’t be on board which is perfectly fine but I want to try it. As I stated in another thread,there is a swingers club/nudist retreat somewhat close to us in a rural area. It offers nude sunbathing/pool recreation areas and a back lawn with plenty of open space and both singles/couples or groups are welcome.

That being said I suppose I’m asking for opinions on the secrecy of going alone. I’m not there to have sex with anyone although it is definitely welcome and encouraged at this location. I simply want to enjoy being nude in a more open place with others that enjoy it too. I love being nude,I love to look at other nude people. I also enjoy the sexual side of it too,I wouldn’t be ashamed if I end up having erections or even pleasuring myself if the mood strikes.

Would you all consider this a form of cheating or even something to be ashamed of? I’m technically trying it out for the first time this weekend after I head out of town to have my car worked on. My wife wouldn’t know because I suppose I’m a bit embarrassed to tell her I want to enjoy a day out in the nude with others like me. There is also a part that loves the thrill of it.

Any opinions or sharing about your first time nudist experiences would be appreciated. Were you nervous? Who were you with? Did you become arroused? Was that embarrassing at all?

My wife and I are what you'd call polar opposites when it comes to being nude. I would be nude as much as possible, where she doesn't even go to bed naked. That said, she knows how I am and seems to be okay with it.

I try and grab some nude sun-time at home and I've been to a couple of nudist retreats (just day passes) to enjoy the pool and sun. I've even walked some of the trails. I've done it alone and found it rather relaxing. I'm currently planning on trying a different location in a couple of weeks for National Nude Day (7/14).

My first time was a but stressful - not sure how to act, etc. I think my nerves keep me from getting hard - at least thus far. Haven't been anywhere yet where any "play-time" was in view, so that may have been a factor, too.

As for your wife - be honest with her. You may get a bit of a thrill by keeping it a secret, but it may backfire on you. She may not be that excited that you want to try it alone, but she'll be downright pissed if she finds out down the road that you hid it from her. Of course - this is just my opinion and you need to decide what's best for yourself.

Edit - And your wife may surprise you and be willing to go. As was said earlier - these places are usually clothing optional, unless you're getting in the pool, so she can bare as she dares.

I wish you well on your first time...
Don't forget the sunscreen!

 

[slightlysubhub]

My wife and I are what you'd call polar opposites when it comes to being nude. I would be nude as much as possible, where she doesn't even go to bed naked. That said, she knows how I am and seems to be okay with it.

I try and grab some nude sun-time at home and I've been to a couple of nudist retreats (just day passes) to enjoy the pool and sun. I've even walked some of the trails. I've done it alone and found it rather relaxing. I'm currently planning on trying a different location in a couple of weeks for National Nude Day (7/14).

My first time was a but stressful - not sure how to act, etc. I think my nerves keep me from getting hard - at least thus far. Haven't been anywhere yet where any "play-time" was in view, so that may have been a factor, too.

As for your wife - be honest with her. You may get a bit of a thrill by keeping it a secret, but it may backfire on you. She may not be that excited that you want to try it alone, but she'll be downright pissed if she finds out down the road that you hid it from her. Of course - this is just my opinion and you need to decide what's best for yourself.

Edit - And your wife may surprise you and be willing to go. As was said earlier - these places are usually clothing optional, unless you're getting in the pool, so she can bare as she dares.

I wish you well on your first time...
Don't forget the sunscreen!

Thanks so much for the words! Yeah I think I could convince her to potentially but I think although she’s very open sexually she seems to only prefer activities like this in the privacy of home. I’m the opposite and much more exhibitionist,i want to be nude. Would love to show off,il not well endowed but I am very comfortable with my body.
I agree,I think she would be pissed finding out later on rather than immediately so I think that’s a mistake im willing to push through for the sake of my selfishness for the experience.

 

[aego99x]

Thanks so much for the words! Yeah I think I could convince her to potentially but I think although she’s very open sexually she seems to only prefer activities like this in the privacy of home. I’m the opposite and much more exhibitionist,i want to be nude. Would love to show off,il not well endowed but I am very comfortable with my body.
I agree,I think she would be pissed finding out later on rather than immediately so I think that’s a mistake im willing to push through for the sake of my selfishness for the experience.

I'm not well endowed either, and that's probably why it took me so long to finally try it. I'm also getting too old to care what anyone else thinks. LOL

I wish you luck if you keep it secret. Only other suggestion I'd off is that, should you try it and like it, tell her you tried it to see how it was and to see if you liked it enough to suggest it to her. That might mitigate some of the potential blow-back of you hiding it. Just a thought.

Side Note - If you're in or near Northeast Georgia, private message me, as we may be looking at going to the same place.

 

[slightlysubhub]

I'm not well endowed either, and that's probably why it took me so long to finally try it. I'm also getting too old to care what anyone else thinks. LOL

I wish you luck if you keep it secret. Only other suggestion I'd off is that, should you try it and like it, tell her you tried it to see how it was and to see if you liked it enough to suggest it to her. That might mitigate some of the potential blow-back of you hiding it. Just a thought.

Side Note - If you're in or near Northeast Georgia, private message me, as we may be looking at going to the same place.

Yeah I’m very hopeful that it will go well and pretty excited. I’ve heard good things about this place,it seems very welcoming. I do think if I like it and want to go back then I’ll bring it up to my wife. I really do want her to try it someday just in her own time.
I’m actually near Pittsburgh.

 

[aego99x]

Have a great time and keep us posted on how things go, sir...

 

[YourSecretDesires]

Would you all consider this a form of cheating or even something to be ashamed of? I’m technically trying it out for the first time this weekend after I head out of town to have my car worked on. My wife wouldn’t know because I suppose I’m a bit embarrassed to tell her I want to enjoy a day out in the nude with others like me. There is also a part that loves the thrill of it.

Any opinions or sharing about your first time nudist experiences would be appreciated. Were you nervous? Who were you with? Did you become arroused? Was that embarrassing at all?

Only you can answer the first question. Everyone and every couple is different. For example, I went to a masseuse a few months back while traveling and was naked. I didn't tell my partner about it. There would be no benefit to either of us in that. If she did the same it probably wouldn't bother me.

As for nudism - first time I was a bit nervous. I went to a beach alone. Once I got naked it was great and a bit exhilarating. I was a young piece of ass at the time (maybe 30) and had a great body. Lots of looks and some gawkers (the gawkers were passers-by who weren't nude but curious). I loved it.

 

[slightlysubhub]

Only you can answer the first question. Everyone and every couple is different. For example, I went to a masseuse a few months back while traveling and was naked. I didn't tell my partner about it. There would be no benefit to either of us in that. If she did the same it probably wouldn't bother me.

As for nudism - first time I was a bit nervous. I went to a beach alone. Once I got naked it was great and a bit exhilarating. I was a young piece of ass at the time (maybe 30) and had a great body. Lots of looks and some gawkers (the gawkers were passers-by who weren't nude but curious). I loved it.

I’m definitely ready but still nervously excited about being nude in front of others. I’m a tall,broad guy,tattoos all over and relatively muscular as well so I do get a good bit of attention in public. I do daydream a bit about meeting some nice folks especially older women at the nudist retreat that give me a lot of attention. I wouldn’t mind if they’d want to chat me up and we could help eachother apply the sunscreen.

 

[HampshireBoy]

I realise that this is a slight tangent from the discussion.

My wife is has real body issues, apparently her first husband never saw her naked in over twenty years of marriage and I have rarely seen her completely naked. She is however comfortable with my nudity and accepting of my naturist tendencies. I have a few naturist friends that we spend time with, either together or sometimes on my own, on those occasions she is either fully dressed or in a swim dress. It took her a while to be comfortable like this, but being with a small number of friends seems to be ok.

We've also gone to naturist beaches, me naked and her in a swim dress, and she has enjoyed the experience. She has admitted that she has enjoyed seeing the naked bodies. Unfortunately our second stay at a naturist campsite wasn't as good, she felt uncomfortable as the only clothed person and felt that people stared at her. It is important that you both are comfortable no matter what.

TBH I was surprised that when I got an erection on the beach my wife wasn't bothered, in fact she seemed to get turned on by it. She also was the one that noticed another woman giving her husband a BJ and moved us closer to watch.

Personally I wouldn't go somewhere without telling her, preferably before though sometimes I've gone on an impulse and told her afterwards, I wouldn't necessarily regard it as "cheating" but IMO honesty is the best policy. My wife knows that, for me, it is about enjoying being naked myself with like minded people and not about seeing other people naked and sex - it took a while to convince her of that.

 

[Up4fun&69]

There are so many "angles" and "levels" to this issue. And everyone here has shared some good experiences and advice. Let me throw in my two cents.
I'm a lifelong nudist since an early age. It wasn't sexual. It just felt wonderful.
I met my ex-wife at work. Nude pool use was the norm as she was growing up. In college, she spent 3 months with a nudist family in Austria. Back in the states, she enjoyed going nude whenever she could, including leading after dark skinny dip sessions at our company picnic. But her driver was exhibitionism and the sexual attention her body got from men and women.
In dating and then living together, we lived in a secluded wooded home with a swimming hole. Naked inside and out. But when we got serious, there were changes. First, without telling me, she went to a boyfriend's home to break it off, but spent the whole day naked with him at his pool. As she went on 4-day work trips without me, she spent time with co-workers and customers nude at after-dinner swims and hot tub sessions. And she'd spend time with old friends—going to parties, ski and beach vacations, etc.—sharing nude times. And more.
The point is, she loved nudity because of the attention and, in some cases she later admitted after our divorce (for other reasons), these nude times led to physical contact and making out, and also some one-night flings.
So, my question to the original poster is, "Where does the "cheating" begin? Some raised some good points. But you yourself started this as a proposition of going to a nude beach alone and to watch people. But in a later entry said you wouldn't mind helping each other apply sunscreen. Do you think applying sunscreen to another woman's ass, breasts, or pussy is fine? Or her applying it to your cock is acceptable? Put yourself in your wife's shoes and the answer should be clear. And even if some may say it isn't cheating, going from just being nude to then having some physical contact just shows that this is a slippery slope (pun intended) and one thing can lead to others.
I'd also add this: People change. In my ex's case, as she got older starting in her late 40s, she shunned nude times because her body changed. She didn't get the attention that she used to. That was uncomfortable for her. As I said, it was more about the attention than it was about being nude. And with the years, I've yo-yoed with added weight. I don't like the way I look now but I still love being nude, alone or with others, because it's about the feeling. I've even introduced past GFs and just friends, some of whom like your wife were very open to nudity and sexual openness at home but not in a social situation, to the joys of skinny dipping, of going to nude beaches, and spending time at nudist resorts.
So everyone is different. In time and with loving support and finding ways to introduce more social nudism experiences to your wife, she may change. But the core here seems to be, what are your true objectives? Are you doing this "first step" to enjoy nudity, or to get something that you may not be getting from your wife? Where does it lead? Where does it stop? You have to be hones with yourself and your wife. Otherwise, it can be a huge mess.

 

[svengali_decL]

Keep trying, dont get caught (ie arrested) and be honest that you need that 'freedom',
works for kids.
WouldN'T waste time on naysayers round here, they'll drive more depression than help__

 

[davion2308]

I'll be a new voice in the conversation.

If you're doing something that would upset her, and you're not discussing it, it's not 'cheating' so much as just doing something that'll hurt her feelings. Just because you're not cheating, exactly, doesn't mean you're not making a good decision within the framework of the relationship. I'm not cheating on my wife if I go to the bar and get a drink with an old coworker who confessed to having a crush on me a few years ago. Nothing's going to happen. We're not going to kiss, or touch each other, or 'cheat.'

But my wife is going to be pissed and it's going to stress and fray our relationship and marriage.

Same goes here. If you're embarrassed to talk it about, that's one thing. If you're hiding it because you know she won't approve or she'll have concerns, that's something entirely different. I don't know her reaction, nor your motivation beyond what you said but you should tell her what you're interested in and why. Sit down and explain. Social nudity isn't tied directly to sexuality but if you're struggling to see a difference, maybe it is an issue. Either way, tell her before you make a move and go. That's just respectful, especially if you think she might have concerns or a negative reaction.

 

[Uplate2024]

Thanks so much! I really like your insight on this.
I also love to hear about anyone else’s experiences with going nude for the first time m front of others. I know I mentioned if you all would consider it cheating and I feel like technically it would fall in line with that. Although not physically(sexually) cheating,I can see where being misleading would definitely be cheating. I don’t claim to be a good person and still would like to try this for my own selfish desires,I just really want to be open with myself. It doesn’t matter if no one else I know would support it,I think I’m just a selfish,over sexed individual

Problem for me is I get hard when I know people are watching, so it’s embarrassing.

 

[HornyBiCrossdresser]

Personally I can’t get enough of being nude as often as possible but as of right now it’s only really ever been at home or brief moments on the back porch on hot summer nights. I’ve never been to a nude beach or resort either. My wife is very sexually open and appreciates the nude form and has an absolutely stunning body which I want to see nude constantly. She also happens to be relatively anxious in social situations or prefers to avoid them. The issue(if I should call it) is that I want to venture out to experience more public nudity on my own without her.

It seems like she wouldn’t be on board which is perfectly fine but I want to try it. As I stated in another thread,there is a swingers club/nudist retreat somewhat close to us in a rural area. It offers nude sunbathing/pool recreation areas and a back lawn with plenty of open space and both singles/couples or groups are welcome.

That being said I suppose I’m asking for opinions on the secrecy of going alone. I’m not there to have sex with anyone although it is definitely welcome and encouraged at this location. I simply want to enjoy being nude in a more open place with others that enjoy it too. I love being nude,I love to look at other nude people. I also enjoy the sexual side of it too,I wouldn’t be ashamed if I end up having erections or even pleasuring myself if the mood strikes.

Would you all consider this a form of cheating or even something to be ashamed of? I’m technically trying it out for the first time this weekend after I head out of town to have my car worked on. My wife wouldn’t know because I suppose I’m a bit embarrassed to tell her I want to enjoy a day out in the nude with others like me. There is also a part that loves the thrill of it.

Any opinions or sharing about your first time nudist experiences would be appreciated. Were you nervous? Who were you with? Did you become arroused? Was that embarrassing at all?

You really shouldn’t lie to her, that’s how trouble starts. But maybe for the first time, some reconnaissance at the nudie camp, and to get an idea of how you’ll feel there, I say Go For It. Go get naked!

 

[svengali_decL]

Keep trying, dont get caught (ie arrested) and be honest that you need that 'freedom',
works for kids.
WouldN'T waste time on naysayers round here, they'll drive more depression than help__

>>If you're lying to her, it's cheating.

Such perverse reaction to a non-related matter, anyway, just came to check and make sure you feel the confidence to crry on. Such dismissiveness isn't to be accepted.
You are not committing any crime.
Some, many, people won't want to know.
Others but cant help spew forth their bile and hatred on anyone else.
Look at just the last week- hundreds murdered by illegal force and all the capitalist press can do is spew on about a failed politician, or two...

 

[Illgiveitatry1]

I realise that this is a slight tangent from the discussion.

My wife is has real body issues, apparently her first husband never saw her naked in over twenty years of marriage and I have rarely seen her completely naked. She is however comfortable with my nudity and accepting of my naturist tendencies. I have a few naturist friends that we spend time with, either together or sometimes on my own, on those occasions she is either fully dressed or in a swim dress. It took her a while to be comfortable like this, but being with a small number of friends seems to be ok.

We've also gone to naturist beaches, me naked and her in a swim dress, and she has enjoyed the experience. She has admitted that she has enjoyed seeing the naked bodies. Unfortunately our second stay at a naturist campsite wasn't as good, she felt uncomfortable as the only clothed person and felt that people stared at her. It is important that you both are comfortable no matter what.

TBH I was surprised that when I got an erection on the beach my wife wasn't bothered, in fact she seemed to get turned on by it. She also was the one that noticed another woman giving her husband a BJ and moved us closer to watch.

Personally I wouldn't go somewhere without telling her, preferably before though sometimes I've gone on an impulse and told her afterwards, I wouldn't necessarily regard it as "cheating" but IMO honesty is the best policy. My wife knows that, for me, it is about enjoying being naked myself with like minded people and not about seeing other people naked and sex - it took a while to convince her of that.

That's hot that you and your friends are naked when your wife is around. Have you and your friends ever played when they're over and all of your naked?.

 

[HampshireBoy]

That's hot that you and your friends are naked when your wife is around. Have you and your friends ever played when they're over and all of your naked?.

Before I met my wife there was a bit of play but nothing too serious.