Secret Addiction

[Purple Haze]

I read a thread started by a guy who was having a major dillemna and needed help. I'm not going to point to it because its been since taken care of, thanks to the out-pouring of advice and support from people that "reside" here. Anyone that read through this one has to be as impressed as I am with how this board can swing from rib-splitting ridiculousness to the seriousness of child porn issues. Maybe that's why I'm addicted to this site, but something makes me want to recommend the Literotica BB to my friends. I don't think I can share it with my wife because she's going to want to know who I am, and if I don't tell her I'm keeping a secret. So my addiction remains my secret thing, my treehouse to go to, where I can say what I want and I can read some erotic stories about things I'd rather not disclose anywhere else. To make a short question long, I'm wondering if those of you married or commited people share this sight with your significant other, or is it more fun because you don't?

 

[teresafannin]

For now, this is my escape site. I love my guy dearly & would never do anything to hurt him. I have been through such a stressful year, I need a place that is mine alone, at least for awhile yet. We share everything else & will probably share this site at some point in time. One thing that this site has done for me is help put the intimacy back into our life. I had been so traumatized this past year that our love life suffered. He has been so patient & thanks to the ideas I have gotten here, I am able to put the sparks back in, so thank you everyone.

 

[Ambrosious]

No we don't share and it isn't a secret thing with us. I tried to get her interested, but she doesn't like having to check the board for updates to posts and such. Oh well, to each their own I guess.

 

[Isabella Thorne]

Addicted to Love

Well Haze dear ... my b/f knows bout my net life ... he even encouraged me to post my pics here ... we have no secrets ... actually that's cause he never gets jealous ... i often wish i could be more like him in that regard ... cause i do get jealous ...

.... and hey i couldn't imagine having more fun.
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You're just like crosstown traffic
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[Always]

i don't have a significant other. i don't even have an insignificant one. totally single.

 

[Adoratrice]

I think it is very sad that you don't , won't or can't share this with your wife. You said if you tell her about it but don't tell her who you are then your keeping a secret...well isn't comming here and not telling a secret anyway? I would hate to have to feel like I was "sneaking" and doing something behind my husbands back, that would take all the pleasure away. I know a lot of people look at porn without their partners knowledge and that in and of itself is not a big deal, but I think that is why so many couples are not truly in touch with each other. If you can't even share a site with the one you love than how can you be open about your dreams and fantasies? How can you know beyond a doubt that the one you love is honest with you?
I don't mean to sound "high on my horse" but I am very lucky to have started the relationship with my husband on a completly open and honest basis..no bullshit..no secrets..no games. I have been on the other side of the fence on this subject and trust me ...it sucks.

 

[Wizard]

I have to say some know my wife is skitten,and we both love this place it is fun to read the stories togethere what we like or dislike.
The board is a great place we have run ito many graet folks here and made many friends, even pissed a few off..........
But what I'm trying to say is that we have so much sharing this board with each other..........My wife knows who I am on the board and I her but she know what I'm like after 13 years so I'm not going to say or do something she would be surprised with.

Try it you just might find it could spice up your bedroom life ............I thought I did it all till I got some tought from here and just took our bedroom to the next level trying new stuff.........

Ok thats my peace.................

 

[Ambrosious]

Yeah, but if she don't have the interest, what can you do?

 

[Wizard]

Nothing ya can do............Skitten is not here ever night like some of us........Just something we enjoy togethere........But I don't hide the fact I'm here.....

 

[CreamyLady]

He knows. My family does, too.

I try not to hide it; what would be the point?

 

[Silverlily]

My husband knows, he's the one who introduced me to Literotica in the first place. He doesn't enjoy bulletin boards, but he does like the stories and pictures. (BTW, I've submitted some pictures of him, with his permission of course!). He knows my handle and how to look up any threads I am involved in.

We have always been very open about cybering. He plays, I play, we both know what the other is doing. The bottom line is regardless of what's been done on-line, off-line we are only with each other.

 

[Naked Hunny]

Hell my mother, father, stepmother, and best friend have visited this site. OK all the females came in search of info on Magic Powder. My father was just interested i never told him who i was but he knows my demeanor and has seen me go out so im pretty sure he guessed who i was. Do I care not really im old enough to make my own decisions. Would i want my father to join Lit umm nope no thank you and im sure he realizes that!!

 

[KillerMuffin]

The StudMuffin doesn't come here. He has the site address in his favorites on his puter if he wants to show up, but so far he hasn't wanted to. He is against porn nowdays, even "soft" stuff like erotic stories. I've recommended this place to my friends who were of age. I wish he would come here, but he won't. We can't seem to find a happy medium kind of place. I spend my time here, he hangs out at layover.com, which I just don't like. I'm not all that excited about the transportation industry.

 

[Cheyenne]

No one in my RL knows about Lit. This is my escape from RL. There is no husband or boyfriend in RL so I'm not keeping any secrets.