Your best chances to learn new things would probably be to Google and see if there are any BDSM organizations in your area, that hold regular munches (monthly get togethers to socialize), workshops, or see if there are any upcoming BDSM seminars/etc in the area.
The Library pinned at the top of the BDSM forum is quite extensive; I'm sure if you have any specific questions about various ideas/etc, threads on the subjects would be welcome.
If you ask me this sounds very much like a thinly veiled personals search to get sex and thrills. Perhaps I am getting a little more sceptical these days but it seems to me if you are entering into a relationship with someone, especially someone you say you are already involved with, you should be sharing those experiences with them, not strangers on the net. I am sure if she is aware of your inexperience and she is so experienced, she has taken it into account and accepted the responsibility and might even perhaps be looking forward to the experiences between you both and showing you the way. Sorry, it just sounds too much like a rort to get free sex and thrills to me and very little to do with entering a genuine relationship with another or anyone at all. If you are a virgin in the vanilla sense and entering a committed relationship with someone, do you advertise on the net for someone to rid you of your virginity before having sex with the person you have committed to?!!
OK, after finding a duplicate of this thread in Cafe I am certain it is a personal ad.....so I am busting it to where it belongs!! If you really are entering a relationship and it were with me and I saw this, I would send you on your way with a sigh of relief I found out sooner rather than later that you liked to also go elsewhere for what I had already offered in good faith. Good luck.
It most definitely is NOT a personal ad. If I wanted to write a personal ad I would have done so.
I just thought maybe I'd get a few pointers so I'd have some kind of frame of reference. I figured that this would be a safe, judgement free place to pick up a little advice. I guess not. Never mind.
All you've done is chase away a perfectly good new forum member. Screw off.