Searching in Northern Indiana/SW Lower Michigan

SirSensual

Really Really Experienced
Joined
Feb 18, 2010
Posts
478
About Me:
Married White, Male, Discreet and respectful. Born and raised in Northern Indiana currently reside in SW Lower Michigan. Drug and disease free and intend to remain that way. Sensual Dom/ Daddy Dom type. Enjoy the female form in all shapes and sizes but have a soft spot for submissive BBW’s.

I have been in the D/s lifestyle for over 25 years. This by no means should be an indication that “I know it all” because I am the first to admit that I do not! I push Myself to learn something new every year or to at least sharpen a skill I enjoy very much. When I first began in this lifestyle it was still very much a taboo so there were not very many people to talk to about the lifestyle. The internet has made it so much easier to find like-minded people but it has also allowed those who are just looking to “play the game” to sneak in and muck up the water. I have learned much on my journey but it is just that…a journey which means it is not finished and I am still learning.

I am a Sensual/Daddy Dom. I prefer the sensual side of the D/s relationship, however, that does not mean I do not know or understand the value of punishment. As a Sensual Dom I prefer to begin slowly and build the relationship through trust. I do not believe that your submission is something I can take or command you to give Me…it must be earned. I earn your submission through trust. I also prefer to build a sense of comfort and safety or security. If I want and expect you to fully give yourself to Me you must first trust Me and then be able to rest in the fact that I will protect you and see that no harm befalls you.

Finally, I have learned the value and need for aftercare. Part of every session I take part in is the aftercare. It is as important as the training/play in My mind. You need to know that, if I use your body for My pleasure I am going to take the time to see to your needs as well. Aftercare allows for this to happen at, arguably, the most important time in our play/training session. You need the time to cuddle in the arms of your Daddy to know He is there and you are safe and secure in His strong arms. One final word here before moving on. I am not a big stickler on protocol. In other words I prefer Daddy or Sir to Master. I do not expect your eyes to lower when I enter the room. In fact, I would rather see your eyes light up when I enter the room. The rest we can discussion so that your journey is the best possible experience it can be for you.

What/Who I Seek
I am looking for younger or inexperienced submissive for training and/or play. If this is you and you are into older, more experienced Dominant, then please, by all means, contact Me soon. This does not mean I will not look at a submissive with more experience. If the right submissive comes along then experience does not matter. I am not concerned with your vanilla life either. By this I mean I do not care if you are married, engaged or if you have a boyfriend. I will not interfere with your other relationships. I am not seeking drama for My own life or to cause drama in your life. However, if you need a discrete Dominant I am fine with that and we can work out the details.

What I enjoy/turn-on’s:
Large breasts; a smooth bald pussy; breast bondage; nipple play (clamps and clothes pins); spanking/flogging (including breast and pussy); anal play; oral (both giving and receiving); kissing (deep sensual kissing); orgasm control/denial; use of toys; mutual masturbation; public play; women in skirts/nylons/thigh highs/heels; blind folds and light bondage. I prefer a girly girl. One who enjoys pampering herself with a bubble bath and make up. I am a man and I enjoy a woman being a woman. This is not to be taken as chauvinistic but an appreciation for the gifts of a woman.

What I do not like/turn-off’s:
Smoking (I do not enjoy kissing an ashtray); drug usage of any kind; STD’s; poor hygiene; scat play; urine play; blood play; knife/gun play; animals (in play only); kids (in play only); tardiness without good cause; rudeness of any kind.

Anything else you would like to know please feel free to ask!
 
About Me:
Married White, Male, Discreet and respectful. Born and raised in Northern Indiana currently reside in SW Lower Michigan. Drug and disease free and intend to remain that way. Sensual Dom/ Daddy Dom type. Enjoy the female form in all shapes and sizes but have a soft spot for submissive BBW’s.

I have been in the D/s lifestyle for over 25 years. This by no means should be an indication that “I know it all” because I am the first to admit that I do not! I push Myself to learn something new every year or to at least sharpen a skill I enjoy very much. When I first began in this lifestyle it was still very much a taboo so there were not very many people to talk to about the lifestyle. The internet has made it so much easier to find like-minded people but it has also allowed those who are just looking to “play the game” to sneak in and muck up the water. I have learned much on my journey but it is just that…a journey which means it is not finished and I am still learning.

I am a Sensual/Daddy Dom. I prefer the sensual side of the D/s relationship, however, that does not mean I do not know or understand the value of punishment. As a Sensual Dom I prefer to begin slowly and build the relationship through trust. I do not believe that your submission is something I can take or command you to give Me…it must be earned. I earn your submission through trust. I also prefer to build a sense of comfort and safety or security. If I want and expect you to fully give yourself to Me you must first trust Me and then be able to rest in the fact that I will protect you and see that no harm befalls you.

Finally, I have learned the value and need for aftercare. Part of every session I take part in is the aftercare. It is as important as the training/play in My mind. You need to know that, if I use your body for My pleasure I am going to take the time to see to your needs as well. Aftercare allows for this to happen at, arguably, the most important time in our play/training session. You need the time to cuddle in the arms of your Daddy to know He is there and you are safe and secure in His strong arms. One final word here before moving on. I am not a big stickler on protocol. In other words I prefer Daddy or Sir to Master. I do not expect your eyes to lower when I enter the room. In fact, I would rather see your eyes light up when I enter the room. The rest we can discussion so that your journey is the best possible experience it can be for you.

What/Who I Seek
I am looking for younger or inexperienced submissive for training and/or play. If this is you and you are into older, more experienced Dominant, then please, by all means, contact Me soon. This does not mean I will not look at a submissive with more experience. If the right submissive comes along then experience does not matter. I am not concerned with your vanilla life either. By this I mean I do not care if you are married, engaged or if you have a boyfriend. I will not interfere with your other relationships. I am not seeking drama for My own life or to cause drama in your life. However, if you need a discrete Dominant I am fine with that and we can work out the details.

What I enjoy/turn-on’s:
Large breasts; a smooth bald pussy; breast bondage; nipple play (clamps and clothes pins); spanking/flogging (including breast and pussy); anal play; oral (both giving and receiving); kissing (deep sensual kissing); orgasm control/denial; use of toys; mutual masturbation; public play; women in skirts/nylons/thigh highs/heels; blind folds and light bondage. I prefer a girly girl. One who enjoys pampering herself with a bubble bath and make up. I am a man and I enjoy a woman being a woman. This is not to be taken as chauvinistic but an appreciation for the gifts of a woman.

What I do not like/turn-off’s:
Smoking (I do not enjoy kissing an ashtray); drug usage of any kind; STD’s; poor hygiene; scat play; urine play; blood play; knife/gun play; animals (in play only); kids (in play only); tardiness without good cause; rudeness of any kind.

Anything else you would like to know please feel free to ask!
Daddy, i come to you respectfully, asking if I meet your criteria. There is a lot of information in my profile but I will provide more if asked. Thank you for your time. J
 
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