Daddys_good_angel
Not your doormat.
- Joined
- Jan 20, 2021
- Posts
- 22
I told myself I would never do this. Yep. I would never post a personal ad on literotica. It's not because I think I'm better than that .. because I don't. It's not because I don't think the person for me is out there .. because I do. It's because I was worried about getting hurt .. of putting myself out there and being taken advantage of. But I'm older now .. older .. wiser .. and definitely more able and equipped to tell the difference between those who are serious and those who aren't.
If you want a quickie .. look elsewhere. I'm not judging those who are seeking that at all .. I'm just not a casual person. I identify as demisexual. If you don't know what that is .. Google it. If you can't be bothered to Google it .. then I'm not the girl for you.
I'm a 35 year old educated girl from the prison island (Australia) and yes .. I have the accent *chuckles* I'm poly and married .. if that's an issue, then fair call. But I have the full blessing of my husband to pursue an online D/s relationship.
I'm firstly submissive. Not a doormat. I have an opinion and yes .. I won't hold back telling you that. If I think you're being a dickhead .. I'll tell you. Respectfully of course .. but I'll still call you out on it. I love DDlg but it's not a requirement. But I enjoy and seek the sort of relationship that DDlg usually entails. I want someone, not to change my life, but enrich it.
Age doesn't bother me .. I've had relationships with men almost double my age. It's never been a problem. Married .. single .. again .. doesn't bother me. Just be honest to me about it. That's all I ask. I'm looking for longer term. I have online relationships last for a long time .. the longest was 6 years.
I won't send nudes right off the bat .. so don't ask. I want to build trust .. become comfortable with each other. Get to know each other on a basic level. What makes you tick? What are your interests? Does pineapple belong on pizza? *grins*
Kinks? Let's discuss those eventually .. but let's get to know one another first. I will list limits though .. again .. no judgement .. but these are things that don't float my boat; scat, vomit, water sports, anything illegal, permanent marks, using ignoring as a punishment, public humiliation or play.
I like the mental side of D/s. I like knowing I've made you proud of me. Yes .. I like praise. I like earning that praise. I'm looking for someone to not only enrich the sexual side of my life .. but all aspects of my life.
Some of you might read this and think .. yeah nah .. she sounds like hard work. And you know what? You're probably right. But something worth doing isn't always going to be easy.
If you want a quickie .. look elsewhere. I'm not judging those who are seeking that at all .. I'm just not a casual person. I identify as demisexual. If you don't know what that is .. Google it. If you can't be bothered to Google it .. then I'm not the girl for you.
I'm a 35 year old educated girl from the prison island (Australia) and yes .. I have the accent *chuckles* I'm poly and married .. if that's an issue, then fair call. But I have the full blessing of my husband to pursue an online D/s relationship.
I'm firstly submissive. Not a doormat. I have an opinion and yes .. I won't hold back telling you that. If I think you're being a dickhead .. I'll tell you. Respectfully of course .. but I'll still call you out on it. I love DDlg but it's not a requirement. But I enjoy and seek the sort of relationship that DDlg usually entails. I want someone, not to change my life, but enrich it.
Age doesn't bother me .. I've had relationships with men almost double my age. It's never been a problem. Married .. single .. again .. doesn't bother me. Just be honest to me about it. That's all I ask. I'm looking for longer term. I have online relationships last for a long time .. the longest was 6 years.
I won't send nudes right off the bat .. so don't ask. I want to build trust .. become comfortable with each other. Get to know each other on a basic level. What makes you tick? What are your interests? Does pineapple belong on pizza? *grins*
Kinks? Let's discuss those eventually .. but let's get to know one another first. I will list limits though .. again .. no judgement .. but these are things that don't float my boat; scat, vomit, water sports, anything illegal, permanent marks, using ignoring as a punishment, public humiliation or play.
I like the mental side of D/s. I like knowing I've made you proud of me. Yes .. I like praise. I like earning that praise. I'm looking for someone to not only enrich the sexual side of my life .. but all aspects of my life.
Some of you might read this and think .. yeah nah .. she sounds like hard work. And you know what? You're probably right. But something worth doing isn't always going to be easy.
