Searching for ... someone ... We'll see what happens.

[x_ShimmeR_x]

I'm a 25 year old submissive woman living in North Carolina. I'm looking for a real life Dominant. I am bisexual so gender is ultimately not an issue but for a D/s situation I lean more towards males.

I am submissive by nature, but I believe that true D/s has to evolve through trust. If you are looking for someone to be perfectly obedient and unquestioning from the beginning of the relationship, I am probably not the girl for you. Once that trust is built up, I have very few hard limits but several soft ones that I would like to push and explore with the right person. The right person does not have to mean that I'm looking for the right person to be with for the rest of my life, but simply a person that shares the same needs as I do at this particular point in time.

At this time, I am not looking for an online relationship. Once again, I'm not looking down on anyone who wants that. Its just not for me. I do not have a webcam nor do I have a digital camera and at the time I am just not in the position to buy these things. I am also not able to relocate permanently but driving within 100 miles or so would not be an issue. I am also not interested in a person who is married or otherwise 'committed'. Its not that I'm against polyamory, but I've had bad experiences in the past and I'm just not ready to go back there right now.

Also, I am not considered a BBW but I am hardly model thin, either. I am 'healthy', 'curvy', 'thick', 'voluptuous' ... whatever we're calling it these days. Just putting that out there because I know that physical size is very important to some people.

I do have some experience, but I haven't not had any sort of 'formal training', although I am certainly not opposed to it.

If you've read all this and you're still interested, PM me. And even if you don't think we'd be compatible sexually, I'm always open to making a new friend.

 

[Exavier]

Hmm... Sounds like you have a good idea on what you're looking for and all. I wish you luck in finding it hun.

 

[Scarlet Dawna]

You do seem like you know exactly what you're looking for, which in the personals section is both a curse and a blessing, dear. Even though it doesn't sound like you're painting an unrealistic picture here. Good luck sweetie.

Oh, and by the way, you are simply gorgeous (if that's your pic) so I'm sure you'll find someone! Be patient.

 

[DarkSteven]

You do seem like you know exactly what you're looking for, which in the personals section is both a curse and a blessing, dear. Even though it doesn't sound like you're painting an unrealistic picture here. Good luck sweetie.

Oh, and by the way, you are simply gorgeous (if that's your pic) so I'm sure you'll find someone! Be patient.

I agree with everything Scarlet Dawna said. Now how the hell do I convnice you that Colorado is within 100 miles of you?

 

[x_ShimmeR_x]

I agree with everything Scarlet Dawna said. Now how the hell do I convnice you that Colorado is within 100 miles of you?

I suppose every hundred miles or so, you could keep telling me, "Just a little farther down the road ..." I could probably fall for it at least 15 times, or pretend to, at least.