Searching for an online Dom

[kasie_mai]

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[nightangel017]

I might be interested. I'll send you a pm as soon as I post this reply.

 

[JupitersGirl]

Hi kasie. I just wanted to welcome you to lit personals.

 

[Bengal52]

As a prospective dom, I feel I should state my intentions here as well. Pm has been sent.

 

[RawHumor]

Good luck.

Take your time. Don't jump at the first guy who sends you a PM.

And if anyone sends you a message claiming to be your new Master/Dom/whatever before you've even interacted with him, just assume he's a moronic asshat and delete the message.

 

[kasie_mai]

Hey

Thank you for the advice.....

....and for the welcome. Glad i pushed the submit reply button now.

 

[RawHumor]

Thank you for the advice.....

....and for the welcome. Glad i pushed the submit reply button now.

You're welcome.

There are a LOT of predatory men out there just looking for women who are new to BDSM. So be careful. Take your time. Find the guy who's right for you.

A lot of bullies and abusive men will use BDSM as a cover to get away with shit that they couldn't get away with otherwise. Be selective.

 

[Luv2GetUWet]

Thank you for the advice.....

....and for the welcome. Glad i pushed the submit reply button now.

 

[bitterdecadence]

Twists & turns

My name is kasie,

I am just starting out on this journey and I would really like an online Dom to show me my way.
I can't phone you (not won't...can't as I am deaf) I am happy to use messenger and maybe webcam in time.
I have felt submissive for as long as i can remember, i have never acted on these feelings and so am really inexperienced.
I have replied once before to an advert for an online subbie, but the man who made contact was most rude and abusive. I aint a doormat. It has taken me about 4 months to pluck up the courage to post this.

*sigh* now i dont want to press the *submit* button....

i have replied to one Dom who was offering to train a subbie, but i noticed he isnt looking any more.

if you think you can help me...and if you are not looking for a doormat, maybe send me a message.

kasie

Kasie,

Welcome & congratulations on summoning up the courage to post here!

May I suggest you read as much as you can & chat to as many people, both doms & subs as you can both here & on other sites also. As you discovered many doms can be pushy & abusive, but there are a great many friendly people around involved in this lifestyle.

As you learn more it will absorb you even further!

I'm an older, intelligent & respectful dom who would be happy to chat with you.

I wish you well on your journey!

bitterdecadence