Searching for an old-fashioned style connection

needle_seeker

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One that entails mutual longing first of all, with everything else driven by that, and by common courtesy. Nowadays one would call it a “connection-plus” but years ago, it was close to the norm.

Except for one magic ingredient called chemistry. Which develops out of resonance - say with each other’s profiles and PMs. And this magic leads to generosity and that to mutual responsiveness.

Just think of it: when one prospective partner takes the initiative, the other one responds with a friendly gesture too, driven by the hope of finding a soulmate. Finally.

OK, no assurance exists for that, but some hope, inspired by the tone of a personal ad, or of a PM received. And then this generosity on both sides begins to unravel the chemistry I mentioned.

Tight-fisted people never reach that stage, i.e. people who guard every word they write. But when that hope I spoke of is in play, the generosity of one drives that of the other.

And now I hope for a woman to read my ad, who allows me to inspire her.
 
All the best with your search. I note you've taken a leaf from my book.
And when you mention tight-fisted, I take it you refer to yourself? This from experience.
Take some well meaning advice. Be open from the outset, don't quiz and question, allow time ... things might then grow.
Again, all the best.
S.
 
All the best with your search. I note you've taken a leaf from my book.
And when you mention tight-fisted, I take it you refer to yourself? This from experience.
Take some well meaning advice. Be open from the outset, don't quiz and question, allow time ... things might then grow.
Again, all the best.
S.
Dear BrokenNib, I know you see things from a different POV than I do, so instead of continuing to complain, why don’t you simply read the personal ad I’ll post after this one.
 
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