searching for a woman with a truly independent mind

[adamISOeve]

And if you use your mind for thinking independent of ideologies deemed politically correct these days, all the better for you and me. I promise you a connection unencumbered then by the kind of superficial trivia that masquerades as erotica nowadays. Providing the two of us resonate on more than only that one subject.

I’ve written my longings and desires into my profile and I hope for resonance from you on that – the very most. And if this happens, I foresee no major obstacle to us liking one another and more.

Unlike my last experience with a woman here, who had not much motivation for reading – her specialty was endless talking instead. And her talking became even more furious after I told her off. If you like, you can read our public exchange, with a few bystanders chipping in. The latest form of “conversations” with cantankerous people populating Literotica these days.

But that is NOT what I have in mind for a second time, and I count on you helping me to achieve this. My profile contains the essence of what I have in mind for the two of us, and I would love to hear back from you what your main desires are. And then talk some more with you about details.

I mentioned my prior mishap on Lit, because I am fairly sure some “helpful soul” will warn you about me. And that’s just as well; since this would become a test of how independently your mind works. …. And thank you btw, for reading this far; I appreciate people who are curious about other people’s thinking.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

 

[AspiringAuthor]

warning....

 

[ericalauren]

Verbal diarrhea alert.

 

[AspiringAuthor]

I still can’t believe he’s only in his 30s. I thought for sure he’d had 60+ years to mature into this shitpocket.

Really? Everything he's told me then must have been a Hot Pocket of lies and fabrications. Not surprising, though. I bet his IQ is the same as said Hot Pocket, too. He talks a pretty big game, but I believe he uses big words to impress. Inside, it's just vacuous, empty space.

Enjoying your radio silence, "Dearest" Adam?

 

[adamISOeve]

..

Enjoying your radio silence, "Dearest" Adam?

I sure would love to enjoy your radio silence also, but I suppose something like keeping your electronic pen SHUT, is impossible to hope for.

 

[AspiringAuthor]

I sure would love to enjoy your radio silence also, but I suppose something like keeping your electronic pen SHUT, is impossible to hope for.

You would be correct. I'm doing a service for my fellow females. You crossed the wrong woman, "Dearest."

 

[adamISOeve]

You would be correct. I'm doing a service for my fellow females. You crossed the wrong woman, "Dearest."

now what exactly did I do to cross you? I reminded you of your propensity for talking only, without listening, and I remarked on your laziness to learn anything new.

OK, vindictive people who get crossed regarding merely anything tend to never quiet down. But maybe some day you will run out of electronic ink-

 

[AspiringAuthor]

You know, Adam, what's really curious is that your obviously one-sided emails to me were just peachy. And you didn't have a problem with mine until I mentioned my core beliefs in passing. That's when you went ape-shit, and proved to me that you are just another intolerant asshole who needs validation and having your hand held. Well, I'm not that woman. You are a textbook narcissist, and another Grade A Narcissist is the very last thing I need in my life right now.

Consider my "rantings" a PSA. I wish someone would have warned me before I accepted your false premise in PM.

 

[adamISOeve]

hello to you, aspiring Author, and to you too, hailer of queens!

I wonder whether you have ever asked yourselves, whether you constant bickering about other people is something appropriate here on the Personals. I looked up some of the RULES here, and I offer them to you to read as well. https://forum.literotica.com/threads/welcome-to-the-personals-forum.593968/

In the good olde days, when the responsibiliy for moderating this forum was still handled by people NOT consumed by o this ideology or that one, or who even participated in breaking the rules, such rules were even enforced, but that was long ago. But I suppose that really civilized people do not require a moderator, to CEASE doing what is not wanted here.

So permit me to extend an (unsolicited) invitation to the two of you: How about playing by the rules of this forum? At least from now on. After all you have made it abundantly clear to everybody, what a worthless asshole I am. And that both of you are prime examples of decency. And that everybody should love you.

In case you have not noticed this yet: you two are beating a horse that's been slain ALREADY!

 

[AspiringAuthor]

what a worthless asshole I am.

I'm glad we finally agree on something.

I will, because in actuality I am better than this exchange with you, pull back and be the bigger person, on one condition: You leave me, and any mention of me, out of your little "ads." Because: 1) it doesn't help your cause of finding someone who actually will enjoy the childish, narcissistic back and forth, and 2) I have better things to do than to sit and trade barbs with an empty suit. In fact, bury the hatchet with every woman who has come before me and leave your petty attacks out, because it's not a good look for anyone. I will do my best to avoid you. I would appreciate the same, polite treatment from you, if you're even capable of such. From the looks of it, you're not, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt one last time.

Do not contact me. Do not email me. Do not mention me again here or anywhere on this forum. Do we have an understanding, "dearest?"

 

[AspiringAuthor]

@AspiringAuthor some of us do try to sound the alarm but he’s so hard to get ahead of. Like chlamydia or something.

If only there was a virtual condom for these instances.

 

[Lionel_Hutz1977]

If only there was a virtual condom for these instances.

There was some attempt to start a thread as a repository to identify dudes with multiple alts who harass people on here but I think it was against the rules. This guy is one of the worst. Hilariously, he’ll sometimes log in as a different alt to agree with himself and at least once he forgot to log in with his original alt to respond to a comment. I won’t tag anyone here who may not want to participate but fingers crossed that one of my favorite nemeses of this guy shows up. That’s always fun.

 

[AspiringAuthor]

There was some attempt to start a thread as a repository to identify dudes with multiple alts who harass people on here but I think it was against the rules. This guy is one of the worst. Hilariously, he’ll sometimes log in as a different alt to agree with himself and at least once he forgot to log in with his original alt to respond to a comment. I won’t tag anyone here who may not want to participate but fingers crossed that one of my favorite nemeses of this guy shows up. That’s always fun.

I think I have him figured out. He, like most narcissists, needs constant validation, fawning, and praise. He's closed-minded, and wants to hear only things that line up with his particular view or vision of a topic. When he finds a woman he thinks can deliver what he needs, he pours on the charm, like he did with me. The second she expresses something that conflicts with his belief or opinion, he heaps insults on her and throws her to the curb, because she isn't supplying that validation he so desperately needs. She fights back, he flips the conversation back around on her, making her out to be the 'villain,' as he did with me, all the while lying to himself and claiming righteousness. This is classic narcissistic behavior, because he is a toxic, grade A narcissist. It's fine if you like that kind of thing, but I happen to be married to one. I don't need another one.

I'd love to have a list of his known alts. You can PM me if you'd like.

 

[pikmin1388]

This guy has has been on here for over 5 years posting similar adverts under alot of alts . Can't believe he is still allowed on here. He is only on here to verbally abuse ladies I was on the receiving end unfortunately. I wonder how long the list of ladies that were unlucky enough to receive the vile emails he sends. Lit is enabling this abuse by not banning him.
I'm pleased to see he is still being pulled out on it , so please ladies and guys keep it up.
My biggest worry though is how many ladies have quit lit because of him. Guys already far out number ladies on here .

 

[Diosax]

Dude your writing sucks!

Reading such long pointless post should count as my daily recommended reading. Do i qualify?

 

[Sparky74]

Am guessing this @adamISOeve is a Serious Knob Head Warning am I right?

 

[Sparky74]

Love that line about the virtual Condom

 

[AspiringAuthor]

Am guessing this @adamISOeve is a Serious Knob Head Warning am I right?

On the nose!

 

[adamISOeve]

Hello, btw, to all of you! Who are enjoying so much your bashing of me, and other trivia to exchange with each other.

I am so happy to offer to y’all – for free and without any charge – MY thread I started with a personal ad, originally. The personal ad has served its purpose by now, so I invite y’all cordially to keep talking. About anything you like.

Just be sure you console Aspiring Author enough, say by telling her how lucky she is for having escaped from me now. And maybe Pickmin deserves some consolation as well; it’s been more than 5 years ago that I broke up with her, but apparently she is still suffering now.

OK, let me bid you my fare well now. It’s been a pleasure reading public posts from you all on a very private subject: a personal ad of mine. Which everybody and her sister and brother here feels qualified to comment on.

 

[AspiringAuthor]

It’s been a pleasure reading public posts from you all on a very private subject

If it's truly  that private, why are you posting it on a public forum?

You're not the brightest light in the harbor, are you? Bless your heart.

And to the unicorn who finally found you-- the perfect male specimen--We will see you soon on this side of the forum. I guaran-damn-tee it.

Best of luck. You're gonna need it.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Hello, btw, to all of you! Who are enjoying so much your bashing of me, and other trivia to exchange with each other.

I am so happy to offer to y’all – for free and without any charge – MY thread I started with a personal ad, originally. The personal ad has served its purpose by now, so I invite y’all cordially to keep talking. About anything you like.

Just be sure you console Aspiring Author enough, say by telling her how lucky she is for having escaped from me now. And maybe Pickmin deserves some consolation as well; it’s been more than 5 years ago that I broke up with her, but apparently she is still suffering now.

OK, let me bid you my fare well now. It’s been a pleasure reading public posts from you all on a very private subject: a personal ad of mine. Which everybody and her sister and brother here feels qualified to comment on.

I know that it is almost impossible not to be defensive when criticized like this, but it can't hurt to try to reflect on what you may have said or done to attract such hostility. Consider how your actions and words may have appeared to the women, rather than think only about how you felt.

Also, "farewell" is one word. This site does have its literary side.

 

[pikmin1388]

Guy isn't leaving . I imagine all his alts end this way now. I've seen him 'leave' like this before and wouldn't believe anything he writes on here.
He will go quiet for a bit then reappear with another alt . They are usually easy to spot .

 

[AspiringAuthor]

Guy isn't leaving . I imagine all his alts end this way now. I've seen him 'leave' like this before and wouldn't believe anything he writes on here.
He will go quiet for a bit then reappear with another alt . They are usually easy to spot .

I was more talking to the imaginary lady friend he supposedly found. If she exists, it won't be long before he kicks her to the curb, too, because she wasn't stroking his inflated ego.

I know we haven't seen the last of him. But I also know, or hope, he isn't stupid enough to contact me again. But you know, narcissists gotta narcissist. He craves attention, good and bad, too much to stay away. I wish they'd ban his IP address, or even better, his MAC address. That's what I'd like for Christmas this year. Are you listening, Santa?

Ho, ho, ho!

 

[Sparky74]

Hello, btw, to all of you! Who are enjoying so much your bashing of me, and other trivia to exchange with each other.

I am so happy to offer to y’all – for free and without any charge – MY thread I started with a personal ad, originally. The personal ad has served its purpose by now, so I invite y’all cordially to keep talking. About anything you like.

Just be sure you console Aspiring Author enough, say by telling her how lucky she is for having escaped from me now. And maybe Pickmin deserves some consolation as well; it’s been more than 5 years ago that I broke up with her, but apparently she is still suffering now.

OK, let me bid you my fare well now. It’s been a pleasure reading public posts from you all on a very private subject: a personal ad of mine. Which everybody and her sister and brother here feels qualified to comment on.

Good Riddence until he resurfaces with a new Username, be Careful ladies Stay safe