Searching for a strong RL Master in SE England.

[Velvet Bubbles]

I wish I was a poet or at least a very good writer and could say something to entice you. What I am is very honest, so how about (for now) I just state what I believe I'm looking for?

I live in Kent, England, and since I'm looking for a real-life hands-on Master you're going to have to live close enough to me for this to be possible.

I'm also seriously hoping that whoever he turns out to be will tie me up. I've a strong need to be bound, to be controlled - in a variety of ways. There are some positions and ideas I've been looking forward to trying to (and being trained in). How long of a list do you want? Hehe. I love being spanked and flogged. I enjoy a bit of pain. I good with a crop, but not a cane. I love gags and blindfolds. Just some examples.

As my signature says, I'm married. However, I am looking for a Master with my husband's full consent and knowledge. Like a LOT of others on here my spouse just isn't kinky. But he acknowledges that I very much am which I am eternally grateful for. So I'm good with you being married too IF your significant other is good with us having a relationship. I am not looking to fall in love, I'm good to go there. But I do expect emotions to be involved at some level. I simply can't be with someone unless I respect and care for them. I hope you can understand the difference.

I have one of those BDSM checklist (spreadsheet actually) things ready to send to candidates willing to consider taking me on as their sub. And since I don't want my initial post to be super long I'll end it with a suggestion to PM me any question you may have.

Thank you for considering me!

(Please read the following posts for more information.)

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

This made me giggle. (I would embed the cartoon so it's visible, but I can't remember how.)

 

[gateau66l]

I wish I was a poet or at least a very good writer and could say something to entice you. What I am is very honest, so how about (for now) I just state what I believe I'm looking for?

I live in Kent, England, and since I'm looking for a real-life hands-on Master you're going to have to live close enough to me for this to be possible.

I'm also seriously hoping that whoever he turns out to be will tie me up. I've a strong need to be bound, to be controlled - in a variety of ways. There are some positions and ideas I've been looking forward to trying to (and being trained in). How long of a list do you want? Hehe. I love being spanked and flogged. I enjoy a bit of pain. I good with a crop, but not a cane. I love gags and blindfolds. Just some examples.

As my signature says, I'm married. However, I am looking for a Master with my husband's full consent and knowledge. Like a LOT of others on here my spouse just isn't kinky. But he acknowledges that I very much am which I am eternally grateful for. So I'm good with you being married too IF your significant other is good with us having a relationship. I am not looking to fall in love, I'm good to go there. But I do expect emotions to be involved at some level. I simply can't be with someone unless I respect and care for them. I hope you can understand the difference.

I have one of those BDSM checklist (spreadsheet actually) things ready to send to candidates willing to consider taking me on as their sub. And since I don't want my initial post to be super long I'll end it with a suggestion to PM me any question you may have.

Thank you for considering me!

Being submitted requires time and the title of submissive is merited.
I know the spreadsheet you're talking about, I'd like to read it because it's already a good start

I want to start your submission with the agreement of my wife

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

Being submitted requires time and the title of submissive is merited.
I know the spreadsheet you're talking about, I'd like to read it because it's already a good start

I want to start your submission with the agreement of my wife

Thank you for saying hello. It's very appreciated. However, I'm really looking for someone local to me so we can see each other on a regular basis. Would that be possible at all for you?

 

[gateau66l]

Thank you for saying hello. It's very appreciated. However, I'm really looking for someone local to me so we can see each other on a regular basis. Would that be possible at all for you?

Hello,
nowadays nothing is impossible, let's start and we'll see well or that leads us

 

[gateau66l]

Hello,
nowadays nothing is impossible, let's start and we'll see well or that leads us

what are your experiences
where are you novice?

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

what are your experiences
where are you novice?

I've had two Masters and one sub (male) so far. I started reading and learning about BDSM over a dozen years ago. Maybe? I wasn't exactly keeping track of when it all started.

 

[gateau66l]

I've had two Masters and one sub (male) so far. I started reading and learning about BDSM over a dozen years ago. Maybe? I wasn't exactly keeping track of when it all started.

hello,

I challenge you then, you have to enjoy 12 times in 24h ie once every two hours.
It is forbidden for example to let 8h to enjoy 4 times to affine only every two hours and no matter how to have orgasm but it takes 12

good luck

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

Thank you for your interest, Gateau. But I really am looking for someone who's much more local to me. I wish you the best of luck finding someone. You seem very nice.

 

[gateau66l]

Thank you for your interest, Gateau. But I really am looking for someone who's much more local to me. I wish you the best of luck finding someone. You seem very nice.

Hello how are you,
I just wanted to play a little while waiting for you to find what you are looking for.
I am sad about your answer but I understand.
it's my turn to wish you luck.
if you change your mind, I'll always be there to have fun, you know where I am.
I kiss you very tenderly

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

I'm still looking in spite of the fact this thread has almost made it to the third page of Personals by now.

I've been asked similar questions a few times so I'll answer them here in case that helps someone else.

Will I have sex with you? Yes, provided you can pass a blood test and are free from STDs.

Will you control my orgasms and/or playing with myself, etc.? Yes, we'll discuss level of control. However, if my husband wants to make me cum that's up to him. But he will be informed of what I'm not allowed to do by my new Master and when in case he wants to go along with it.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rope bunny
95% Rigger
81% Submissive
72% Dominant
61% Masochist
59% Non-monogamist
59% Switch
58% Master/Mistress
56% Primal (Hunter)
54% Owner
52% Slave
51% Vanilla
50% Pet
49% Brat
48% Experimentalist
43% Primal (Prey)
42% Daddy/Mommy
42% Voyeur
38% Brat tamer
37% Exhibitionist
36% Sadist
1% Boy/Girl
1% Degradee
0% Ageplayer
0% Degrader

 

[runsilent]

I live too far away but good luck on your journey. Don't accept a dom that is an asshole. Sub care is a major part of the thing.

 

[ken4fun]

Hi Velvet

Wishing you well in your search, Pm me and include your check list, I would be interested and live close.
Ken

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

Thank you, RunSilent. I'm taking my time. <nods> I'm looking for a long-term relationship with someone who's earned my respect. So no worries. ((hugs))

Hi, Ken4Fun. Lit won't let me attach files. But if you'd like to chat by PM for a while until you feel comfortable giving me an email address to send the file to I'm up for that.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

As to be expected, I've had a number of time-wasters message me. If you're not serious about this, please don't waste my time (or yours) by contacting me. Thank you.

With the way this is going, I'm honestly thinking about starting a serious online relationship with a good master. It's just that I want my master's hands on me, not just his voice.

Suggested reading: http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1433554 There's some good advice in here.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

Yes, I'm still looking. I know the Master for me is out there. We just haven't found each other yet.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

I dream of being bent over the edge of His bed. My arms tied behind my back. Sometimes in a prayer position, sometimes not. Blindfolded to enhance the senses. Gagged so I can enjoy His control of me just that little bit more. No need for me to talk as he knows my limits, and my desires. And there I am, ready for Him to fulfill his desires with.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

Yes, I'm still looking. I have an ad on another website too. It's frustrating that all the people who interest me don't live anywhere close enough. Best of luck to everyone else who's searching too!

 

[Stevew0073]

Yes, I'm still looking. I have an ad on another website too. It's frustrating that all the people who interest me don't live anywhere close enough. Best of luck to everyone else who's searching too!

Sorry you are struggling you seem like a nice lady.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

Thank you, Steve. Here's one of my favorite poems for you:

BREAK, BREAK, BREAK
By Alfred, Lord Tennyson

Break, break, break,
On thy cold gray stones, O Sea!
And I would that my tongue could utter
The thoughts that arise in me.

O, well for the fisherman's boy,
That he shouts with his sister at play!
O, well for the sailor lad,
That he sings in his boat on the bay!

And the stately ships go on
To their haven under the hill;
But O for the touch of a vanish'd hand,
And the sound of a voice that is still!

Break, break, break
At the foot of thy crags, O Sea!
But the tender grace of a day that is dead
Will never come back to me.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

Here I am, half a year later and still no Dominant. Where are you? You exist, right?

 

[kobold2001]

Did you ever find what you were looking for?

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

Nope. Gave up years ago. The only types that contact me are too pansy for my taste or just want wank material. They don't want an actual relationship.