lonely_hubby60
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Dec 21, 2017
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It would be nice if you stopped by to read Lit Personal ads today, and if you came here searching like I do. Now all we'd need for resonating with each other are a few prerequisites. Maybe difficult ones, but perhaps they come easier than I think.
It would help if you were not totally whacky and if you had some substance. To be honest, I would not reply to any of the ads on the first two pages of the Personals forum today (the ones I'd be eligible to answer, I mean), and that's because either I find the women advertising there too whacky for my liking, or because I simply cannot detect any substance in their ads.
And I am not necessarily looking for a run-of-the-mill woman. I consider myself an unusual man, fairly complex, and difficult at times. At the very least, you should be able to put up with people like me. And it would be ideal if you actually liked unusual, complex and difficult men.
A big plus would be if you possessed a functional brain, and if you actually enjoyed using it. And even better if your mind worked independently most of the time; not lemming-like and not terribly fixated on political correctness either. But contrary to a famous politically incorrect person, you should possess a keen sense of decency, and the term "humility" should mean something to you, and fairness as well. If good old-fashioned virtues meant something to you in addition, values which people used to live by in earlier times, that would be truly ideal.
Which brings me to the last trait I am thinking about: you should have grown up before you came here. BTW, you may have guessed it already, but just to be sure I want to make it clear: everything I look for here I am prepared to offer to you as well.
And then it would help us, if you came here with more than only erotica in mind. Don't get me wrong, erotica and fantasies (including those that some people consider dirty) are very much on my mind, but I am looking for more that that. Feeling liked and wanted, as a total person, means as much to me, as fantasizing what we would do with each other in bed, for instance.
One additional trait I would enjoy a lot is a passion for words. I guess if you made it this far reading my ad, without becoming bored or impatient, you have what I seek in that respect. What do you say; shall we investigate whether you and I have something meaningful to say to one another?
It would help if you were not totally whacky and if you had some substance. To be honest, I would not reply to any of the ads on the first two pages of the Personals forum today (the ones I'd be eligible to answer, I mean), and that's because either I find the women advertising there too whacky for my liking, or because I simply cannot detect any substance in their ads.
And I am not necessarily looking for a run-of-the-mill woman. I consider myself an unusual man, fairly complex, and difficult at times. At the very least, you should be able to put up with people like me. And it would be ideal if you actually liked unusual, complex and difficult men.
A big plus would be if you possessed a functional brain, and if you actually enjoyed using it. And even better if your mind worked independently most of the time; not lemming-like and not terribly fixated on political correctness either. But contrary to a famous politically incorrect person, you should possess a keen sense of decency, and the term "humility" should mean something to you, and fairness as well. If good old-fashioned virtues meant something to you in addition, values which people used to live by in earlier times, that would be truly ideal.
Which brings me to the last trait I am thinking about: you should have grown up before you came here. BTW, you may have guessed it already, but just to be sure I want to make it clear: everything I look for here I am prepared to offer to you as well.
And then it would help us, if you came here with more than only erotica in mind. Don't get me wrong, erotica and fantasies (including those that some people consider dirty) are very much on my mind, but I am looking for more that that. Feeling liked and wanted, as a total person, means as much to me, as fantasizing what we would do with each other in bed, for instance.
One additional trait I would enjoy a lot is a passion for words. I guess if you made it this far reading my ad, without becoming bored or impatient, you have what I seek in that respect. What do you say; shall we investigate whether you and I have something meaningful to say to one another?
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