searching for a companionship connoisseur

[MMM_wms]

A woman who suffers from lack of intimate sharing most of all. Because that is my own affliction alsol, no longer able to share what moves my mind, what’s happening inside my soul, and what my genitals are missing.

I know the simplest cure for my affliction is companionship with a woman, who is missing everything I am missing also. And one who suffers from her loss, like I do.

I am not a widower, but in many ways I feel like one. My wife is only a semi-companion for me nowadays, and when love-making disappears from a marriage, all sorts of other aspects get lost fast as well. Gestures of tenderness throughout the day, for instance. Or frivolous talking before going to bed with each other.

Intellectual interchanges for keeping our minds alive and enticed still happen, but not the fondling of our souls, in a way that only lovers can achieve.

Fortunately the companion I seek here, and I do not necessarily have to live together, physically close to each other. Because we humans – or many of us at least – possess the gift of imagination and fantasy.

I have noticed a few times, that a virtual affair with a woman, picks me up again and restores again much of what I had been missing. And of course, it provided the same results for my virtual partner also.

All that we needed was our strong desire and a dire need for companionship, and some talent for imagination and fantasizing. And some literal talents, and a commitment for both of us responding to each other. Lack of the latter ended one of my most recent virtual affairs. And lack of a strong enough need killed off another one over time.

Only very little is needed, to make a virtual affair work between partners married to someone else, but these are absolutely essential; otherwise disappointment is bound to happen for sure. In case YOU are a woman in need of what I am needing, it would be nice if you found out already, what is needed for such an affair to last.

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I figured I might as well replace my old text here as well; no sense in having two versions of my ad.

 

[MMM_wms]

my loss means your gain

One reflection on my ad as I am bumping it: While I regret not having received a substantial reply to it yet, my regret must be proof of no woman needing what I offer her. So all in all, its’s a WIN for most women here. Even if it turns out a LOSS for me.

 

[LadyJS]

Giving a bump to MMM_wms' ad.

He and I have talked on and off for the last couple of years. Even though he and I are looking for similar things (that unique companion), we also have enough differences where we're not really compatible with one another. He's not a perfect man, and I'm not perfect either, but faults and all, I do like him. And he's shown me some qualities that I like and admire, and some vulnerabilities that a lot of men don't like sharing.

I think if someone is looking for a little more than just a quick, cyber-sexual liaison that ends after a few hours, and what he's written lines up with what they are seeking and appeals to them, it may profit them to drop him a PM and feel him out (figuratively speaking of course).

This is all my personal opinion, your mileage may vary.

 

[MMM_wms]

Worst aspect of my ad: it took me more than 500 words to say what I wanted to get across to you, dear woman on the look-out for a man like me. A horrible amount of verbiage, if you ask me.

I have shortened my message substantially, and if you care to read it, here is a link to it: http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1526693

 

[Spiderk]

Dear MMM:
It’s plane to me that you are quite intellectual and a wordsmith. These two things alone peak my interest as so many of the men here lack these two qualities, but my question is that you mentioned prerequisites. What are these prerequisites? When you have some time please answer either in an open public forum or PM me if you desire.
Dee

Yep I'm a smart arse ....."Plain"

 

[MMM_wms]

Dear MMM:
It’s plane to me that you are quite intellectual and a wordsmith. These two things alone peak my interest as so many of the men here lack these two qualities, but my question is that you mentioned prerequisites. What are these prerequisites? When you have some time please answer either in an open public forum or PM me if you desire.
Dee

Dear Dee, sorry for not responding earlier. Maybe that would have helped avert this clown fussing about the spelling of a word.

I regret not having made the two things any clearer, which are needed for a virtual relationshio to last. The way I see it, both parties have to make a special effort to respond to each other as well and as clearly as possible. Because words are the only means of comunicating both have.

And number two: there needs to be a fairly strong need on both sides, for the kind of companionship I described. Reason is quite simply: without a strong need, the extra effort will seem like effort. With a strong need in place, it all becomes effortless. Because then the outcome offers more than the effort will cost.

I hope this does not sound to mechanistic to you, does it?