Scared Off

[MzChrista]

Some people like to huff and puff and get self righteous about the cause of poor people who get scared away from this board because of all those mean nasty fem subs (hahahahaha oh pardon me, back to being serious).

Now everybody maybe needs a time out now and again, I did myself a while back when I got disgusted with some of the kissyass shit that was going on.
But as for people scared off by people disagreeing and all that.
Listen, BDSM is a scary thing. it can be dangerous in a mental way, an emotional way and a physical way. There is a lot to have to watch out for.
So I got to say, if you too tender and sensitive to deal with some arguing now and then you may consider if you are too sensitive to be jumping in to a new lifestyle like BDSM.And if you really ant to be in BDSM you ought to think putting up with a little hollering and that now and then is worth it.

Thats just my opinion. Some knucklefuckers say Im a moron, so take it for whatever.

 

[Sandia]

You moron.
Me knucklefucker.
Wanna get it on?

Heh. Actually I've never heard of "knucklefucker" before. I like it.

 

[Red Menace]

What passes for arguing here is pretty tame compared to some other sites I post on. Then again, they tend to be a younger crowd so a lot of flames, gross blanket generalizations, narrow-mindedness and sheer idiocy are a means of gaining popularity.

And yes, that guy scares me.

 

[MzChrista]

You moron.
Me knucklefucker.
Wanna get it on?

Heh. Actually I've never heard of "knucklefucker" before. I like it.

sandia you aint gonna be happy till you fuck a lesbian are you?

 

[MzChrista]

btw sandia thats the scariest fuckin av I ever seen.

 

[MzChrista]

What passes for arguing here is pretty tame compared to some other sites I post on. Then again, they tend to be a younger crowd so a lot of flames, gross blanket generalizations, narrow-mindedness and sheer idiocy are a means of gaining popularity.

And yes, that guy scares me.

you right both times.
Now heres somthing else bugs me. Somebody will say Oooh BDSM thats what I always wanted, but the nearest place to meet anybody is 100 miles away.
So drive the 100 miles of shut up. If its such an important thing to be into BDSM then driving a while ought to be small taters.
But hey, I live right by a big city, so what do I know.

 

[P. B. Walker]

aren't you in a mood tonight MzC.

-PBW "Duck and cover."

 

[Red Menace]

lol. Hell, I'll be driving over 300 miles and just thankful it's in the same state, not to mention the same country.... unlike my last relationship.

 

[cymbidia]

btw sandia thats the scariest fuckin av I ever seen.

Yeh but you know he's gonna get all the chicks who want to fuck thier daddies.

 

[~Dream~]

all i knnow is

you right both times.
Now heres somthing else bugs me. Somebody will say Oooh BDSM thats what I always wanted, but the nearest place to meet anybody is 100 miles away.
So drive the 100 miles of shut up. If its such an important thing to be into BDSM then driving a while ought to be small taters.
But hey, I live right by a big city, so what do I know.

taking a bus 712 miles was well worth it to me!! and JMHO but I dont think a bunch of sposed ADULTS should be arguin all the time anyways..I've got my kids for that! Geez! I HAD thought and HOPED people came here to learn,have fun and educate others ,not engage in badgering wars...ok kiddies ya all can go back to your world war 3 games now!!

Sandia? that avy is almost and I DO mean ALMOST as scary as ole George w. Himself lol!!

 

[spankableBelle]

Is not...

...scared off, just confused mostly around this forum at all the new little threads that pop up about someone being pissed at someone else or whatever the knot in the panties/boxers is that particular day...i don't know...maybe i'm just way too simple minded for all of it and that's why i don't get it...(shrugs)

 

[Lancecastor]

A continuing disagreement

But as for people scared off by people disagreeing and all that.
Listen, BDSM is a scary thing. So I got to say, if you too tender and sensitive to deal with some arguing now and then you may consider if you are too sensitive to be jumping in to a new lifestyle like BDSM.And if you really ant to be in BDSM you ought to think putting up with a little hollering and that now and then is worth it.

The continuing disagreement I have with people like you, Mz Christa, can be readily illustrated in your post above.

You suggest that skin-to-skin BDSM requires a lack of sensitivity, and that verbal abuse here is therefore warranted.

My opinion differs....It is that the way the founding clique and their pals behave here has nothing to do with BDSM.

The backroom gradeschool PM's saying "If you post near so and so you're not my friend anymore", ass-kissing synchophants, shunning, harassing via Guest and Unregistered posts, sulking, whining, "clarification" posts....none of that is BDSM.

That's my point.

If this is really a D/s support group for broken subs and a gay Domme pickup joint, so be it....just come right out and say it.

But don't insult the intelligence of the rest of us...the ones not in therapy that have never been abused that have clear heads, good lives and choose BDSM for all the right reasons...with your schoolgrrl games and a Closed Thread Set of Club Rules that new people are directed to, but is a total fraud in terms of actual practise.

It's that fraud that makes you a moron, my dear.

Smarten up. Or step off.

Good thread.

Lance

 

[DVS]

????

I've been gone for a while, and it seems yet another pithy war of the words has been going on. Maybe more than one.

People will be people. But, it does seem hard to understand. We all have our own opinions and we all should understand we won't always agree. Shit, I'm sure there are at least several who don't agree with this simple post.

Sticks and stones, folks. Life is too short to flame the foe. I don't have all the answers, but that one I do have.

 

[CarolineOh]

Re: A continuing disagreement

The continuing disagreement I have with people like you, Mz Christa, can be readily illustrated in your post above.

You suggest that skin-to-skin BDSM requires a lack of sensitivity, and that verbal abuse here is therefore warranted.

My opinion differs....It is that the way the founding clique and their pals behave here has nothing to do with BDSM.

The backroom gradeschool PM's saying "If you post near so and so you're not my friend anymore", ass-kissing synchophants, shunning, harassing via Guest and Unregistered posts, sulking, whining, "clarification" posts....none of that is BDSM.

That's my point.

If this is really a D/s support group for broken subs and a gay Domme pickup joint, so be it....just come right out and say it.

But don't insult the intelligence of the rest of us...the ones not in therapy that have never been abused that have clear heads, good lives and choose BDSM for all the right reasons...with your schoolgrrl games and a Closed Thread Set of Club Rules that new people are directed to, but is a total fraud in terms of actual practise.

It's that fraud that makes you a moron, my dear.

Smarten up. Or step off.

Good thread.

Lance

Simply pathetic, but saved for the record.

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Re: all i knnow is

JMHO but I dont think a bunch of sposed ADULTS should be arguin all the time anyways..I've got my kids for that! Geez! I HAD thought and HOPED people came here to learn,have fun and educate others ,not engage in badgering wars...ok kiddies ya all can go back to your world war 3 games now!!

Well said!


dixi

 

[Rooster]

Good morning yall .....

I'm always looking over the board ... but I don't post much here since I feel like I don't have anything to contrubute.

It's either that or feel like I don't need to get involved with anything big.

Much of the time ..... I don't have alot of internet time to read long posts/threads.

I tend to stay away from "hot" flaming issues ... just don't feel like dealing with a lot of shit that goes on at Lit in general.

I come to Lit to play and have fun .. not to get into a Urination Olympiad (Pissing Contest) on various issues .. aminly political ones ... OK .. I'm drifting off topic ...... so I'll close for now

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Hiya Rooster, Nice to see ya.


dixi

 

[Lancecastor]

Re: Re: A continuing disagreement

Simply pathetic, but saved for the record.

Yes, agreed...your behavior has always been facile and pathetic.

Yet, it remains a closed shop here and always has been, so I really shouldn't focus on you any more than Cym or myself for rolling in the muck about it.


Cheers;
Lance

 

[cymbidia]

Re: Re: Re: A continuing disagreement

Yes, agreed...your behavior has always been facile and pathetic.

Yet, it remains a closed shop here and always has been, so I really shouldn't focus on you any more than Cym or myself for rolling in the muck about it.


Cheers;
Lance

I'd like to point out, Lance, that except for this post, i haven't posted to you or about you, nor have i participated in any arguements of any kind with anyone at all even once since i returned. That you keep invoking my name in your posts as proof you're being done wrong is...puzzling.

Do you actually think i'm participating in all this unpleasantness or do you simply not see that i have not been a participant in the rolling in the mud fun 'n games that's been going on ad nauseum?

In other words: are you blind or unkind?
Is it deliberate or unthinking?

Just wondering.

Now i'll return to having fun here instead of being mad at everyone all the time.

Be well,

 

[James Blandings]

Re: A continuing disagreement

The continuing disagreement I have with people like you, Mz Christa, can be readily illustrated in your post above.

You suggest that skin-to-skin BDSM requires a lack of sensitivity, and that verbal abuse here is therefore warranted.

My opinion differs....It is that the way the founding clique and their pals behave here has nothing to do with BDSM.

The backroom gradeschool PM's saying "If you post near so and so you're not my friend anymore", ass-kissing synchophants, shunning, harassing via Guest and Unregistered posts, sulking, whining, "clarification" posts....none of that is BDSM.

That's my point.

If this is really a D/s support group for broken subs and a gay Domme pickup joint, so be it....just come right out and say it.

But don't insult the intelligence of the rest of us...the ones not in therapy that have never been abused that have clear heads, good lives and choose BDSM for all the right reasons...with your schoolgrrl games and a Closed Thread Set of Club Rules that new people are directed to, but is a total fraud in terms of actual practise.

It's that fraud that makes you a moron, my dear.

Smarten up. Or step off.

Good thread.

Lance

Your reading comprehension skills are truly abysmal.
Christa in no way claimed that BDSM requires a lack of sensitivity. She stated the fact, well known to those of us with real time experience in the BDSM scene, that there are dangers involved with exploring the BDSM lifestyle, and that one who enters into it must be prepared for some bumps and knocks along their journey.
This is a valid point that you would understand if you actually knew anything about BDSM.

As far as backroom PMs I believe I have read several of your posts in which you bragged about your popularity in the "PM Underground" so once again, you expose yourself as a hypocrite, demanding others adhere to a standard far beyond your own reach.

 

[PlayDoe]

A simple question to ask yourself

Why do you come to this place?

My answer:

To get away from the regular shit that I deal with everyday.

To learn somethings.

To share somethings.

To see the world through the eyes of others.

Sorry if that is not as deep as it should be, but I am kind of new to this place and I am pretty busy with work and the rest of my life.

 

[Sandia]

sandia you aint gonna be happy till you fuck a lesbian are you?

lol!

And ya know, in real life, the thing is, I'm hardly attracted to lesbians at all.

But you're right, I am beginning to see a pattern here...

Maybe I need some therapy?

 

[Sandia]

btw sandia thats the scariest fuckin av I ever seen.

Yeah. He scares me too. I really really hope George Bush doesn't suddenly die off.. or disappear, or somethin...

I already told ya how much I like your newest AV, didn't I?

 

[Ebonyfire]

Some people like to huff and puff and get self righteous about the cause of poor people who get scared away from this board because of all those mean nasty fem subs (hahahahaha oh pardon me, back to being serious).

Now everybody maybe needs a time out now and again, I did myself a while back when I got disgusted with some of the kissyass shit that was going on.
But as for people scared off by people disagreeing and all that.
Listen, BDSM is a scary thing. it can be dangerous in a mental way, an emotional way and a physical way. There is a lot to have to watch out for.
So I got to say, if you too tender and sensitive to deal with some arguing now and then you may consider if you are too sensitive to be jumping in to a new lifestyle like BDSM.And if you really ant to be in BDSM you ought to think putting up with a little hollering and that now and then is worth it.

Thats just my opinion. Some knucklefuckers say Im a moron, so take it for whatever.

MzC, I too, have been accused of being insensitive and mean.

I will confess. I am insensitive and mean. Deal with it or not. Life is real, and the folks living it are real also.

Some of us grownups have had to fight their way to the middle.

So pull up those boot straps, suck it in, and join the fray or not. but lawdy lawd quit whining. Unless you got some cheese you are willing to share with it.

And, MzC , not that my opinion matters, but you are not a moron. They are just a) scared shitless of you, or b) stoopid.
In my not-so-humble-opinion.

Eb

 

[~Dream~]

Re: Re: all i knnow is

Well said!


dixi

ty Sis Dixie..I mean cant we all use our time for something more Constructive? like being"submissive or something"? hehe
Time wasted can Never be regained...I suggest we ALL 'think' about that..JMHO