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[Frizzi12345]

Im a 19 year old male and ive always had kinky thoughts, kinky dreams, etc.. well i want to make them a reality with my long time girlfriend, but im not sure how to approach the subject. someone please help

 

[Revel_Less]

Where do you two normally talk about sex and sex related topics? That would be a good place and time to bring up possible fantasies.

 

[muddpuppy]

If you can handle it, ask about her past sexual experiences, ask her what kind of stuff she has done in the bedroom. Share fantasies, ask her what kind of stuff shes fantasized about. Dont use the word kinky because some people have different definitions... to some people it can mean whips and chains and some people would think doin it on the bedroom floor is kinky.