First it would be nice, if you were an intelligent woman, and if you did not have to ask your friends what you should think about this or that.
Next civility should have beeen a guiding principle you grew up with. As in responding to thoughts other people put on the table, being curious about them a bit perhaps also, and discussing any misgivings that may come up in a conversation, instead of simply ghosting a mail partner.
Then it would be nice also, if you enjoyed written words; even somewhat lengthy posts and mails from me to you. And if you liked to write mails yourself as well.
These three traits are not so difficult to find, even though they are disappearing markedly from everywhere within society, so it seems to me. But the following resolve is hard to find among women: you should neither find it necessary, nor morally acceptable, to rely on any of the many "female" privileges that modern society is bestowing on women.
On top of that, it would be nice if you were able to recognize all sorts of male behavior for the privileges they are really, and if you disdained them, because you are convinced that you do not need them. You can make it on your own, and you do not need preferential treatment.
If you were not the prettiest woman on earth, and if that were one reason why you developed this last trait I mentioned, that would suit me very well. I have met a fair share of pretty - even beautiful - women, and I have come to experience what that tends to do with them.
I know that the traits I mentioned were not uncommon some time ago, but I see them becoming ever rarer with time. That is why I consider you a unicorn, when you can identify them all within yourself.
If you like to find out, what might make me a male unicorn perhaps, I invite you to read my two signature posts.
Next civility should have beeen a guiding principle you grew up with. As in responding to thoughts other people put on the table, being curious about them a bit perhaps also, and discussing any misgivings that may come up in a conversation, instead of simply ghosting a mail partner.
Then it would be nice also, if you enjoyed written words; even somewhat lengthy posts and mails from me to you. And if you liked to write mails yourself as well.
These three traits are not so difficult to find, even though they are disappearing markedly from everywhere within society, so it seems to me. But the following resolve is hard to find among women: you should neither find it necessary, nor morally acceptable, to rely on any of the many "female" privileges that modern society is bestowing on women.
On top of that, it would be nice if you were able to recognize all sorts of male behavior for the privileges they are really, and if you disdained them, because you are convinced that you do not need them. You can make it on your own, and you do not need preferential treatment.
If you were not the prettiest woman on earth, and if that were one reason why you developed this last trait I mentioned, that would suit me very well. I have met a fair share of pretty - even beautiful - women, and I have come to experience what that tends to do with them.
I know that the traits I mentioned were not uncommon some time ago, but I see them becoming ever rarer with time. That is why I consider you a unicorn, when you can identify them all within yourself.
If you like to find out, what might make me a male unicorn perhaps, I invite you to read my two signature posts.
