Same room sex

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Ok so heres my question. Hubby and i are both very interested in finding another couple or like minded people to have same room sex in, we've done the local swingers search and such but being five months preg and such seems it doesn't go over so well *sighs* any ideas? :eek: :confused: Seems no matter how hard i look im not looking in the right spots lol
 
well

I can't really say too much because I'm not sure what age group your looking for, but maybe try bars? Maybe meet a couple online and become good friends? Hard to say without knowing the age group.

-Joe
 
cplwhoplayzc2c said:
Seems no matter how hard i look im not looking in the right spots lol
Where have you been looking?

Congrats on the pregnancy, BTW. :)
 
well age doesn't really matter since im 24 and hes 37 not much diff age doesn't affect either one of us and bars well for me are out for awhiel not much fun being the DD all the time lol.

And thank you Eilan on the congrats :) i'll be glad when its all said and done lol
 
preggo chicks are hot wooooooooooo
lol

good luck on your search tho ;)
 
I find same room sex very, very hot.

I've only managed to participate in it a few times since not many of my girlfriends were interested in trying it. And each time it did happen it was spontaneous, not planned. But I always found it an incredible turn on.

So, perhaps just hanging around with the right couple often enough in the right circumstances might allow all the neccessary components to ignite.

Good luck.
 
I would say that having same room sex, unless it's not on purpose/ accidental, but that is even less likely to happen, is something that needs some level of trust and understanding between all parties involved. Because to you it means same room sex but not necessarily that you want to mix with the other couple. How would you know if THEY knew that too unless you had discussed it first? Because if you didn't... before you know it the other guy will be attempting to stick something ( :rolleyes: ) somewhere, which was so NOT your plan. :D

Since this usually needs some really good talking after you have gotten to know a couple fairly well first I would say you need not worry about her being pregnant (congrats by the way) anymore... because developing a relationship to a point of feeling you are all in that comfort-zone takes enough time for you to be a daddy.
 
Very good

advise which I concur with. Well thought out and well spoken. :p

M's girl said:
I would say that having same room sex, unless it's not on purpose/ accidental, but that is even less likely to happen, is something that needs some level of trust and understanding between all parties involved. Because to you it means same room sex but not necessarily that you want to mix with the other couple. How would you know if THEY knew that too unless you had discussed it first? Because if you didn't... before you know it the other guy will be attempting to stick something ( :rolleyes: ) somewhere, which was so NOT your plan. :D

Since this usually needs some really good talking after you have gotten to know a couple fairly well first I would say you need not worry about her being pregnant (congrats by the way) anymore... because developing a relationship to a point of feeling you are all in that comfort-zone takes enough time for you to be a daddy.
 
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I'd agree that spontaneous same-room sex with another couple is rather unlikely but can and does happen, although only once for me. My recommendation would be to join one of the many online swingers personals web sites and just be very up-front about what you are interested in having happen. And also spend some time getting to know the people via e-mail before meeting. I can't see how the pregnancy is going to have any bearing on the situation. Maybe it would if you were planning to swap partners, but even then, why should it. Good luck. Oh, and by the way, it is quite a turn-on when it happens.
 
Very well said but.....

M's girl said:
I would say that having same room sex, unless it's not on purpose/ accidental, but that is even less likely to happen, is something that needs some level of trust and understanding between all parties involved. Because to you it means same room sex but not necessarily that you want to mix with the other couple. How would you know if THEY knew that too unless you had discussed it first? Because if you didn't... before you know it the other guy will be attempting to stick something ( :rolleyes: ) somewhere, which was so NOT your plan. :D

Since this usually needs some really good talking after you have gotten to know a couple fairly well first I would say you need not worry about her being pregnant (congrats by the way) anymore... because developing a relationship to a point of feeling you are all in that comfort-zone takes enough time for you to be a daddy.


Yes, very good advice but hardly answers the original question.

Cplwhoplayzc2c, try www.mate1.com. I have had a lot of luck meeting people on there so I have stuck with that site and that site only. You will have to create the account as it's not free for men, only for women...but it's a great site. Good luck! :)
 
My wife and I have talked about having sex with each other in a room with another couple. I would LOVE to know where to find that opportunity.

We've talked about having people watch us have sex and it seems to turn her on just as much as it does me. I certainly wouldn't be prepared for another couple to join us. Although I can't say that the idea of another man having sex with her is disgusting to me or even unappealing. In fact, it very much turns me on. I'm not sure why.

But back to the point, I would love to know also where to look. For those who have done it...do you end up watching the other couple while you are doing it? Do they watch you much?
 
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