Safe Words – What Do You Use?

[niceguyswin]

Never used it because life and health fucks harder than anything else and a long standing dead bedroom but it was gemstone

Ps life and health don't stop when you use your safe word.

 

[KindredFlame]

That would not work for Hubby and me... he is a lawyer.

So is my wife, hell she wrote our slave contract. I knew I did something right.

 

[sexfest2016]

“Parakeet”

 

[calmlikeabomb]

I prefer Zero in English and Kaala (black) in hindi.

Both are simple, have low syllable counts, so my subs can get them out fast. They are also words regularly used in day to day life so they don't have to think too much in the moment.

Plus no other words that we used during rough play/strike play can be confused with them, so I can immediately stop the moment I hear Z or Ka.

If they are being face fucked or are gagged, then the simplest non verbal signal is three quick slaps on my thigh.

If they are gagged and their hands are bound shaking their head thrice, at which point I immediately stop and check up on them.

 

[ColtonWrites]

Safety is key in BDSM. What’s your go-to safe word? Do you prefer the classic “Red, Yellow, Green” system or something more creative?

Snapz - Sofiecoxisu
TeIegr: M a y L u v a

The characters in my stories generally use red, yellow, green.

My wife and I use one we picked up at a house party. I only ever thought of using it once, at that same party - a drunk guy grabbed me and wouldnt stop kissing me, then got upset when I wasn't the person he intended to grab.

 

[xile19k]

My safe word is "Meatloaf". Because I would do anything for love... but I won't do that!

My wife and I use it for the same reason

 

[KindredFlame]

If there is trust there is no need for a safe word. Just my opinion

 

[Boat1]

If there is trust there is no need for a safe word. Just my opinion

An opinion I share with you.

 

[StudCock69]

Pineapple

 

[Erosfan]

While I know that this will be frowned upon by many here, I refuse to have one.
My Domme Wife is very intuitive, we share a powerful connection and I would find it insulting, degrading, and signifying a lack of trust in Her to have one.

Like you, I don't have one. My wife and I had a lot of very deep discussions about our likes and dislikes with all things sex. We understood each other completely. There were things that were a no go for her and very few no goes for me. Within that frame, we never had the need for a safe word. Ours was a largely CFNM relationship, and I never found the need or desire to stop any of our play. She pushed me to my limits a couple of times and even a bit farther on rare occasions. God, I miss her!