Safe *intense* clit stimulation?

[no_one_special]

My SO enjoys intense clit stimulation. IE after applying toothpaste she likes to be scrubbed (hard!) with the toothbrush for an extended period of time. I'm trying to think up some new & innovative ways to get her off

All I've come up with are variations of "What substance can I rub on her clit that are more intense than toothpaste?", like:

- Tabasco (or other hot sauce)
- Ben Gay / Tiger Balm

In searching the web, I found this site. Oh, happy day!

Any suggestions for alternative 'ointments' or something more intense (yet SAFE!!) than the toothbrush? Thanks ever so much!

 

[sunandshadow]

Fresh ginger is a classic favorite in mild bdsm use. I use vaporub occasionally myself although I wouldn't use a toothbrush, I use it with a vibrator. Have you considered electrostim?

 

[phelon]

not sure what 'liquid' options would be safe, i would say follow the rule of threes at the least.. (make sure 3 sources actually say its safe) thats definately not an area you want damaged.

otherwise, i would say perhaps you should try a different type of toy rather than the liquid.

also you can check some of the adultstores in the lube section, they should have things that can tingle ..

don;t forget a good cleanup afterwards.

 

[infinity706]

I'd say nettles would work in this case. They're used in BDSM, too.
You could also get some flexible popsicle sticks. That way, you can bend them back and spank her clit with them. A rubber band would also work well, too. They should be light enough to not do any serious harm.
I've had good luck with 120 F water, too. It's hot enough to sting the shit out of sensitive parts, but shouldn't actually burn or anything. Just use one of those handheld shower heads that many women are fond of.
You could also try hot wax. You could even use the fire. Just don't actually touch her with it.
You could use rubbing alcohol to sterilize and then, prick her clit with a needle.

 

[EasyDoesIt]

It amazes how different people are in what they feel. While some ladies can barely enjoy hard licks, others want their clit pulled, pinched, biten, and brushed with toothpaste. Ain't life grand!

Clips and clamps of various sorts may be useful. Use them on her labia to help hold her open or directly on her clit. You may want to explore "pumping" (try this place: forums.newart.com/phpbb/index.php). Some variations of pumping can temporarily enhance clitoral size and sensitivity.

You might try spanking or lightly whipping her vagina. Start very slow and gentle. Depending on how she is posed, her lips and clit may be more exposed. The exact location of the strike and force is variable, this creates anticipation that helps drive her mad. A shorter cat-o-nine-tails is excellent because you can begin by simply dragging it over her tenders (tickle), then let it gently fall against the sensitive places, finally you can swing the cat with great care allowing it to land in wetness. She can control this by spreading herself wide, holding herself open, or by closing her legs.

The strikes will likely redden her much like an ass spanking. When she wants no more.........eat her with the most gentle licks you can apply.

Good luck...be safe out there.

 

[BrazenFellow]

If your bathtub allows and she's looking for penetration and clitoral stimulation, go for a relaxed reverse cowgirl position under the faucet. I got an ex to come so hard doing that she was insensible for a few minutes afterwards.

GSpotVibe sells small cock-ring vibrators or fingertip vibrators. Alternate between (very light) applications of heating or cooling cream and varying speeds on those vibrators, around and then on the clitoris.