?'s about blow jobs

Caria Knight

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How long does a good blow job last? I'd like to hear what both giver and receiver have to say about that.


Questions for the givers....

What do you find to be the best angle and why? Him sitting, standing, lying down? You in front, under on and angle from him? Things like that.

Is there any particular thing or way that you find men enjoy more then others?

Has there ever been a man too big for you to take deep?

Are there any good tricks to taking him deep?

Have you ever had a man who's head is too sensative to touch while he climaxes? If so, how do you get around that?

Any other comments or suggestions that might help...


Questions for the receivers...

Is there any particular angle that feels best for you?

Is there any technique that you like best?

Any other comments or suggestions that might help...


Inquisative minds want to know!
 
Ohhh.. one of my favorite subjects!

Caria Knight said:
How long does a good blow job last? I'd like to hear what both giver and receiver have to say about that.
As long as you both think it's fun. Alternatively, in my experience, once they've cum, it's pretty much over for them until they're ready for another go round. Many of them really appreciate a nice damp warm hand towel for clean-up purposes afterwards, btw, though it's a rare man who'll turn down a nice warm damp tongue instead.

What do you find to be the best angle and why? Him sitting, standing, lying down? You in front, under on and angle from him? Things like that.
I prefer, when given my choice, to have him sitting in a chair/edge of the bed and me kneeling between his legs. This gives me a lot of freedom to roam his body with my hands, to roam *my* body with my hands (i love oral sex - either kind), and/or to move and shift and grind myself wherever i can reach to grind.

Second choice? Him lying on his back on the bed. The problem with this is that my neck can get kinda crampy after too long a time bent over like that - and then i get kinda loose with my technique and the possibility of my teeth scraping begins to assume more reality.

I am short. It rarely works for him to be standing up.

Is there any particular thing or way that you find men enjoy more then others?
Start slowly. Lips kissing the tip, gently. Tongue coming out to taste the precum, just alittle, looking up at him while you do. Fingers sliding down to cup and hold and *gently* massage his balls... then his ass. Mouth ooening wider, taking the head in slowly, slowly, making sure your mouth is wet enough to slide it, silkily, over the tip of his dick. Look up at him a lot.

I think you know the rest.

And don't cheat.
None of those half hand jobs unless he likes that or he's so enormous you cannot get him down your throat or if you're such a sensitive girl you cannot open your throat to take him in.

Has there ever been a man too big for you to take deep?Yes. Happens to us all. Be honest. They've heard it before and they'll be understanding. Never force yourself to take more than you can... but always try to take as much as you can, too.

Work on that gag reflex.
You *can* teach it to shut the hell up when you're having fun.

Are there any good tricks to taking him deep?
Go slow. When you've got him in your mouth and your mouth feels full, stay there for a few minutes or seconds to let your body (your whole body should be feeling this kinda immediate eroticism) get used to it.

When you're feeling ready, when *your* juices are flowing more excitedly, then slowly, slowly slide deeper. If you feel like gagging, back off a little but don't pull off. Then try again.

If it's not fun, don't do it - but don't stay away forever, either. You have to feel wild excitement when you're doing this; it can't be forced convincingly.

Have you ever had a man who's head is too sensative to touch while he climaxes? If so, how do you get around that?
You mean after he's done being a kid who comes when you say the words "let me suck your dick, stud" in his direction?

Seriously, no.
I haven't.
They all want to a blow job, mouth on the dick, sliding up and down, soft wet hot slippery moaning pleasure. Unless it's a case of premature ejaculation (and there are techniques to get around that, too), if they cum that quick, they'll probably be ready to go again, too, that quickly.

Any other comments or suggestions that might help...
Hmmm...
;)
 
a lot of what i have to say is similar to cym's post, but since i just love this subject, i'll give it a go as well.

How long does a good blow job last?

that all depends on what the two of you want. i'd say less than several minutes isn't enough time to really get into it. as for how long... as long as your neck/jaw don't get sore then the longer the better. that's just my experiance :)

What do you find to be the best angle and why?

my favorite angle is him laying on his back me laying between his legs. this is a comfortable position to be in for an extended period of time, so you can take it slow. i also like me on my knees and him on a chair or the edge of the bed. this gives my hands more freedom and him more access to my body.

Is there any particular thing or way that you find men enjoy more then others?

the head of the penis is the most sensative, not the shaft. pay particular attention to that area. fondling his balls and ass play if he likes it are always winners ;)

Has there ever been a man too big for you to take deep?

yes

Are there any good tricks to taking him deep?
go slow and use lots of saliva to lubricate him. i've found that doing this from a kneeling position is a lot harder than doing it while laying down.

Have you ever had a man who's head is too sensative to touch while he climaxes? If so, how do you get around that?

i'm sorry, i haven't had any experiance like that. maybe you should just try being gentler while he is cumming. like stop sucking/licking and just let your mouth envelop him. does that make sense?

mmm... now i'm in the mood to... uh... have a lollypop :p
 
This is going to look like a really smart-assed answer, but I swear it isn't!

A good blow-job lasts until it's done!

Okay..not entirely (mostly because I have only rarely been "done" from a blowjob), but a good blow job is one where the giver is really enjoying herself. That kind of thing just translates into pure yumminess for the receiver.

As for particulars, I'm not picky, though I do enjoy being able to use my hands on the giver as she gives. That's fun. :)
 
Where to start...?

Sitting is best - either on a bed or chair or similar but in such a way that I can use my hands on her body. If I'm lying down I'd prefer a 69 every time.

A good BJ lasts, as someone said, until it's done - this doesn't (for me) necessarily mean until I come but there are times when I know I will never come like this and then it's time to move on to something else.

I love a lady to take it deep but wouldn't ever ask her to unless she's comfy with it. For me the best is when she uses her hand in conjunction with her mouth and keeps up a steady but slow rythm.

My dick is *always* too sensitive to be touched for a couple of minutes right after I've come - it actually hurts to have the head touched then and I would rather move on to a long, passionate kiss.

Hope it's what you're looking for
 
God

You ladies above have the right idea for sure. Damn good reading I'd say. It's too bad Mr. Bean hasn't indulged in such sport with my lady in wayyyyyyyyyyy too long.

I may have her read your answers. Damn they are good.......(standing up to adjust)..:D
 
Enjoyment

I particularly like it when I can watch her work on my shaft . . . up and down and all around. If she is intent on giving true pleasure . . well it makes me very happy!
Girls who need experience? Get a orange, icecream sickle and practise, practise and practise!:p
 
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fallon2 said:
Girls who need experience? Get a orange, icecream sickle and practise, practise and practise!:p

I'll have to keep that in mind! :p
 
How long does a good blow job last?

There's a time frame? I'm on it until I swallow or until he wants me to stop which is usually followed by penetration.


What do you find to be the best angle and why? Him sitting, standing, lying down? You in front, under on and angle from him? Things like that.

I prefer either (a) him sitting in a chair with me kneeling in front of him or (b) him standing with (once again) me kneeling in front of him. I'm more comfortable which, in turn, allows me to enjoy my 'work' a little better. Not only that, there's something about feeling a man's butt muscles flexing under your hands while you're blowing him that feels incredibly sexy to me.


Is there any particular thing or way that you find men enjoy more then others?

One man I was with loved when I lightly scraped my teeth along the length of his dick. One was just happy I was willing to do it period. I think it's been mostly the fact that they knew I enjoyed it that they enjoyed.


Has there ever been a man too big for you to take deep?

There's such a thing? No, seriously, really?


Are there any good tricks to taking him deep?

The main tip is to relax your throat muscles.


Have you ever had a man who's head is too sensative to touch while he climaxes? If so, how do you get around that?

I've never had this situation during oral sex. I would think that you'd have to leave it alone until the sensitivity dies down some.

Any other comments or suggestions that might help...

Just take your time and enjoy it.
 
Another blowjob question to add

I posted this question in "How To," but cymbidia suggested that I ask it here, too.

How can I make/maintain eye contact while I'm giving my boyfriend a blow job? He's requested more eye contact, but it's hard for me to do, considering everything else I'm doing at the same time.

In the meantime, I'll think wbout MY answers to the above questions, giving head being one of my all time favorite activities!
 
Caria Knight said:
How long does a good blow job last? I'd like to hear what both giver and receiver have to say about that.

if a blow job is GOOD... than both participants lose track of time, and it becomes irrelevant. The alternative answer is, until he loses conciousness. ;)

Questions for the givers....
What do you find to be the best angle and why? Him sitting, standing, lying down? You in front, under on and angle from him? Things like that.

either standing, with me on my knees, or with him sitting on the edge of the bed. I want my hair in pulling range, that's about the only qualification.

Is there any particular thing or way that you find men enjoy more then others?

Lubrication is important... lots of spit. Which, if you're into it, shouldn't be a problem. Enjoy yourself. Play with his cock. Vary your rhythm, how deep you're taking him, occasionally, lightly graze your teeth along the length of his cock. suck on his balls, play with his ass (or the perineum if he's not into ass play), make love to his cock like you would his entire body, it's not just about sucking him off. Tease the head, the very tip, the hole...

Has there ever been a man too big for you to take deep?

Nope.

Are there any good tricks to taking him deep?

Practice, practice, practice! ;) Also, swallow just as it feels like he's as deep as he can go. Relax... try it with you on the bed, your head hanging over the edge, and him in front of you... sometimes that helps (though it's not terribly comfortable)... or, have him tilt your head slightly while you're kneeling...

Have you ever had a man who's head is too sensative to touch while he climaxes? If so, how do you get around that?

Not while he's climaxing, no. If that's a problem, then don't touch his head while he cums. Pull back and finish him by hand... or prolong the orgasm, bringing him to the edge and then slowing down... then bringing him to the edge again. Chances are, by the time you let him cum, he's going to want to bury his cock in your face.

Any other comments or suggestions that might help...

Ask your man what he wants, what he likes, let him guide your rhythm until you know his needs/desires... and then experiment.
 
Sometimes, Rowdygirl, especially when i'm so excited i can barely get a breath, or if i need to slow it down and drag it out for him, i pull off and just rest the tip of my tongue on the head of his cock and look up at him, panting... or talk, saying dirty things to him about how it makes me feel to do this... or suck just the tipm looking up, while i slide a hand down to touch myself as he watches/feels...

They seem to like any of those pretty well.
:cool:
 
Between Cym and Sexie, I need to...uh...take a break.
 
Caria Knight said:


Have you ever had a man who's head is too sensative to touch while he climaxes? If so, how do you get around that?


I'm super sensitive when I am ejaculating. But I wouldn't want you to pull away. Just stop sucking except for gentle swallowing. :)
 
Wow!!!

I don't think I can hang out in here to often. My Goodness it's getting warm in here. :)


I second what Nasty said. I'll be back in a little while.;)


kgboot
 
let me add

Years ago, I had a lover who really understood the psychology of what she was doing when she gave a blow job.

She would often pick up whatever I was drinking, hand it to me and tell me to just enjoy myself, and then go to work. We were both smokers, and several times, she would light a cigarette for me, hand it to me and then begin the blow job. It was her way of telling me that the next several minutes were for MY pleasure. The feeling was amazing! That line from the old Mel Brooks movie, "It's good to be the king", always came to mind.

She understood that a blow job, unlike intercourse, is pleasure GIVEN by one person to the other. She understood that for me to receive maximum pleasure, I should be given her permission to just relax and enjoy it.

It was also her way of telling me that she was SERVING me for awhile. While we did not have a D/s relationship, she understood that the blow job was a submissive act.

Damn she was good!
 
that cigarette thing sounds really sexy texan. if i ever date a smoker i'll have to try it :)

however, i don't know that a blowjob is *all* about his pleasure. i like it too... i like his responce and all that but it is really a turn on to give oral sex. and while it can be submissive, it is also a pretty powerful position to have the family jewels in your mouth ;)
 
Caria Knight said:
How long does a good blow job last? I'd like to hear what both giver and receiver have to say about that.



Questions for the givers....

What do you find to be the best angle and why? Him sitting, standing, lying down? You in front, under on and angle from him? Things like that.

Is there any particular thing or way that you find men enjoy more then others?

Has there ever been a man too big for you to take deep?

Are there any good tricks to taking him deep?

Have you ever had a man who's head is too sensative to touch while he climaxes? If so, how do you get around that?

Any other comments or suggestions that might help...


Questions for the receivers...

Is there any particular angle that feels best for you?

Is there any technique that you like best?

Any other comments or suggestions that might help...


Inquisative minds want to know!

Like others said. Until it's done. Personally I do it until my mouth gets tired or I get too worked up and just need to be fucked.

I like me sitting and him standing in front of me. I'm short and that just works the best. I can use my hands anywhere on him or me and I can look up at him and make eye contact with him. Which just makes him nuts.

I've only ever sucked one dick. I can't answer this question. My man pretty much likes it all

See above answer

Relax, breathe through your nose, swallow and make sure he is nice and wet.

I'd say...stop sucking and just swallow. Just let it kind of rest in your mouth while he cums.
 
Have you ever had a man who's head is too sensative to touch while he climaxes? If so, how do you get around that?
Yes, but he warned me before we started that he'd need me to just sit still and not stimulate him while he climaxed, so when the time came and he was in my mouth, but not down my throat, I just held still with my lips around him behind the head and didn't touch him with my tongue until after he came and was ready for more.
 
lavender said:


I do not believe that a blowjob is an inherently submissive act. In fact, I believe that many people believe a blow job to be an act of more dominance. It can be both, in my opinion. It all depends on the dynamic of the sexual play at the time oral sex is being performed.

I was just having a conversation with someone about this recently. It's amazing how different people view the act of giving/receiving a blow job so differently.

Yep, Dommes suck cock and Doms eat pussy. Oral sex is a pleasing act.
 
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lavender said:


I do not believe that a blowjob is an inherently submissive act. In fact, I believe that many people believe a blow job to be an act of more dominance. It can be both, in my opinion. It all depends on the dynamic of the sexual play at the time oral sex is being performed.

I was just having a conversation with someone about this recently. It's amazing how different people view the act of giving/receiving a blow job so differently.

I have absolutely no argument with your point, at all.

I was refering to the way that particular lover used a drink or a cigarette to add to the submissive nature of the act. She used them as a way to demonstrate that, at that moment, she was "serving" me. She was, in effect, giving her permission for me to be selfish and just enjoy. In reality, that was one of the most sexually agressive and assured women I have ever known.
 
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lavender said:


Ok, I read it to say "she understood giving a blowjob was a submissive act." I interpreted that as a categorical statement. There are times when it is submissive, but there are also times due to the immense pleasure, release, lack of control the recipient is experiencing, that can make the recipient and not the giver, the one who is almost submitting in a way.

But, it all boils down to me misreading your post.

lavender darlin.... I probably wrote it wrong.... remember, I'm not very experienced on the "sexual" threads. Yesterday I posted something about my "boss", so I figured it was time to change my AV to something other than a real pic of me... Now that I'm incognito, I thought it might be fun to try a sexual thread or two.... and damn if I didn't fuck up my first try...... :D
 
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