rship advice pls? ^^

[bunnylicker]

I got myself into a really strange situation the other day...

I was lying in bed, naked, with my best friend and her ex boyfriend. We were actually in my ex boyfriend’s bed (while he was at work), to make it all the more confusing. So, I suggested that we all masturbate, because it seemed like the right thing to do at the time, but in the end he just masturbated and we both watched. She licked his thighs and balls, and I stroked his face and played with his mouth and nipples. That’s it.

I would have loved to have taken a more active role in his orgasm, but I felt a bit abject since I was the only person in the bed who hadn’t fucked anyone else in the bed, and because I wasn’t sure of how ...umm.. possessive she still might be over him. The other problem is that I'm not attracted to my friend. at all. We've been to bed together before, and I felt just as awkward that time because, I had absolutely no desire to play with her.

He's contacted me a few times since, and I really like him, but I'm reluctant to meet up with him because I don't want to fuck things up between me and my friend. *sigh*

Awkward, no?

 

[gt_bear]

Well i would ask your Best Friend how she feels about it, maybe she wouldn't care, or maybe she would love to do it with you. You should ask, don't sneak around that will only make things worse in the long run.
If she has a really big problem with it, maybe you and him could try talking to her together, but if that don't work i guess the choice is yours on wither to go wit him or your best friend.

 

[bunnylicker]

Well i would ask your Best Friend how she feels about it, maybe she wouldn't care, or maybe she would love to do it with you. You should ask, don't sneak around that will only make things worse in the long run.
If she has a really big problem with it, maybe you and him could try talking to her together, but if that don't work i guess the choice is yours on wither to go wit him or your best friend.

smart!!

i got some pm helps, and concluded that it would be very unfair of me to go with him. the only way is if we threesomes, and i dont know how i feel about that. hmm

but i will be polite. and responsible.