Romance vs. Raunch

[Hipshot1554]

Women have never really changed; they just have more opportunities to be heard now! Men who really want to explore with a woman take the time to hear their wants and desires too! I appreciate the men who are not only gentlemen, but are authentically inquisitive and passionate about their partners as well.

Exactly!

 

[bashfull]

If anyone wants to come to the bar and see @anisdance, we got bumped to

https://forum.literotica.com/thread...r-should-be-taken-to-pm.1610970/post-98897960

 

[Donotrustanybody]

Interesting thought @Donotrustanybody . Haven't thought about that much. Not sure about the "highly sought after" part. I certainly agree if someone disrespects my woman, it might get violent. I highly disagree about doing violence to my woman tho. I would just leave if she doesn't respect me.

But then, this is just me. I can't speak for anyone else.

Just mean some bad boy types, might be faster to use violence. Some bad boy types are very dangerous. Not you, everyone is not like you

 

[bashfull]

This topic arose recently IRL and I thought it would be good ro revive it here. Not sure if I should start a new thread or just continue this one as there is some great discussion...and ideas...on here

 

[Noor]

I’m not sure I am all that interested in raunchy or romantic men.
Decent kind, reliable and trustworthy men who communicate well and clearly are the best and the hardest to come by. They should also be a friend.
Being sexually flexible and able communicate their interests and listen/understand what theirs lovers interests are is great. Being able to work things out to find a middle ground where all are happy is essential.
I have found that some people have a set idea of what is romantic, candle light dinners, rose petals, bubble baths, walking n moonlight… they all can be, but often times helping their partner with simple tasks like washing their hair, finding their favorite penny candy or returning packages when their partner is too tired to to it themselves can be equally if not more romantic. Reading someone to sleep when they can’t sleep, playing the music that melts them when they are in a bad mood, helping them dress when they are injuried, taking the kids out when they need down time and bring back a cookie or something for them.
As for raunchiness and bad boys, part of their attraction is they are not to be taken seriously.
If we are talking about during sex, that’s really between the participants, and imo the best lovers are the ones who can be whatever is needed or wanted at the time.
This is my crabby opinion at the moment. I’m pretty wiped out and numb at present.

 

[bashfull]

I’m not sure I am all that interested in raunchy or romantic men.
Decent kind, reliable and trustworthy men who communicate well and clearly are the best and the hardest to come by. They should also be a friend.
Being sexually flexible and able communicate their interests and listen/understand what theirs lovers interests are is great. Being able to work things out to find a middle ground where all are happy is essential.
I have found that some people have a set idea of what is romantic, candle light dinners, rose petals, bubble baths, walking n moonlight… they all can be, but often times helping their partner with simple tasks like washing their hair, finding their favorite penny candy or returning packages when their partner is too tired to to it themselves can be equally if not more romantic. Reading someone to sleep when they can’t sleep, playing the music that melts them when they are in a bad mood, helping them dress when they are injuried, taking the kids out when they need down time and bring back a cookie or something for them.
As for raunchiness and bad boys, part of their attraction is they are not to be taken seriously.
If we are talking about during sex, that’s really between the participants, and imo the best lovers are the ones who can be whatever is needed or wanted at the time.
This is my crabby opinion at the moment. I’m pretty wiped out and numb at present.

Howdy, darlin. Well said. Care for a drink?

 

[Noor]

Howdy, darlin. Well said. Care for a drink?

Hi! Maybe a chat.

 

[Jasmine12345]

Romance. For the 2 of you Noor & bashfull

 

[bashfull]

Romance. For the 2 of you Noor & bashfull

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Thanks darlin. Where's yours?

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I think it's totally possible for a man to be romantic AND raunchy..
Just as women like myself can be a professional by day, but a slut at night

 

[Jasmine12345]

Thanks darlin. Where's yours?

Here's mine. with the 2 of you.

what would Ssbbw4u1974 like to drink? I'll get you one​

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I'll take an ice cold vodka lemonade please

 

[bashfull]

I think it's totally possible for a man to be romantic AND raunchy..
Just as women like myself can be a professional by day, but a slut at night

That's a great combination, darlin. I've mentioned before on this thread about taking a woman to an elegant affair. She in her black dress slides up to me during the event and whispers in my ear "I'm not wearing panties".

 

[Wonderer67]

Is it possible for a man to be both a gentleman and the "bad boy" that women want him to be? Can there coexist romance and ruanch?

Life is always a bunch of grey area bwtweeen two extremes.

my wife and I both enjoy being tender, romantic, loving…

And also….Rough, dirty and hard.

Sometimes in the same session.

Things are situational.

 

[bashfull]

Here's mine. with the 2 of you.View attachment 2362189

what would Ssbbw4u1974 like to drink? I'll get you one​

Now that's an artform

 

[bashfull]

Life is always a bunch of grey area bwtweeen two extremes.

my wife and I both enjoy being tender, romantic, loving…

And also….Rough, dirty and hard.

Sometimes in the same session.

Things are situational.

I agree. But I've been involved in relationships where one or both are cast aside by her. One instance is when she said "we are past that". Personally, I don't believe a couple should ever move past that. "Never stop courting"

 

[Jasmine12345]

vodka lemonade for Ssbbw4u1974

 

[Wonderer67]

I agree. But I've been involved in relationships where one or both are cast aside by her. One instance is when she said "we are past that". Personally, I don't believe a couple should ever move past that. "Never stop courting"

I am sorry to hear that.
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The day I stop kissing and/or being mushy is the day they put me into the ground.

 

[bashfull]

There has been some really interesting discussion in this thread from both men and women.

 

[Jasmine12345]

Wonderer67, there's an additional vodka lemonade, welcome to have it.​