CountrySunshine76
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Are there any men out there interested in the lost art of romance and seduction or is everything just about sex nowadays?
Romance & Seduction
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seduction is SO important....I try to woo and seduce where appropriate, rather than dive straight in - it often depends on the name and profile of the lady concerned.
Both can make the sex hotter.
CountrySunshine76
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Slow Seduction
Maybe I am just an old fashioned simple country girl who has fantasies of being swept off her feet.
Maybe I am just an old fashioned simple country girl who has fantasies of being swept off her feet.
BBGunn81
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The buildup to sex is just as important as the sex itself. The romance, anticipation, some innuendo and teasing. I usually can't get into it if it's just "ok, let's have sex!" There is a time and place for that, but I like to take time to build up that lust before acting on it.
CountrySunshine76
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Age Factor
Is there some truth to that it could be older, more
mature men who appreciate seduction? That they have the patience and stamina and are not just looking to "get their rocks off"?
I am in my 40's and being seduced is much more of a turn on to me now, than when I was in my 20's.
Is there some truth to that it could be older, more
mature men who appreciate seduction? That they have the patience and stamina and are not just looking to "get their rocks off"?
I am in my 40's and being seduced is much more of a turn on to me now, than when I was in my 20's.
SDCardinal
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Disagree...
I don't really know if I buy into the age-factor, Sunshine. I (like you and some of the others here) believe that romance and seduction... Buildup and anticipation... All of that is wonderful and incredibly important. I also (I think) have felt this way pretty much from teenage years onward (I'm only a little bit younger than you now).
I think it's a person-by-person issue. Some appreciate it, others do not.
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I don't really know if I buy into the age-factor, Sunshine. I (like you and some of the others here) believe that romance and seduction... Buildup and anticipation... All of that is wonderful and incredibly important. I also (I think) have felt this way pretty much from teenage years onward (I'm only a little bit younger than you now).
I think it's a person-by-person issue. Some appreciate it, others do not.
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I think older guys know how 'laying the groundwork' pays off long term. Knowing someone first, what they enjoy or don't, how to put them at ease and feel comfortable and relaxed not feeling pressed to do something they are not ready to do.
And the feeling good just relaxing together.
julybaby04
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It matters more than most men could possibly know. Romantic thoughts shared with a woman so her mind can begin is so much more enticing than a explicit description of a sexual act....to me.
Everyone is different though....and that is the challenge.
Everyone is different though....and that is the challenge.
Seduce the brain and everything else falls into place.
BBGunn81
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Maybe. I'm 35 and appreciate it more now than when I was younger.
julybaby04
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...and the heart...
Livelifetofullesy
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I agree with many of the posters above. Lit attracts all types and its not surprising that quite a few are just looking to get their "rocks" off. The content of Lit somewhat supports that
. However, I am sure there are men who are open and enjoy romance and sweeping a girl off her feet. Just as I am sure that there are some that say they are as they know its the increases their chances of actually getting off. I am not sure I would think of Lit as a place to meet my future mate or for romance, while I am new to posting on forums I have viewed for quite sometime. If looking for a someone to sweep her off her feet in RL I might be more apt to trying other more traditional sites. I myself just celebrated a milestone anniversary after meeting a woman on eharmony, but I like math and had faith in the algorithm.
. However, I am sure there are men who are open and enjoy romance and sweeping a girl off her feet. Just as I am sure that there are some that say they are as they know its the increases their chances of actually getting off. I am not sure I would think of Lit as a place to meet my future mate or for romance, while I am new to posting on forums I have viewed for quite sometime. If looking for a someone to sweep her off her feet in RL I might be more apt to trying other more traditional sites. I myself just celebrated a milestone anniversary after meeting a woman on eharmony, but I like math and had faith in the algorithm.
ky_fella_57
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May I add, the art of romancing a woman is a dying art form, therefore, it is up to some of us older men must keep it alive! Best of luck to you darling.
LostEndeavor
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While obviously not mutually exclusive, I believe romance and seduction are two quite different things. However, they can be a delicious combination.
CountrySunshine76
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Dating versus Fantasy
I am certainly not here looking to find mr. right, or to date. I am irrevocably attached and I was merely asking if there are men who like to role play the romantic side of things instead of just talking dirty, showing off their genitals, and telling you their favourite position, even if you dont ask for it.
It is my understanding that Lit is a place of fantasies and role play. Doesnt that include what I am interested in? Perhaps also lost is the man's ability to
make love, instead of merely rutting like a stag in autumn.
I am certainly not here looking to find mr. right, or to date. I am irrevocably attached and I was merely asking if there are men who like to role play the romantic side of things instead of just talking dirty, showing off their genitals, and telling you their favourite position, even if you dont ask for it.
It is my understanding that Lit is a place of fantasies and role play. Doesnt that include what I am interested in? Perhaps also lost is the man's ability to
make love, instead of merely rutting like a stag in autumn.
Well said. Yes this is a place to live out those things and not a cock Board lol
happyplayer
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As a softee and an old romantic I have to say that I don't think it cuts any ice with most of the females on Lit. Just my experience. The bad guy is still number one in the popularity stakes.
I just love love and loved my times falling in love
I just love love and loved my times falling in love
DonQuixoteindfw
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I'm an old fashioned kind of guy, never been into the "one night stands", oh I've had them, but while temporarily satisfying, not very fulfilling. I guess I'm a Romantic at heart, to me sex without romance is just fucking.
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Hisstory
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yes there are some of us out there
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There are some me like that still.
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LostBabygirl3489
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There is nothing wrong with that. I am the same way too. 
