Sammons1525
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- Joined
- Nov 27, 2002
- Posts
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Oh my, what has ever happened to the art of romancing, the subtle little things, like a box of chocolates, A flower, a hug, The love letter, wining and dining without the expectation of sexual pleasure afterwards.
Seems like anymore, the status quo is how fast can we get naked and screw our brains out. The art of foreplay or mutual pleasuring is a thing of the past for most . Some of the best times I can remember didn't even involve intercourse. ( and yes this is coming from a guy, does that make me weird? possibly, that's for others to judge.)
For me, the anticipation, the leading up to, the dinner, the quiet walk along the lake hand in hand, the touching, hugging and kissing, the spontaneous unexpected is what I enjoy the most. It's the little things that actually bring more pleasure then the outright heated, passionate entwining of the bodies. Don't get me wrong, the twilight of ecstasy, the defining moment where and man and a woman come together as one is sure hard to beat, but it seems that the actual parts or steps leading up to that point has been forgotten.
Maybe, age and maturity has brought me to this point in my life. I can remember in my late teens and early 20's, I was like a walking hardon with my hormones in definite overdrive. But it seems with time, my values have changed. It's the little things that I crave. That first kiss, that first touch, that smile you get when you say the right thing at the right time. The art of a sensual massage can be most gratifying and pleasing to know you have given pleasure, even if you haven't received the same kind of pleasure in return.It's the look of satisfaction, and/or the feeling you get when your partner is totally relaxed by what your doing to them.
suddenly I am sitting here wondering to myself why I am even typing this. In a way it sounds so corny, but at the same time it is the erotic feeling of pleasure to know you can make somebody feel oh, so, good by the simple art of what happens before the main event takes place.. It is the leading up to, the appetizer if you will that makes the main event so much more special and enjoyable.But then again that is only my opinion.
If you actually read this your probably wondering is there a point I am getting at? well yes there is, at least I think there is, I am curious if anybody else seems to think the way I do. That the art of romance is kind of a thing of the past.
Good Day
Sammons1525
Seems like anymore, the status quo is how fast can we get naked and screw our brains out. The art of foreplay or mutual pleasuring is a thing of the past for most . Some of the best times I can remember didn't even involve intercourse. ( and yes this is coming from a guy, does that make me weird? possibly, that's for others to judge.)
For me, the anticipation, the leading up to, the dinner, the quiet walk along the lake hand in hand, the touching, hugging and kissing, the spontaneous unexpected is what I enjoy the most. It's the little things that actually bring more pleasure then the outright heated, passionate entwining of the bodies. Don't get me wrong, the twilight of ecstasy, the defining moment where and man and a woman come together as one is sure hard to beat, but it seems that the actual parts or steps leading up to that point has been forgotten.
Maybe, age and maturity has brought me to this point in my life. I can remember in my late teens and early 20's, I was like a walking hardon with my hormones in definite overdrive. But it seems with time, my values have changed. It's the little things that I crave. That first kiss, that first touch, that smile you get when you say the right thing at the right time. The art of a sensual massage can be most gratifying and pleasing to know you have given pleasure, even if you haven't received the same kind of pleasure in return.It's the look of satisfaction, and/or the feeling you get when your partner is totally relaxed by what your doing to them.
suddenly I am sitting here wondering to myself why I am even typing this. In a way it sounds so corny, but at the same time it is the erotic feeling of pleasure to know you can make somebody feel oh, so, good by the simple art of what happens before the main event takes place.. It is the leading up to, the appetizer if you will that makes the main event so much more special and enjoyable.But then again that is only my opinion.
If you actually read this your probably wondering is there a point I am getting at? well yes there is, at least I think there is, I am curious if anybody else seems to think the way I do. That the art of romance is kind of a thing of the past.
Good Day
Sammons1525
