Roll call: Mature women who like younger men

[mikeRotch69]

Well I'm going to do all the men on this site like me a favor... hopefully. All you women who like a younger man, or maybe just want to try one out, post here, and your sure to get a ton of pm's. Be as specific as you want as well, there is plenty of us here.

Also, this is a favor to all the cougars, feel free to set the bait here and trap whatever prey you want .

Did I mention I love older women? All shapes and sizes? Just thought I'd throw that in there.

Have fun!

 

[HowMayIPleaseU]

I've recently had several disappointments with a few young men (enough to remind me of why I used to refuse to speak to anyone under 30), including some who had been pm'ing me and had very much wanted me to contact them, so let me post a few tips for all you little cubs looking for a cougar...

Occasionally I send a friendly hello on IM if you include your id on your profile or in your posting or pm's to me. I do not immediately identify myself because I think it is very revealing to see how you respond to a stranger who contacts you and starts with a simple good morning. If you assume I am a bot or male, and thus believe you can speak as rudely as you wish to me, you're going to be sorely disappointed when I reveal who I am and you realize the opportunity you just missed. Do yourself a favor and give all IM's the courtesy of erring on the side of assuming it is someone you WANT to talk to. You can always decline the invitation to talk AFTER you know who is asking or after you discover the person really is a bot (and sorry, but good morning is not sufficient evidence).

Don't start with a/s/l as your conversation opener. Seriously... try using conversation to find out what you want to know... Don't pigeonhole me with 43/f/midwest. Yes, i know you want to know those details, but your approach would be more successful with actual real friendly questions and a buildup of dialog. It's an interesting and significant note to me that about 8 out of 10 men in their 20s that i speak to start with a/s/l while only about 1 or 2 out of 10 men in their 40s do it. Definitely something men learn to avoid with experience.

Don't start any sentence with "I didn't know people your age did ________" No matter HOW you might fill in the blank and even if you think you are starting a compliment (but especially if you aren't), just don't do it...

Remember your manners... If you don't like something I enjoy, just say politely that this fantasy doesn't appeal to you. I don't expect everyone to like everything I enjoy and I often accommodate someone if something doesn't appeal to them. It's easy to do when there are so many things that I enjoy. But if you are rude in expressing your dislike of my like, you are definitely shooting yourself in the foot.

And a final word of advice, pretty much all the older women that I know that express some interest in younger men universally dislike text speak. So if you want to speak to us, use real sentences and real words...

All right... vent done...

 

[wife2hotblk]

I would add one more...we are past the point that we enjoy games. Be open and upfront about what you are looking for from the beginning.

 

[kaycee217]

I've recently had several disappointments with a few young men (enough to remind me of why I used to refuse to speak to anyone under 30), including some who had been pm'ing me and had very much wanted me to contact them, so let me post a few tips for all you little cubs looking for a cougar...

Occasionally I send a friendly hello on IM if you include your id on your profile or in your posting or pm's to me. I do not immediately identify myself because I think it is very revealing to see how you respond to a stranger who contacts you and starts with a simple good morning. If you assume I am a bot or male, and thus believe you can speak as rudely as you wish to me, you're going to be sorely disappointed when I reveal who I am and you realize the opportunity you just missed. Do yourself a favor and give all IM's the courtesy of erring on the side of assuming it is someone you WANT to talk to. You can always decline the invitation to talk AFTER you know who is asking or after you discover the person really is a bot (and sorry, but good morning is not sufficient evidence).

Don't start with a/s/l as your conversation opener. Seriously... try using conversation to find out what you want to know... Don't pigeonhole me with 43/f/midwest. Yes, i know you want to know those details, but your approach would be more successful with actual real friendly questions and a buildup of dialog. It's an interesting and significant note to me that about 8 out of 10 men in their 20s that i speak to start with a/s/l while only about 1 or 2 out of 10 men in their 40s do it. Definitely something men learn to avoid with experience.

Don't start any sentence with "I didn't know people your age did ________" No matter HOW you might fill in the blank and even if you think you are starting a compliment (but especially if you aren't), just don't do it...

Remember your manners... If you don't like something I enjoy, just say politely that this fantasy doesn't appeal to you. I don't expect everyone to like everything I enjoy and I often accommodate someone if something doesn't appeal to them. It's easy to do when there are so many things that I enjoy. But if you are rude in expressing your dislike of my like, you are definitely shooting yourself in the foot.

And a final word of advice, pretty much all the older women that I know that express some interest in younger men universally dislike text speak. So if you want to speak to us, use real sentences and real words...

All right... vent done...

A good post filled with good advice.

I just wanted to emphasize the bolded. It's almost never a good idea to call attention to the woman's age. Even if the woman loves younger men, she likes to know you are attracted to her for reasons other than her age.

 

[mikeRotch69]

Wow great advice up there, I hope all the younger guys out there are taking notes, I know I am.

I'm sorry to hear that you women have had such bad experiences, but I promise not all of us are all that bad

 

[JMR85]

Great idea for a thread! I for one would love to throw my hat into the ring...if any ladies would like to chat with me, I would love to hear from you.

I may only be 24, but I'm very lovely. Honest. Oh, and I have an ass to kill for!

 

[papadoc19]

Very informative

 

[mikeRotch69]

Come on ladies, I know your out there, your welcome to just give advice or even rant if you don't want to send an open invite!

 

[ima6uldv8]

Hi guys. I've talked with a few of you here. Until recently, I wasn't aware of how many younger guys liked the older women. I can't believe more aren't speaking up. Anyway, just thought I'd say hello. I'm 45, by the way.

 

[Wyld52771]

I've recently had several disappointments with a few young men (enough to remind me of why I used to refuse to speak to anyone under 30), including some who had been pm'ing me and had very much wanted me to contact them, so let me post a few tips for all you little cubs looking for a cougar...

Occasionally I send a friendly hello on IM if you include your id on your profile or in your posting or pm's to me. I do not immediately identify myself because I think it is very revealing to see how you respond to a stranger who contacts you and starts with a simple good morning. If you assume I am a bot or male, and thus believe you can speak as rudely as you wish to me, you're going to be sorely disappointed when I reveal who I am and you realize the opportunity you just missed. Do yourself a favor and give all IM's the courtesy of erring on the side of assuming it is someone you WANT to talk to. You can always decline the invitation to talk AFTER you know who is asking or after you discover the person really is a bot (and sorry, but good morning is not sufficient evidence).

Don't start with a/s/l as your conversation opener. Seriously... try using conversation to find out what you want to know... Don't pigeonhole me with 43/f/midwest. Yes, i know you want to know those details, but your approach would be more successful with actual real friendly questions and a buildup of dialog. It's an interesting and significant note to me that about 8 out of 10 men in their 20s that i speak to start with a/s/l while only about 1 or 2 out of 10 men in their 40s do it. Definitely something men learn to avoid with experience.

Don't start any sentence with "I didn't know people your age did ________" No matter HOW you might fill in the blank and even if you think you are starting a compliment (but especially if you aren't), just don't do it...

Remember your manners... If you don't like something I enjoy, just say politely that this fantasy doesn't appeal to you. I don't expect everyone to like everything I enjoy and I often accommodate someone if something doesn't appeal to them. It's easy to do when there are so many things that I enjoy. But if you are rude in expressing your dislike of my like, you are definitely shooting yourself in the foot.

And a final word of advice, pretty much all the older women that I know that express some interest in younger men universally dislike text speak. So if you want to speak to us, use real sentences and real words...

All right... vent done...

Well, I am a guy but other than than the gender difference, I must say, I relate to and agree with everything you said here. Course, then again, I'm also hitting close to that magical four-oh number you were talking about... *chuckles*

~Wyld

 

[wife2hotblk]

OK...I am curious here with the guys. Although I am faithfully married, ALOT of my writing centers around my secret cougar fantasies. But in my stories, it is more than just sex...they are committed relationships. I have received some feedabck that says younger men only want the sex but will settle down with someone their own age eventually. But I have also chatted with a couple of my male fans, who say that they are looking for long term, but the women don't take them seriously. (One whose heart was seriously broken by the woman that he would have wanted to marry). So which is it guys...fling or forever?

 

[mikeRotch69]

Well if I'm looking for a long-term relationship, the age isn't a problem.
Thats kinda the point of liking mature women. For some it may just be a fetish or a fantasy, but if something more comes out of it, I wouldn't mind at all.

At the same time, if the woman is married, or doesn't feel it will work out, I respect that as well.

 

[Erosian]

Hi guys. I've talked with a few of you here. Until recently, I wasn't aware of how many younger guys liked the older women. I can't believe more aren't speaking up. Anyway, just thought I'd say hello. I'm 45, by the way.

Hi.

I'll speak up and say that I'm an avid fan of mature women also! I've always had a taste for them after one taught me how to cyber so many years back.

 

[fstuck]

OK...I am curious here with the guys. Although I am faithfully married, ALOT of my writing centers around my secret cougar fantasies. But in my stories, it is more than just sex...they are committed relationships. I have received some feedabck that says younger men only want the sex but will settle down with someone their own age eventually. But I have also chatted with a couple of my male fans, who say that they are looking for long term, but the women don't take them seriously. (One whose heart was seriously broken by the woman that he would have wanted to marry). So which is it guys...fling or forever?

I myself have never actually had a relationship with an older woman so I can't say for sure but I would like to think that I would be attracted to more than just her body and age.. I can barely have sex with someone now unless I really care about them.. I can't get turned on otherwise.

 

[mikeRotch69]

I myself have never actually had a relationship with an older woman so I can't say for sure but I would like to think that I would be attracted to more than just her body and age.. I can barely have sex with someone now unless I really care about them.. I can't get turned on otherwise.

Thats a good point. But the age thing is sometimes exciting and older women have amazing bodies as well! It's like having your cake AND getting to eat it too

 

[longjohny231]

I've recently had several disappointments with a few young men (enough to remind me of why I used to refuse to speak to anyone under 30), including some who had been pm'ing me and had very much wanted me to contact them, so let me post a few tips for all you little cubs looking for a cougar...

Occasionally I send a friendly hello on IM if you include your id on your profile or in your posting or pm's to me. I do not immediately identify myself because I think it is very revealing to see how you respond to a stranger who contacts you and starts with a simple good morning. If you assume I am a bot or male, and thus believe you can speak as rudely as you wish to me, you're going to be sorely disappointed when I reveal who I am and you realize the opportunity you just missed. Do yourself a favor and give all IM's the courtesy of erring on the side of assuming it is someone you WANT to talk to. You can always decline the invitation to talk AFTER you know who is asking or after you discover the person really is a bot (and sorry, but good morning is not sufficient evidence).

Don't start with a/s/l as your conversation opener. Seriously... try using conversation to find out what you want to know... Don't pigeonhole me with 43/f/midwest. Yes, i know you want to know those details, but your approach would be more successful with actual real friendly questions and a buildup of dialog. It's an interesting and significant note to me that about 8 out of 10 men in their 20s that i speak to start with a/s/l while only about 1 or 2 out of 10 men in their 40s do it. Definitely something men learn to avoid with experience.

Don't start any sentence with "I didn't know people your age did ________" No matter HOW you might fill in the blank and even if you think you are starting a compliment (but especially if you aren't), just don't do it...

Remember your manners... If you don't like something I enjoy, just say politely that this fantasy doesn't appeal to you. I don't expect everyone to like everything I enjoy and I often accommodate someone if something doesn't appeal to them. It's easy to do when there are so many things that I enjoy. But if you are rude in expressing your dislike of my like, you are definitely shooting yourself in the foot.

And a final word of advice, pretty much all the older women that I know that express some interest in younger men universally dislike text speak. So if you want to speak to us, use real sentences and real words...

All right... vent done...

thanks for the pointers! us young guns tend to shoot and ask questions later!

 

[deskuser]

As an old girl in her 40's I can honestly say it depends on the man. Old, young, my age,black white, asian? Irrelevant.

 

[mikeRotch69]

Oh come on it can't be irrelevant, variety is the spice of life as they say, I'm sure you must have some preference, or some race, or age group that is fun to experience and play around with. I'm partial to anything different from me. And from the differences I've tried, I find mature women the best consistently

 

[deskuser]

What I'm saying is I've no particular preference. I've known attractive fun young guys and also older ones. I've never dated a black man but only because I've never hard the chance. I also don't mind short men I'm not one of these girls who say " oh golly he's so tall! (sigh) . A handsome face, nice smile , not fat , and good and fun character are whats important to me.

I suppose because I married a man slightly older than me I must prefer older men.

 

[heartoftexasgrl]

Well, hell. Count me out.

I may be getting old, but I'm sure as hell not mature.

 

[mikeRotch69]

Well, hell. Count me out.

I may be getting old, but I'm sure as hell not mature.

LOL that's even better

But that does bring up a problem I always have especially online. When I want to let a woman know I'm into women of a certain age, is it better to say, "older" or "mature" ? Don't get me wrong, I understand it would be better not to mention it at all since age isn't the important thing here, but still I'd still like to get across that their age is an asset and should be flaunted, not something that should not be mentioned.

 

[heartoftexasgrl]

LOL that's even better

But that does bring up a problem I always have especially online. When I want to let a woman know I'm into women of a certain age, is it better to say, "older" or "mature" ? Don't get me wrong, I understand it would be better not to mention it at all since age isn't the important thing here, but still I'd still like to get across that their age is an asset and should be flaunted, not something that should not be mentioned.

Personally, I'd prefer a guy start with some other reason that he's interested. Simply being older than you is no accomplishment on my part. Telling me that you're interested in my ever so charming personality, my fantastic spelling skills, my disdain for the Dallas Cowboys. . . . that's going to get you a lot farther than just telling me you're into me because I'm older and you have a thing for older women. For me, it's more about being into someone in spite of the age difference, not because of it.
Just my two cents. Your mileage may vary.

 

[smoochmycooch]

Being almost 35, I find my younger men glass half empty. I don't think I could be with someone under 25. The youngest I've dated is 27 and what a real disappointment he was last night

 

[mikeRotch69]

But with age comes alot of other great things, experience yes, but not just the bedroom. Also there is something about women from an older generation that isn't in women of this one. Of course there are exceptions on both sides.

That being said I do understand your point about being older is not an accomplishment on your part, but your personality has "matured" to become as charming as it is now.

I guess us younger guys want to let you know off the bat that your age isn't an issue at all for us which is why we mention it immediately.

 

[mikeRotch69]

Being almost 35, I find my younger men glass half empty. I don't think I could be with someone under 25. The youngest I've dated is 27 and what a real disappointment he was last night

What happened last night? Also, would I be able to step in instead?