John Roberts
Mambo gal
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- Jul 5, 2002
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Now I find it interesting that life can run such interference on goals and dreams.....throwing in the distractions that pull us down the wrong path..........or is it?.........frequently through the angst of life events it appears we are on a torturous path resisting the events that could well be the blessed event of a life time........Opportunity or the pit..........hmmmmm......we possess the switch which way are we to take it.........
I know that for me remembering to view it as an adventure with good things around the corner makes it the foundation of hope for the future....when I forget and react to the events forgetting the bigger picture is when I get into trouble.
Allowing the petty intereactions of life to dictate ones quality of mind is a mistake which is easy to make with all the distractions that are thrown at us........which is why it is important to take that quiet moment to reflect, .....not to wallow in misery but to regather, direct self healing, to steer ones self down the path of illumination.......to grasp for the light and pull it into yourself.
remember that to immerse yourself into hurt for too long is the path of self destruction, it will only prolong misery and amplify it...
All negative thought is self destructive and does nothing positive.
To put it simply......You are what you eat.......This is not an attack on grief...the length of which can only be determined by the griever and no one else....but more an attack on negative self talk.......try not saying negative thoughts for a day in your internal dialogue or conversations with others.......a very useful tool to assess yourself.
I know that for me remembering to view it as an adventure with good things around the corner makes it the foundation of hope for the future....when I forget and react to the events forgetting the bigger picture is when I get into trouble.
Allowing the petty intereactions of life to dictate ones quality of mind is a mistake which is easy to make with all the distractions that are thrown at us........which is why it is important to take that quiet moment to reflect, .....not to wallow in misery but to regather, direct self healing, to steer ones self down the path of illumination.......to grasp for the light and pull it into yourself.
remember that to immerse yourself into hurt for too long is the path of self destruction, it will only prolong misery and amplify it...
All negative thought is self destructive and does nothing positive.
To put it simply......You are what you eat.......This is not an attack on grief...the length of which can only be determined by the griever and no one else....but more an attack on negative self talk.......try not saying negative thoughts for a day in your internal dialogue or conversations with others.......a very useful tool to assess yourself.
