Reverse-Cuckolding? (as a theme)

[Arthur_Guy]

With the proliferation of "cuckolding" stories where the cuckold is the male in the relationship, why not put the shoe on the other foot? Go...

How would you tell such a story? Mine would have to be humorous/farcical, as I really don't go-in for humiliating and degrading other people

 

[Kojak01]

You mean stories like these?

https://tags.literotica.com/cuckquean/
https://tags.literotica.com/cuckqueen/
https://tags.literotica.com/cuckcake/

 

[Arthur_Guy]

LOL!

Didn't even know they existed! Not really into that genre, anyway... Gonna have to check them out, though, and see how the theme is presented. Then, do something different

 

[Damoiselle]

I have one in the works, on slow slow burn.

I'm a sub and a bit of a masochist (but only up to a particular degree) so mine would be played straight, but it would be a little angsty and I (meaning my self insert character) would get rewarded with praise for being supportive.

 

[Arthur_Guy]

I have one in the works, on slow slow burn.

I'm a sub and a bit of a masochist (but only up to a particular degree) so mine would be played straight, but it would be a little angsty and I (meaning my self insert character) would get rewarded with praise for being supportive.

After researching the "cuckquean" fetish, I found my idea was something quite different. The story I'm developing is more the Shakespearean, "Taming of the Shrew"... where my protagonist is a heroine that helps men cuck their vain, cruel, and philanderous wives/GFs... what do you think?

 

[Damoiselle]

After researching the "cuckquean" fetish, I found my idea was something quite different. The story I'm developing is more the Shakespearean, "Taming of the Shrew"... where my protagonist is a heroine that helps men cuck their vain, cruel, and philanderous wives/GFs... what do you think?

I think the bard would probably approve. It's like Kate moved up from just urging wives to be obedient, on toward punishing them for not.

Not my kink, personally, since I tend to identify as the woman and with the giving, self sacrificing person in the exchange, but it sounds like the viewers in LW might dig it.

 

[davion2308]

Here's a thought

I think it would be similar to cuckolding but the story would be grounded more in reality. You could have a woman who's insecure, feels like she's not attractive enough or worthy enough for her husband, and wants him to be happy.

She doesn't like sex all that much, she's not really into it and his sex drive is increasing as he's taking care of himself and working out more and feeling better. She doesn't want to hold him back so she invites him to go find another woman to take care of his needs. She acknowledges she doesn't do it well enough so he gets the green light to go out and find someone else.

It's not humilation or small-penis syndrome like the male cuckold side but it's close

 

[OldHideki]

Why hasn’t any mentioned Ghislane Maxwell yet? She seems to be the ultimate cockqueen, luring young teenage girls to her lover Jeffry Epstein. I’m sure there a beginning of a good story there.

 

[Arthur_Guy]

WOW! The gender-bias (alone) of this subject is staggering... In favor of the feminine (in this case): e.g. if a male gets cuckolded, he deserves it; if a female gets cuckolded, she wants it? I think I won't play in this realm, at all... I think I'll go back my fantasy/scifi realms, where a person's character is not based on accident-of-birth (gender, race, and/or creed)...

 

[Kojak01]

WOW! The gender-bias (alone) of this subject is staggering... In favor of the feminine (in this case): e.g. if a male gets cuckolded, he deserves it; if a female gets cuckolded, she wants it? I think I won't play in this realm, at all... I think I'll go back my fantasy/scifi realms, where a person's character is not based on accident-of-birth (gender, race, and/or creed)...

And you've not even posted it in the LW-category yet

 

[astuffedshirt_perv]

BTW, what is the rational for the 'quean' as opposed to the 'queen'?

 

[Kojak01]

BTW, what is the rational for the 'quean' as opposed to the 'queen'?

According to here

https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/cuckquean

it's a blend of cuckold +‎ quean (“disreputable woman”)

 

[Damoiselle]

WOW! The gender-bias (alone) of this subject is staggering... In favor of the feminine (in this case): e.g. if a male gets cuckolded, he deserves it; if a female gets cuckolded, she wants it? I think I won't play in this realm, at all... I think I'll go back my fantasy/scifi realms, where a person's character is not based on accident-of-birth (gender, race, and/or creed)...

Well, dude...the idea of people a double standard between the genders isn't new. Men are just under way more pressure to treat being possessive as equivalent with being masculine.

I mean, some of the fans in loving wives only think it's good if the husband *didn't want it* and punishes the wife for it really really hard. The male writers who are willing to do it as just part of the voyeuristic and giving pleasure of seeing their wife enjoy sex with someone else are more few and far between, but it's always interesting to see when a guy is brave enough to showcase the kink without shame.

There are lots of different flavors to approach this kink with, and a lot of it is just totally dependent on who you sympathize with and how much you sympathize with them.

I sympathize most with the woman being willingly cucked, but that doesn't mean I look at the other two involved unfavorably. In fact, if they're a little mean, that just makes them sexier to me. But it has to be the right kind of mean. In my fantasy of this, I'm taunted and praised in equal measure.

In practice, of course some people indulge in double standards by gender, but for my part, my interest in the kink is dictated entirely around one factor: Does the story have a willing, giving, loving cuckquean I can identify with?

Very few do. That's why I'm writing my own.

So you asked for people to share the version of the story they'd prefer and a few people answered with ones that are sympathetic to women and that makes you throw up your hands and abandon the concept? Why??? Why not instead let us have our particular flavor of interest in the kink and you have yours and we all live happily ever after that way. Fucking kumbaya.

 

[lovecraft68]

I can see why this needs to be figured out...and right away...we simply cannot have a fetish where women are calling the shots and embarrassing the little mens now can we?

The insecure male faction of lit has been especially active lately-even on the boards- it is really pushing me to drop something in loving wives just to enjoy the screaming and ranting and hollow empty threats of lit's impotent incel nation.

 

[Damoiselle]

Why hasn’t any mentioned Ghislane Maxwell yet? She seems to be the ultimate cockqueen, luring young teenage girls to her lover Jeffry Epstein. I’m sure there a beginning of a good story there.

Well, that being attributed as an "ultimate" example of the kink might actually tacitly shame me out of ever identifying with it again so this has been an eventful few minutes

 

[Arthur_Guy]

I already said that I was abandoning this project... I'd just rather not. But, I suppose I stirred-up a hornet's nest with my "bias" comment, and I apologize.

Being (indirectly) called an incel was rather insulting... but, I understand that it was a reaction to my inflammatory post. My bad... sorry, once again.

Actually, I do have a GF-revenge story, where a girl has sex with her philandering boyfriend's father, that I have just never published. I think I'll go back, rework it a bit, and publish it

 

[Damoiselle]

I already said that I was abandoning this project... I'd just rather not. But, I suppose I stirred-up a hornet's nest with my "bias" comment, and I apologize.

Being (indirectly) called an incel was rather insulting... but, I understand that it was a reaction to my inflammatory post. My bad... sorry, once again.

Actually, I do have a GF-revenge story, where a girl has sex with her philandering boyfriend's father, that I have just never published. I think I'll go back, rework it a bit, and publish it

Sure, I'm not trying to force you to do a project. It was just that your disgust with other people having a different approach to a kink seemed really judgmental to me.

I didn't realize that someone indirectly called you an incel though so...(shrug)

 

[MelissaBaby]

My cuckquean story.

"Honey, I have decided I am going to have sex with other women."

"Does that mean you will leave me alone for a while and let me finish writing this fucking story?"

"Uh, yeah, I guess so."

"Okay. Have fun, sweetie."

 

[SimonDoom]

My cuckquean story.

"Honey, I have decided I am going to have sex with other women."

"Does that mean you will leave me alone for a while and let me finish writing this fucking story?"

"Uh, yeah, I guess so."

"Okay. Have fun, sweetie."

Sounds interesting. Is this going to be in the next chapter of your story?

You could rename it "Mary and her Story and Alvin and his Women."

 

[MelissaBaby]

Sounds interesting. Is this going to be in the next chapter of your story?

You could rename it "Mary and her Story and Alvin and his Women."

I think I missed the boat on that one. Alvin is about 75 at this point, so it might be asking a lot from him.

 

[Arthur_Guy]

Sure, I'm not trying to force you to do a project. It was just that your disgust with other people having a different approach to a kink seemed really judgmental to me.

I didn't realize that someone indirectly called you an incel though so...(shrug)

It was judgmental, and I'm not denying that it was wrong of me... That's why I apologized.

When a Gentleman steps outside of being a Gentleman, the only solution is contrition... as to regain the dignity and honor that makes one worthy.

I think that's the problem with us "Gentleman/woman-Doms"... when we say something stupid, we're our own worst punishers. Honestly, I was not dignified, and I was not honorable, when I said what I said... I am truly sorry... especially to you, Damoiselle

 

[Ginlover]

Jealousy and possessivness are powerful emotions in dynamics and many people feed of them. Women and men wanting their partner to demonstrate extreme emotions. Cuckxxxx for either sex can often be summarised as wanting to be or stimulation of possessive tendencies.

A kink for humiliation also often features. The ultimate humiliation watching another man or woman meet you partners needs better than you feel able to.

The common conclusion of consensual cuck is the love and reassurance they are enough, the renewed passion, reclaiming their status after the event. That's why a cuck has the kink they want the loving afterwards to feel they are special.

It is not my kink but to confuse consensual cuck kink with fucking behind someone's back is where I feel readers get so upset. To me one is a kink in a dynamic the other is non consent and being a twat.

But it is not different between men and women cucks, it is just a range different emotions and motivations between people and their dynamics. I'm not reading this as being a sexist thread I'm just seeing a range of emotions as to how the cuck feels

 

[Arthur_Guy]

Jealousy and possessivness are powerful emotions in dynamics and many people feed of them. Women and men wanting their partner to demonstrate extreme emotions. Cuckxxxx for either sex can often be summarised as wanting to be or stimulation of possessive tendencies.

A kink for humiliation also often features. The ultimate humiliation watching another man or woman meet you partners needs better than you feel able to.

The common conclusion of consensual cuck is the love and reassurance they are enough, the renewed passion, reclaiming their status after the event. That's why a cuck has the kink they want the loving afterwards to feel they are special.

It is not my kink but to confuse consensual cuck kink with fucking behind someone's back is where I feel readers get so upset. To me one is a kink in a dynamic the other is non consent and being a twat.

But it is not different between men and women cucks, it is just a range different emotions and motivations between people and their dynamics. I'm not reading this as being a sexist thread I'm just seeing a range of emotions as to how the cuck feels

I really do comprehend the logic, herein... albeit, cold, ruthless... Remember, I am a writer of high-fantasy, and there is a reckoning: a place where justice lays... and no matter how many fancy-words that you may employ, one is elevated, while another is reduced, for the sake of a false superiority... In your realm, Sauron wins; Darth Sidious wins; every unjust, ruthless, bully is the hero... How sad...

 

[Zeb_Carter]

Actually, isn't what the OP is talking about called Revenge? If the wife is already cuckolding him and he goes and cucks her, that would be revenge.

 

[Enchantment_of_Nyx]

I really do comprehend the logic, herein... albeit, cold, ruthless... Remember, I am a writer of high-fantasy, and there is a reckoning: a place where justice lays... and no matter how many fancy-words that you may employ, one is elevated, while another is reduced, for the sake of a false superiority... In your realm, Sauron wins; Darth Sidious wins; every unjust, ruthless, bully is the hero... How sad...

I don't know where you got that from what Gin_Lover said. Either I am misunderstanding you or misunderstanding her, or you are misunderstanding her. What do you mean?