Revenge Sex

[ken0000001]

I've posted on this site before, and am not always proud of what I say.

But I am so mad at my wife right now, about her total lack of attentiveness to our marriage, and yes, my sexual needs, that I am ready to have what I would call "revenge sex".

Has anyone else had the feeling? That you are so angry you just want to make love to a willing partner (what the hell is that like?) and actually hope you get caught so you can say a big "Fuck you" to her.

Not that she hasn't been told by a marriage counselor that she is driving me away by living in this unnatural, platonic state of marriage.

Really, hardly any affection at ll, except of course, when addressed bluntly by me and that lasts as long as an old man's hard-on (which I have some experience with). I'm told a sense of humor is good in times like this.

Okay, I vented and am now going to jerk off to porn because there is nothing else to do.

If, by some strange chance, you relate to what I am saying, and are a woman, and would want to do somethig yourself, by all means contact me at ken0000001@hotmail.com. I live in Boston, but would travel to be with someone who actually likes sex and the pleasure it can bring (if my memory serves me correctly).

I apologize in advance for this outburst.

 

[Maximumtest]

No offense, but with an attitude like that, do you think it's any wonder she doesn't want anywhere near you geezer? Try getting to know her and finding out what her needs are instead of looking for "revenge sex". I really hope you manage to fix all your problems And that you have fun doing so

 

[ken0000001]

That's why youth is wasted on the young

I can tell from your age (pic) that you are not responsible for your comments.

Also, you clearly have no therapy experience or you would hear years and years of addressing the issue in every single conceivable way like a responsible person in my anger.

So, unless you have experienced same.... (I will not be rude)

Imagine your wife basically saying, live with me and your sex life at 61 is over.

That's not a marriage, it's sharing a house.

No offense, but with an attitude like that, do you think it's any wonder she doesn't want anywhere near you geezer? Try getting to know her and finding out what her needs are instead of looking for "revenge sex". I really hope you manage to fix all your problems And that you have fun doing so

 

[sxygirl37]

okay, ken. here goes. i dunno if this is gonna help u or not.

i was in a relationship not too long ago. i dearly loved him. he didn't reciprocate the feeling. he wanted all women. he went out w/another woman while we lived together. he also was having sex w/someone else - all during our relationship. i was pissed at him. i met a friend once and we had sex. i felt absolutely awful for it and was very ashamed of myself. it still never changed anything.

if u wanna chat personal, feel free to PM me please.

 

[ken0000001]

Thanks

Thanks so much for you note.

First of all that you are a Sox fan makes you tops in my book.

That being said, she nor I have cheated on each other (she could care less about sex which I believe to be true and after 42 years of knowing her I think I am right) as much as I have fantasized about it.

I believe I could feel bad about it, however, but she is so amazingly unobservant that I could do it and not feel guilty. I am less angry when I wrote that first email, but much more depressed about someone whom I've known since I was 19 years old being so clueless when she is so smart about other things.

There's no accounting for it - but then there are Yankee fans and there is no accounting for that either. Got to keep a sense of humor.

But I am sleeping in another room tonight and when she asks why I am going to tell her unless she sees that marriage counselor she opted out of before, I am staying put. See if that does anything. I'll let you know and thank you so much for writing.

I hope you find some friends there. I have a suggestion for you since you took the time for me. Whatever your interest is, find a group that meets at night and join it. When I moved to Boston, I got involved in theater and had a great time.


Thanks so much, sweetie - you are so very kind.

okay, ken. here goes. i dunno if this is gonna help u or not.

i was in a relationship not too long ago. i dearly loved him. he didn't reciprocate the feeling. he wanted all women. he went out w/another woman while we lived together. he also was having sex w/someone else - all during our relationship. i was pissed at him. i met a friend once and we had sex. i felt absolutely awful for it and was very ashamed of myself. it still never changed anything.

if u wanna chat personal, feel free to PM me please.

 

[sxygirl37]

first up - GO RED SOX!!!!! GO PATS!!!!!!! oh yeah, i'm a HUGE HUGE FAN!!!!!

secondly - i can't give an opinion on u sleeping in another room. i guess that's a decision only u can make. i'm sorry it's come down to that for u. it sux, i know. been there, done that before.

a long time ago, i was with a guy that could care less about sex. he wanted me to be there for everything else, but didn't care if he ever had sex or not. it sucked.

anyway - like i said - if u wanna chat private, i'm here.

take care!