Resources

[DustyWolfe]

Okay, so I am working up a pretty elaborate website for bdsm, specifically for submissives that have been broken or suffered abuse and such as child. I'm linking the broken subs thread from here, but I would like to come up with some other resources. If anyone has any links they wish to be included in my website please let me know!

Right now the site is just bare bones. I am hoping to eventually get it, it's own domain if I see that it is popular enough. We shall see though.

Thanks in advance!

 

[Ebonyfire]

Okay, so I am working up a pretty elaborate website for bdsm, specifically for submissives that have been broken or suffered abuse and such as child. I'm linking the broken subs thread from here, but I would like to come up with some other resources. If anyone has any links they wish to be included in my website please let me know!

Right now the site is just bare bones. I am hoping to eventually get it, it's own domain if I see that it is popular enough. We shall see though.

Thanks in advance!

What an excellent idea! I will keep my eyes peeled! I wish yu much success on your website!

Eb

 

[DustyWolfe]

Re: Re: Resources

What an excellent idea! I will keep my eyes peeled! I wish yu much success on your website!

Eb

Awww thanks Ebony, that means alot. I will post the link as soon as I get some more meat on the site lol. I'm going to tell a lot of my own personal story and how I have moved on with my life. If others wish their stories to be told I will post those as well. There just aren't many resources for us out there and I think in cases like this it's just nice to know someone knows what you are going through. I'm going to try to add a chat room possibly. I'm still a bit scattered as to where I am going with this but I have no doubt that at least one person might benefit from it. And if they do then my job is done

 

[cellis]

Dusty... You rock! and I just love you!

 

[JenJ]

you have done a good job so far my sweet Dusty.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Dustygrrl

A wonderful concept long over due. Congratulations on the idea and the implementation of such a vast yet vital undertaking.

 

[JusticeLupus]

Keep up the good work


(edited cause I'm wierd) lol

 

[DustyWolfe]

Dustygrrl

A wonderful concept long over due. Congratulations on the idea and the implementation of such a vast yet vital undertaking.

Thank you so much, I just hope I do it justice.

 

[DustyWolfe]

you have done a good job so far my sweet Dusty.

Thank you love

 

[DustyWolfe]

Dusty... You rock! and I just love you!

*blushing* awwwww thanks! Love ya to

 

[CarolineOh]

Okay, so I am working up a pretty elaborate website for bdsm, specifically for submissives that have been broken or suffered abuse and such as child. I'm linking the broken subs thread from here, but I would like to come up with some other resources. If anyone has any links they wish to be included in my website please let me know!

Right now the site is just bare bones. I am hoping to eventually get it, it's own domain if I see that it is popular enough. We shall see though.

Thanks in advance!

That's a wonderful idea, Dusty, and I think you are a heroine for doing it! If I run across anything I think might be useful, I'll let you know.

 

[MsWorthy]

Okay, so I am working up a pretty elaborate website for bdsm, specifically for submissives that have been broken or suffered abuse and such as child. I'm linking the broken subs thread from here, but I would like to come up with some other resources. If anyone has any links they wish to be included in my website please let me know!

Right now the site is just bare bones. I am hoping to eventually get it, it's own domain if I see that it is popular enough. We shall see though.

Thanks in advance!

Dustygrrl, is this what you are looking for?

http://www.twoheartsonesoul.com/last.htm

"The L.A.S.T. (Lifestyle Abuse Survivors Together) ribbon campaign was created to show the support and unity of those of us in the BDSM Lifestyle who have been abused in the lifestyle and/or as a result of childhood abuse, domestic violence, adult abuse, any kind of abuse. L.A.S.T. was created for one sole purpose: For all abuse survivors to unite as one to show support of one another in this ever lingering scar we carry. "

I would also suggest checking

http://webring.com/rw

for webrings pertaining to your site. If there isn't one you can create a ring yourself.

Good Luck

 

[MzChrista]

Thats pretty awesome Dustygrrl, good for you for doing that.

 

[cellis]

I had a chance to view Dusty's web site the other night and i must tell you that is quite wonderful!

 

[WillowPuss]

Ohhh is it up and running?

I would love to see it.


And Dusty ... if I come across anything - I will let you know.

 

[cellis]

No Willow, it is not up yet.

Dusty and I were talking the other night and she showed me what she had done so far.

It will be truly marvelous once it is finished.

 

[intrigued]

What a lovely thread, and an excellent gift you are giving to so many, I thank you.

 

[artful]

Dear cellis

No Willow, it is not up yet.

Dusty and I were talking the other night and she showed me what she had done so far.

It will be truly marvelous once it is finished.

I just gotta say,...for a sub who is so genuine,
you sure stay on *TOP* of things. (J/K)

Go Dusty Go,...now is not the time to take a break
,we wanna SEE !!!

 

[DRxBlue]

include me among your staunch supporters!

i have reason to believe that personal suffering is an absolutely necessary part of the learning process. i usually put it in one phrase.

"All important lessons are written in scar tissue"

i'd been saying that for over a decade when i first found this place and learned what BDSM is about. i saw for the first time, that the phrase is also a kind of "in joke" to those who express their love in this way.

Having met you during one of the periods that led to your current project, i have been truly inspired by the way you've overcome the obstacles you've faced and really come up stronger and brighter.

i think you can remember plenty of times when you caught a glimpse of someone else who'd survived and triumphed over such adversities, and felt the renewal of will a shining light like that can provide.

You, Dustygrrl, have become one of those shining lights. Shine on! You can surely see the glow reflected in our faces, the faces of us who love you.

The world needs more like you,
Maybe the training process could be a little less intense though,
d'ya Think?

 

[Hecate]

Great idea!

Dusty,

thumbs up on that idea of making a helpfull and reassuring staircase from your own experience into the worries of so many potential submissievs who struggle with their past demons.

I don't have any specific ressources at hand to point you to, but I can offer you to link to my site if you find it useful? Maybe my "No Rape!" article might be along that line? And I had intended to elaborate a little more in another essay on my comments in the "broken sub" thread (which I think you already are linking to so that area may be already covered).

Let us know when you are done - we all are waiting do explore your new web page!

 

[cellis]

Re: Dear cellis

I just gotta say,...for a sub who is so genuine,
you sure stay on *TOP* of things. (J/K)

Thanks Artful,

I guess it is just the "switch" in me!

 

[DustyWolfe]

Wow, take a break from the board for a few days and look at all the wonderful words of encouragement and support I come back to. It does my heart good to see you all reaching out and offering your help and kind words to me as I take on this project.

I'm just in awe of what each of you has said, and as soon as I can gather my thoughts I will respond to each and every one of you.

MsWorthy, thank you so much for the link. And Mistress Hecate, I would very much like the link to that article.

Oh... any of you that have written any poetry about being broken or healing or any of that, and would want it placed on a website please pm me. I will be adding a poetry section eventually. The first poem, one of my own is actually up, I am just waiting for a program to activate the java.

This afternoon I will be adding a bunch of my stuff, parts of it are from the broken subs thread and parts of it have been added since then. But hopefully by tomorrow I will have the page set up enough for it to be posted.

 

[artful]

This afternoon I will be adding a bunch of my stuff, parts of it are from the broken subs thread and parts of it have been added since then. But hopefully by tomorrow I will have the page set up enough for it to be posted.

Thanks for the update Dusty