LucianaGrace
Grace Changes Everything
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Hello everyone.
I was hoping that I might ask for some advice about the psychological impact on subs/slaves. I suppose I need to make this a little clearer. I apologise, this is quite difficult for me to ask so openly. I was a slave for a Master who I have come to learn is a social psychopath. There are things I've experienced that I don't wish to taint this forum with. It was a long term relationship, and it ended rather suddenly and traumatically. I came to see that he used the sadist title to inflict psychological and physical abuse. I am not here to place blame or play the victim card, as I should have approached things differently too. I just genuinely want to understand the psychology of my experience so I can heal and move on with my life.
So my questions are:
1. Is it possible to psychologically heal from this type of experience? My body has healed, as some time has passed now. But my mind...I'm not who I used to be.
2. Is my experience common?
3. Will I ever psychologically detach from this man?
I'd appreciate any response. And if this is not an appropriate post for this space, I am very sorry. I just don't know where/who else to ask.
I hope this all finds you well. Please take care of yourselves and each other.
Yours,
Lucy

I was hoping that I might ask for some advice about the psychological impact on subs/slaves. I suppose I need to make this a little clearer. I apologise, this is quite difficult for me to ask so openly. I was a slave for a Master who I have come to learn is a social psychopath. There are things I've experienced that I don't wish to taint this forum with. It was a long term relationship, and it ended rather suddenly and traumatically. I came to see that he used the sadist title to inflict psychological and physical abuse. I am not here to place blame or play the victim card, as I should have approached things differently too. I just genuinely want to understand the psychology of my experience so I can heal and move on with my life.
So my questions are:
1. Is it possible to psychologically heal from this type of experience? My body has healed, as some time has passed now. But my mind...I'm not who I used to be.
2. Is my experience common?
3. Will I ever psychologically detach from this man?
I'd appreciate any response. And if this is not an appropriate post for this space, I am very sorry. I just don't know where/who else to ask.
I hope this all finds you well. Please take care of yourselves and each other.
Yours,
Lucy
