Request for advice: anal play

[Yesspleasse]

I'm curious but inexperienced, and would love to hear what others think.

I mean, obviously I and my partner are missing out on some very erogenous opportunities.

Are there any..tips or hints...you could give me, in relation to, for example, precautions against.....unpleasant/embarrassing considerations. In a nutshell, how to best prepare one's anus (or someone else's) in the name of pleasure, for something other than.....toilet matters.

Hearing from the experienced would be great, including any of your favourite techniques or experiences.

I don't intend to force an unwilling partner, obviously.

 

[infinity706]

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=243894

 

[Submission13]

If your going to have anal sex do it with someone you trust and stay sober and use plenty of lube!

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

Yes, anal play offers some wonderful opportunities, not only for sexual pleasure, but for the intimacy of the heightened bond between you and your partner. But it's not for everyone. You should approach it slowly and in small steps, to see whether it works for you both.

In terms of preparation, I would recommend keeping it very simple for now - just have a really thorough wash around the area, and wash whatever you think you need to afterwards. If you're going to explore anal, then preferably you won't be too squeamish about what the anatomical purpose of the anus is.

Perhaps you could start with just some very gently touching and stroking on the outside of their anus - just the very opening. That might give you both some confidence as you get used to the idea of it, of that part of the body. And you'll both get a feel for whether they enjoy the sensations - whether what they can feel, anally, feels sexual and enjoyable.

If it does, and you want to move on to some gentle, shallow penetration, with a finger, then get some lubricant, and take it very slowly and gently at first.

 

[Yesspleasse]

Yes, anal play offers some wonderful opportunities, not only for sexual pleasure, but for the intimacy of the heightened bond between you and your partner. But it's not for everyone. You should approach it slowly and in small steps, to see whether it works for you both.

In terms of preparation, I would recommend keeping it very simple for now - just have a really thorough wash around the area, and wash whatever you think you need to afterwards. If you're going to explore anal, then preferably you won't be too squeamish about what the anatomical purpose of the anus is.

Perhaps you could start with just some very gently touching and stroking on the outside of their anus - just the very opening. That might give you both some confidence as you get used to the idea of it, of that part of the body. And you'll both get a feel for whether they enjoy the sensations - whether what they can feel, anally, feels sexual and enjoyable.

If it does, and you want to move on to some gentle, shallow penetration, with a finger, then get some lubricant, and take it very slowly and gently at first.

Thanks. What a really great response. One of a number. Thanks, everyone who has replied. :]

Infinity706: that thread answered a lot of my questions.