Replaced by the Hitachi?

irishblade

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I've only been with one woman my entire life. Married to her and everything lol. She grew up in a religious household and masturbating was a sin. I got her into it when we first got together but she wasn't terribly open minded about it until I gave her the Hitachi. That was about a year ago and now I think she's replaced me with it lol. Granted, I'm smaller than average and I don't last very long. I like to blame it on the inconsistent sex but I think it's really cuz I masturbated a lot growing up. I don't even know what I'm asking haha. How to go longer? Get bigger? Give her the same thrills the Hitachi does? I love that she masturbates because she's a very tensed up human anyway so any chance to relax her I'm all about it. But has anyone been replaced by masturbation before?
 
I've only been with one woman my entire life. Married to her and everything lol. She grew up in a religious household and masturbating was a sin. I got her into it when we first got together but she wasn't terribly open minded about it until I gave her the Hitachi. That was about a year ago and now I think she's replaced me with it lol. Granted, I'm smaller than average and I don't last very long. I like to blame it on the inconsistent sex but I think it's really cuz I masturbated a lot growing up. I don't even know what I'm asking haha. How to go longer? Get bigger? Give her the same thrills the Hitachi does? I love that she masturbates because she's a very tensed up human anyway so any chance to relax her I'm all about it. But has anyone been replaced by masturbation before?

Not to worry, the Hitachi will never mow the lawn.

Ishmael
 
I've only been with one woman my entire life. Married to her and everything lol. She grew up in a religious household and masturbating was a sin. I got her into it when we first got together but she wasn't terribly open minded about it until I gave her the Hitachi. That was about a year ago and now I think she's replaced me with it lol. Granted, I'm smaller than average and I don't last very long. I like to blame it on the inconsistent sex but I think it's really cuz I masturbated a lot growing up. I don't even know what I'm asking haha. How to go longer? Get bigger? Give her the same thrills the Hitachi does? I love that she masturbates because she's a very tensed up human anyway so any chance to relax her I'm all about it. But has anyone been replaced by masturbation before?

Have you met eeyore? He likes young people in your age bracket.
 
I love my Hitachi :D, He never fails me, EVER, but I could never replace my hubby with him. Sometimes you NEED the real thing...
 
Use it on her while you fuck her with that little smokey. :)
 
I love my Hitachi :D, He never fails me, EVER, but I could never replace my hubby with him. Sometimes you NEED the real thing...

True. Nothing replaces the real thing. It might be the whole human contact thing. Funny how that works.
 
She likes the tongue. It never quits lol she can't stand being fingered.
 
I've only been with one woman my entire life. Married to her and everything lol. She grew up in a religious household and masturbating was a sin. I got her into it when we first got together but she wasn't terribly open minded about it until I gave her the Hitachi. That was about a year ago and now I think she's replaced me with it lol. Granted, I'm smaller than average and I don't last very long. I like to blame it on the inconsistent sex but I think it's really cuz I masturbated a lot growing up. I don't even know what I'm asking haha. How to go longer? Get bigger? Give her the same thrills the Hitachi does? I love that she masturbates because she's a very tensed up human anyway so any chance to relax her I'm all about it. But has anyone been replaced by masturbation before?

You will never give her what the Hitachi does, because you can't vibrate like that no matter how hard you try.

Was she not having orgasms before? Aside from the Hitachi, do either of you know how to get her to orgasm? If not, starting to explore that would be a good idea.

You can always use the Hitachi with her and make that part of your sexual activity together and not just something she's doing on her own.

If you're being replaced by a Hitachi, the problem is far larger than your cock.
 
What are you doing with your finger that hurts too much?
 
I tried to find a hibachi to buy a few months ago or so and had no luck. I was a bit surprised. I would have thought they wouldn't be that difficult to find.
 
You will never give her what the Hitachi does, because you can't vibrate like that no matter how hard you try.

Was she not having orgasms before? Aside from the Hitachi, do either of you know how to get her to orgasm? If not, starting to explore that would be a good idea.

You can always use the Hitachi with her and make that part of your sexual activity together and not just something she's doing on her own.

If you're being replaced by a Hitachi, the problem is far larger than your cock.

Oh I'm not trying to replace the Hitachi haha. That bitch can go forever and vibrates amazingly lol. We do use it in foreplay together but when she uses it solo (she won't masturbate in front of me) she cums like no other because she allows her mind to let go.

When we have sex, she says she loves it. Body, motions, etc all point to that being the case. And yes, she had never had an orgasm until I gave her one. It's very hard to get her there because she says she can't clear her mind (SUPER anxiety).
 
I tried to find a hibachi to buy a few months ago or so and had no luck. I was a bit surprised. I would have thought they wouldn't be that difficult to find.

I would have thought it super easy to find one. What the hell, hibachi?!?
 
unless the penis can vibrate, then its next to worthless

not totally worthless, but right next to it
 
What are you doing with your finger that hurts too much?

I'm not sure. She just says finger penetration hurts too much. That could be the case or she is a germophobe so that might be in her head. When I go down on her, she always has to stop too because of fiction burn regardless of shave status on my face. Maybe he lady bits are just sensitive? Lol
 
Guess I just have to figure out how to have a seizure in mid-coitus :D

Probably vibrating cock rings out there with some sort of clit stimulation.

I'm not sure. She just says finger penetration hurts too much. That could be the case or she is a germophobe so that might be in her head. When I go down on her, she always has to stop too because of fiction burn regardless of shave status on my face. Maybe he lady bits are just sensitive? Lol

That's possible. The head of my cock is very sensitive. Foreskin covers the lower third so it does get desensitized by rubbing on clothes. But is withdraws fully when hard. I can't achieve orgasm from a blow job. Doesn't hurt but my toes are clenched too tight for me to relax enough.
 
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