Remember your 1st?

[MrSneakyinPA]

Obviously, we can't discuss ages. But....

Questions for discussion.
When you remember back...
Your 1st kiss, was it what you thought it would be? Was it a b/f or g/f or a dare with a friend? Did you know well ahead that it was going to happen? Did you feel really awkward? Was it theirs too?

Your first time..... seeing.... another persons..."privates". Were you really excited about it, nervous, shaking scared? When you got to touch them, was it what you thought? Was a hard-on a mystery that you only heard about until then? Did it excite you to touch it?

Your first time having sex? Was it with a b/f or g/f or perhaps a friend/neighbor? Was it anything like you imagined? Did it leave you looking forward to doing it again?


My 1st g/f, wasn't a virgin, I was though. But she had had sex with a friends brother a couple times. She wanted me to know she wasn't a virgin and was hoping I wouldn't be mad. I wasn't anyway. But, until she told me, I really hadn't thought of girls having sex with guys that they weren't dating. She was staying at her friends house for a weekend, and he "persuaded" her to go into his bedroom at night. My first time with her was.....well, we had touched and humped with our clothes on, A LOT before we had actual sex. It was, great. But the after cumming part, i wasn't prepared for. It was like a giant brick fell on my head and said, "Your naked! Cover up!" hehe My 1st kiss, was a girl that had already kiss plenty of boys, so I was really nervous. But her lips against mine quickly overcame that and I was pudding. One of my early g/f's was a virgin when we started dating. But, once we had sex the 1st time, we did it allll the time. Thankfully, my mom didn't seem to mind that my g/f was in my bedroom and the door was closed all the time and she stayed till midnight. She wasn't the least bit shy about her body. Once she knew were were...."dating", and after our 1st time, she was very willing to undress and get in bed with me. My 1st and only "bi" experience was with a neighbor. And, it left me wanted to try it again ever since!

 

[DarkPleasures]

First kiss was nice. First time having sex, horrible.

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

First kiss was nice. First time having sex, horrible.

Yikes. Why was it horrible?

 

[ImpishSeraph]

I don't remember my first kiss which is strange. I never thought about this before. Not a big kisser to this day.

First time I saw one it happened to be my dad. I was on the bed talking to my mom and he walked out of the bathroom. He didn't know I was in there. Ruined it for me too, not to be creepy. Never saw anyone else hung like him except in pictures.

First time I touched one was a guy named Noah. I just remember him being long and skinny.

My first was with a guy named Tiger, lol. My friend's big brother. My mind was too busy to really enjoy it. I just kept thinking, "I thought this was supposed to hurt." I found out later that my cherry was broke as a kid on a big wheel accident.

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

I suspect, that more than a few "1st" are friend brothers. It just seems so convenient.

 

[MrSneakyinPA]

Ca a Bi man tell me what it was like your first time with a man? Or a woman, that has been with 2 bi men, what was it like the 1st time you saw 2 men "together".

 

[DarkPleasures]

Yikes. Why was it horrible?

Because that guy had no idea what he was doing. Two clueless virgins does not equal a good time.

 

[Siren_Smiles]

First kiss was with a neighbor that I had a big crush on. I was nervous but remember it was nice. First time seeing one all the way through loosing my virginity was with the same guy over 2.5 years of dating. He was several years older and not a virgin by any means.
The first time was, surprising. I was clueless, and didn't realize that sex involved penetration. He must have realized this early in our relationship because he never slid his fingers or anything inside me until after we had sex. I bled like a murder victim but it didn't hurt.

 

[MarathonATL]

First time with another person sexually was way before my first kiss. We were youth spending the night at my friends house when he showed me the pleasures of going down on each other. We evolved that into him penetrating me anally, for the mere reason that his cock was much smaller than mine and it was easier to do. Not that I didn't lay wood in his crack and pump away, lol. This went on for several years, almost every weekend, especially during the summers when we would spend long nights together...and days too when the parents were at work.

Once we discovered that we could cum, it even got better as we would really work with each other to make the other cum. Mostly oral. My friends dad had a collection of Playboy and Penthouse from the early days and we would dig through boxes in his basement to find stuff to jerk off too. I remember finding one pretty hard core mag that had two men dressed in stockings but fucking each other. My friend and I jerked off to that magazine together so many times. Finally one day when his parents were at work, we decided to try on his mother's pantyhose and to play around. It was a mind blowing experience and set things in motion for many fantasies later in life.

My first actual kiss, ironically, was a few years later with a girl who was one year older than me that wanted to show me how to French Kiss. We were on the playground after school sitting on the merry-go-round. It was spectacular enough to remember as my first time sticking my tongue in another person's mouth...but really...the oral sex I had been having for a few years with my buddy was much more fulfilling.

 

[loquere]

My first kiss, ahh LOl it was at a chrch retreat camp thing! I was thirteen i think! We were just talking about randomn shit and I went for it!

later on she and i acted like nothing happened

 

[loquere]

You wanted the first time having sex. my wife would kill me if i went into that, it was with her!

 

[HeyAll]

Mine was during lunch hour. I was hanging out with this girl a few times, we were making small talk, and she suddenly starts smiling, puts my drink down, and goes in for a kiss.

I was thinking, "Oh my, it's about to happen. My first kiss."

It felt nice, but she wasn't very good. She just kissed without any tongue action. Memorable moment though.

 

[hwwannabe]

First kiss: In the hallway at school, a little awkward, but sweet

First time seeing another person's "privates": aside from babysitting & changing in the locker room, it was my now fiance. I was 18, and I was so giddy with anticipation. It didn't look exactly how I expected it to, and I was a little worried about how the hell it was supposed to fit inside of me, which leads to...

First time having sex: So, so embarrassing! Even though he was going so slow and gentle, I think I made him stop 3 or 4 times because it hurt. Eventually we made it work, and I let him take the lead. Soon after we had finished, a couple of his friends stopped over. I'm just glad they didn't show up 10 minutes earlier!

 

[crazy_sexy_cute]

My first kiss was unexpected. It was nice, very simple peck.

The first time I saw a guys privates I was kind of weirded out. We were making out and he unzipped his pants and took it out. Was not expecting it, however I did give him my first ever handjob (I just went with it lol)

My first time having sex was awkward.

 

[Mirisa]

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[desertslave]

First kiss was with a guy friend (not boyfriend) because we were both curious what it was like and we were 'safe' for each other.

First touching and everything else was with a friend's older brother. He knew what he was doing and, thankfully, was a great teacher.

 

[Hans101]

All of my firsts were with my sister.

Our first kiss is hard to remember. We fooled around quite a bit and kissing was the only thing we did for a long time. She loved kissing and so did I. It wasn't until later that we began to do other things and expanded to dry humping, oral (me on her) and trying, without success, to go all the way.

Eventually we did go all the way, and lost our virginity together. There was no pain or bleeding on her part because she'd been using a hairbush handle to masturbate with and was well accustomed to being penetrated.

She also gave me my first blow job.

I can't think of anything I've done sexually that I didn't do with her first.

 

[Retiurcer]

OMG what a thread.

First kiss with the girl next door in the woods.

First feeling a girl up was while she was babysitting and the kids asleep upstairs.

First sex with my now wife of 25 years while we were in highschool. I know. I know but she is the best and will do ANYTHING I want.

 

[NWVoyager]

First kiss and heavy petting was with my first "girlfriend" who lived nearby. Very cool.

First time having sex I was 18 and she was 19 — and she was married. I thought I was her only one outside of her marriage, but I found out later she had slept with about 8 or 9 guys I knew in my dorm. Overall it was great though. We were outside on the high jump mat at the school track. She gave me a blow job, then got on top and road me. My memory is that I lasted awhile, but it was probably about 30 seconds. I had been waiting years to bust that nut.

 

[slowpoking]

I was late to most of these things.

1st kiss was playing spin the bottle at a party in 8th or 9th grade. Very quick, but the memory sustained me for awhile.

1st sex was with my wife, I guess at age 25. By no means did I set out to delay so long, but it was well worth the wait. She had a lot of experience and knew I didn't. We had dated or a few months and were very deliberative in our decision to go all the way, and the build-up was intense. We had made out tons but nothing more until the big night. Still remember how beautiful she looked when I took her shirt off. When she touched my balls it felt like electricity. Of course, I only lasted a few strokes my first time in, but we did it several more times that night.

 

[jasper3738]

Firsts

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[DarkPleasures]

Re: Firsts

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Seems you don't know how to read.

 

[delightdawn]

Firsts

First kiss was in the playground on a dare.

First naked person was probably parents. Would have preferred they have clothes on.

First time getting my hands on someone was as a teenager. Must have worked because after many years we are still together.

First sexual experience was again as a teenage and it continues to get better with age.

 

[Deleted member 1405174]

1st kiss - I was 13, it was more like a makeout session on the Church Bus
1st time touching boobies - I was young, my slightly older cousin put my hands under her shirt and "made" me feel them...hated, uh I mean loved it
1st BJ - My ex-wife in my niece's bed (just dating then) swallowed - HOT
1st time - My ex-wife in her bedroom, the BJ was better
1st time I really enjoyed - my wife now - she is "skilled" and gets better every time!!! I'm a lucky bastard!!!

 

[Afterhours22]

My firsts

My first kiss was with a neighbor, 3 years older than me and she was a great teacher. Taught me how to "french" kiss so a girl would enjoy it and not try to swallow her whole face. LOL! She also taught me how to unsnap her bra with one hand while making out.. she had great little tits, too. That was as far as she would let me go, though.

My first "all the way" was with my first girlfriend. She, too, was a few years older than I was and had had sex before so she taught me all the right moves to make her cum hard. She was also my first oral sex experience both ways. She loved swallowing my cum and her pussy was so sweet.

My first blowjob on another guy was with another neighbor of mine. We were looking at some porn and jacking off, and I just decided to give him a hand and then my mouth. The first time he came in my mouth was not a pleasant experience but after that I got used to it. He had a lot of cum.

My first Anal sex was with the same neighbor guy. We were watching a porn movie and he wanted to try it. Was not a good experience at first and his cock felt like a tree in my ass, but gradually got used to it and when he came in my ass, I came in my hand shortly after.