Reluctant and frustrated

[EJFan]

I am an incredible sex addict and chronic masturbator. The only problem is that I have a small penis (under five inches and not very thick at all) and am very reluctant to seek out sex partners mostly from fear of ridicule. I have had sex a few times but am always self-conscious and afraid. I'm anxious to hear from anyone who can help or suggest something. It's important to know that even though I am cursed with this small penis I CAN eat pussy VERY well... at least no one's ever complained and I have gotten complimented many times.

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by EJFan
I am an incredible sex addict and chronic masturbator. The only problem is that I have a small penis (under five inches and not very thick at all) and am very reluctant to seek out sex partners mostly from fear of ridicule. I have had sex a few times but am always self-conscious and afraid. I'm anxious to hear from anyone who can help or suggest something. It's important to know that even though I am cursed with this small penis I CAN eat pussy VERY well... at least no one's ever complained and I have gotten complimented many times.

If you've got to the point in your relationship where you're having sex and your partner is ridiculing you about your size, you've got the wrong person.

As for having a smaller penis...nothing you can do about that...but you're on the right track if you give great oral...if your hands and your mouth and the rest of your body are driving her wild and giving her pleasure that will certainly help. As for penetrative sex...women have most of the nerve endings in the first 1 1/2-2 inches of their pussy so you don't need an 8" cock to please her. Look at it positively...anal sex is much easier with a smaller cock and so is deep throating

 

[dollface007]

Re: Re: Reluctant and frustrated

As for penetrative sex...women have most of the nerve endings in the first 1 1/2-2 inches of their pussy so you don't need an 8" cock to please her.

This statement is FALSE. The cervix, which is deeper in the vagina, has a gazillion never endings and can contribute to mind blowing orgasms. I've heard "experts" on tv make this same statement, and it makes me angry every time i hear it. Medical science knows relatively little about the female sexual response. Sorry for the outburst...i just wanted to clear that up.

 

[Another Shy One]

I am an incredible sex addict and chronic masturbator. The only problem is that I have a small penis (under five inches and not very thick at all) and am very reluctant to seek out sex partners mostly from fear of ridicule. I have had sex a few times but am always self-conscious and afraid. I'm anxious to hear from anyone who can help or suggest something. It's important to know that even though I am cursed with this small penis I CAN eat pussy VERY well... at least no one's ever complained and I have gotten complimented many times.

www.mattersofsize.com/forum

 

[midwestyankee]

Re: Re: Re: Reluctant and frustrated

This statement is FALSE. The cervix, which is deeper in the vagina, has a gazillion never endings and can contribute to mind blowing orgasms. I've heard "experts" on tv make this same statement, and it makes me angry every time i hear it. Medical science knows relatively little about the female sexual response. Sorry for the outburst...i just wanted to clear that up.

True, the cervix can be a remarkably powerful source of pleasure when properly stimulated. However, it is also less than 5 inches into the vagina in most cases, and that distance is reduced if the woman is on her back and pulls her thighs up close to her torso.

There is virtually no reason why a man with a penis the size of EJFan's couldn't provide satisfying penetrative sex. While many speak of the virtue of girth, one can always vary his movements so he stimulates the sides of the vagina and push hard against each of the labia in turn.

So EJFan, just find someone with whom you can experiment with different techniques, positions, and motions and you should be able to assemble an arsenal of skills to keep your confidence high the rest of your life.

 

[EJFan]

good info

hey all... thanks for stopping by... and for the insight (most of which i knew... ya pick up a lot of knowledge when you don't spend time actually HAVING sex... hehehe). i really appreciate the thought and concern. i knew i could find some support at lit... is there a partner out there to go along with it?

 

[EJFan]

and, btw

also... i should mention that i'm not very thick... thicker than a finger, but not average in thickness so this also makes it difficult to stimulate the nerve endings (regardless of where they are) because, depending on the pussy, friction is minimal. sorry if this sounds like an unattractive offer... i'm just bein' honest and open...

 

[Another Shy One]

Listen to the advices in here, learn how to have sex well, but also know that you can increase the size and the girth of your penis.

 

[quickfoot]

Listen to the advices in here, learn how to have sex well, but also know that you can increase the size and the girth of your penis.

Other than surgery there are very very few effective ways in increasing penis size.

99% of the magic pills that say they will increase penis size are flat out lying.

I wont go so far as to say it is impossible because there is a lot of knowledge medical science still does not posses but most the time it is some little company ripping overly sensitive guys off.

Some women do like larger penises and it is true there are many nerve endings past 2 inches in the vagina, this myth was probably started to make people feel better BUT there are also women that prefer average or smaller and it is usually men that are hung up on the size thing anyway.

Average with great technique is going to get you a lot further than huge with a big attitude and lousy technique.

It sounds to me like you should listen to the other people and consider some therapy to help with self esteem.

 

[Another Shy One]

The pills help with circulation and may assist during exercises, but by taking just pills you won't increase the size of your penis. The penis is enlarged by doing exercises, and they do work. The only difference is the results. For example, some people gain 2 inches in 3 months, others gain 1/4 of an inch during this amount of time (talking just about the lenght).

 

[daiperash]

EJ

just like guys have different sized cocks, chicks have different sizes also.

I have been with girls that I could get it in and with girls that I could have stuck my whole fuckin arm or leg in.

I even was with a girl that I could shove a beer bottle (the bottom) in her ass no problem.

Just be with as many girls as possible. You will eventually find one with a tight twat. It wil be worth the ridicule once you find her.

 

[EJFan]

Doing well

thanks folks... we're doin' well here. and i think we're helping out some other people judging from the PM's i've gotten and from what's on the board as well. this IS a personal ad, sort of... it got moved 'cause i guess i didn't word things so well in the beginning. i'm looking for a smart, funny, sexy, caring woman who isn't afraid of this size thing to enter my life. i guess since i'm a first time "thread-starter" i got bumped to what it sounded like i was asking, but i really DID intend for this to appear in the personals section. sorry about the move folks, but i AM on a quest for the woman described above to have a great physical and emotional relationship with.

one thing... i'm not too interested in gadgets and pills for a number of reasons. i appreciate the suggestions, but won't opt for any of them... the exercises maybe, but not the meds and contraptions.

 

[Noor]

Re: Re: Re: Reluctant and frustrated

This statement is FALSE. The cervix, which is deeper in the vagina, has a gazillion never endings and can contribute to mind blowing orgasms. I've heard "experts" on tv make this same statement, and it makes me angry every time i hear it. Medical science knows relatively little about the female sexual response. Sorry for the outburst...i just wanted to clear that up.

Sometimes having your cervix hit can hurt like hell, just thought I would mention that too. I don't measure my lover's genitalia, it's their minds that are important and how they use what they have.

Noor

 

[Another Shy One]

Re: Doing well

one thing... i'm not too interested in gadgets and pills for a number of reasons. i appreciate the suggestions, but won't opt for any of them... the exercises maybe, but not the meds and contraptions.

That's a good choice. Go to the link I mentioned ( www.mattersofsize.com/forum ) and check out the Newbies' section. There's a thread called "Newbie's routine". Read it and try to follow it seriously. If you need to know what the terms mean or how to perform the exercises, do a search on that forum or ask the people. Be particularly careful to jelquing.

Good luck

Another Shy One

P.S. If you decide to be serious with PE (penis enlargement), after you experience it, try to tell people on Literiotica about it so I won't be the only one here against all those who are certain that it is physically impossible to enlarge your sexual member.

 

[moonchild24]

Yeah, I wouldn't worry about your size, there's not much you can do to change that. If your partner's not happy with your abilities, move on. There's plenty of people out there that don't focus on size.