Reluctance

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Am i the only one that is really into the whole reluctant, and then eventual succumbing to sex thing? I guess because my first time was with a larger woman that wanted to fuck me, and when we were alone, I kept turning down her advances. I eventually allowed her to stroke my cock through my pants. Then she would talk me into letting her suck my nipples while she struggled to get her hand down my pants. I wasn't attracted to her, but my dick was straight up anyway. I eventually fucked her aggressively that night, and at least twice a week whenever we were left alonr in someone's apartment.
Some time later, I did the same to some other woman, and that was some of the hottest sex I've had to date.
 
First BJ

First time I ever recieved a blowjob was from a girl I had no interest in. We were on a couch with everyone asleep in the house. She started touching my leg, slowly went under my shirt and then down my pants. All without encouragement...did her work. Swallowed my load and went to bed. Never said a word.
 
My wife and I do this of sorts, but surprisingly she is the one that likes it.

She really likes sex to start before she is really ready. This means I am putting myself inside her when she is really tight. She loves the feeling of getting wet, and then opening up for me. It is that feeling of being forced open that she likes, but she also has a lot of non-consent fantasies too, so this plays into that.

It actually takes quite a bit to do this because to give her that feeling, I have to do that right away, then withdraw for the other kinds of sex we might get into. It feels pretty good inside her, so it takes a lot of willpower to withdraw sometimes.
 
Another thing we do is invoke the "cannot sleep clause" of our marriage.

She told me that if there are times I cannot sleep, that I can just roll over and have sex with her so when I am done, I can just roll over and go back to sleep. I have only done this a few times because I feel like I am using her in this capacity, but a few times we have done this.

It does work...
 
Years ago my wife confessed to fantasizing about being taken by another man against her will. That got my mental juices flowing too. I find myself fantasizing about another man, maybe an intruder in our home when I’m not home, taking my wife. He pulls her wife into our bedroom. Tears off her clothes! Then violates her. Full vaginal penetration. But at some point my she starts to like it! Then it becomes consensual
 
Love it!

I love watching porn like this. That moment when she goes from reluctant to horny is hot as hell to me. I especially love when at the beginning she is saying things like, "I would never fuck you," then by the end she is begging for him to cum inside her, or something like that.
 
Not sure if this applies to the topic, but I get turned on by reluctance in some instances. If someone is blackmailed, for example, and “ordered” to perform orally on the other person, if they’re not that into oral. I’m turned on by female feet, and was told to kiss a married woman’s feet. I was reluctant in a way, but turned on by being told to do it.
 
Am i the only one that is really into the whole reluctant, and then eventual succumbing to sex thing? I guess because my first time was with a larger woman that wanted to fuck me, and when we were alone, I kept turning down her advances. I eventually allowed her to stroke my cock through my pants. Then she would talk me into letting her suck my nipples while she struggled to get her hand down my pants. I wasn't attracted to her, but my dick was straight up anyway. I eventually fucked her aggressively that night, and at least twice a week whenever we were left alonr in someone's apartment.
Some time later, I did the same to some other woman, and that was some of the hottest sex I've had to date.

Have you ever arm wrestled a woman for sex?
 
I love stories about women who come off as all businesslike and in control until the last moment when they can’t hold back any longer and then give in to their passionate impulses. It’s the tension between their outward image and their inward feelings that’s so delicious.

I guess I’m a bit like that in real life. I’ve never been very good at acting flirty or sexy. I think a lot of people I know would be surprised by the things I think about or what I post here. I like it when my husband works a little to seduce me so I can “give in” eventually. I just have to be careful not to be so reluctant he doesn’t think I’m interested ...
 
Another thing we do is invoke the "cannot sleep clause" of our marriage.

She told me that if there are times I cannot sleep, that I can just roll over and have sex with her so when I am done, I can just roll over and go back to sleep. I have only done this a few times because I feel like I am using her in this capacity, but a few times we have done this.

It does work...

Yeah, i used to like waking up this girl I was dating. Sometimes in the middle of the night, id wake up with such a massive hard on, that id reach over to her and pull down her panties. Shed squirm to get away, but I kept going at it until I was deep inside her. Thats when the begging would start


Years ago my wife confessed to fantasizing about being taken by another man against her will. That got my mental juices flowing too. I find myself fantasizing about another man, maybe an intruder in our home when I’m not home, taking my wife. He pulls her wife into our bedroom. Tears off her clothes! Then violates her. Full vaginal penetration. But at some point my she starts to like it! Then it becomes consensual


I've had this fantasy myself, where is wait for the husband to go to work, then id sneak in and have my way with his wife. Shed be thoroughly against it, but slowly shed give in.


I love watching porn like this. That moment when she goes from reluctant to horny is hot as hell to me. I especially love when at the beginning she is saying things like, "I would never fuck you," then by the end she is begging for him to cum inside her, or something like that.



Not sure if this applies to the topic, but I get turned on by reluctance in some instances. If someone is blackmailed, for example, and “ordered” to perform orally on the other person, if they’re not that into oral. I’m turned on by female feet, and was told to kiss a married woman’s feet. I was reluctant in a way, but turned on by being told to do it.

This kind of porn is hard to find, or at least the kind that isn't scripted. I cum so hard watching that stuff.

I love stories about women who come off as all businesslike and in control until the last moment when they can’t hold back any longer and then give in to their passionate impulses. It’s the tension between their outward image and their inward feelings that’s so delicious.

I guess I’m a bit like that in real life. I’ve never been very good at acting flirty or sexy. I think a lot of people I know would be surprised by the things I think about or what I post here. I like it when my husband works a little to seduce me so I can “give in” eventually. I just have to be careful not to be so reluctant he doesn’t think I’m interested ...

I kind of had an office situation like that where a coworker of mine and I were talking about sex. I revealed that I would chat with girls online, and slowly the conversations turned into pix swaps. I offered to show her one of mine, and she turned bright red, and said, "omg no!". I made her watch a 30 second video of my hand moving around in my underwear, and she was smiling ear to ear. Then she asked me to send it to her. I didn't. XD
 
I have several stories with my ex who was reluctant until getting a few drinks into her, she was a bit of an alcoholic and many guys took advantage (including me) of the slut she’d become after having a few. The first time it became apparent was at one of her company’s after work gatherings a few years after we got married when she was 21. One of her coworkers, Larry, had been hitting on her for months but she wasn’t interested for many reasons. She calls me up around 10pm asking me to pick her up because she’s too drunk to drive. I arrive at the bar About 20 minutes later and one of her coworkers is happy to tell me she’s in the kitchen with Larry. I go back looking and when walking around a corner, there’s my hot wife bare ass naked, back against some metal shelves getting fucked by Larry while a cook is watching, stroking his cock and groping her tits. She sees me smiles and shrugs. Larry comes inside her right away then after, notices me and quickly takes off leaving my very drunk wife giggling and struggling to stand. The cook thinks I’m there to be next and I almost got in a fight with him before finding only her dress, sliding it over her head and taking her drunk ass home.
 
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