Reinventing yourself

[Lonelygirlfun]

I’m bored. I want to try different things. I want to explore things that don’t cost $$$$$$. I am an exhibitionist. I like doing things for others and have always done so. But now it’s time for me to do for myself. How did you find the thing you LOVE to do???? Were you ever in a hole (not the sexy one) and how did you get yourself out?

 

[Saint_Ann]

I’m bored. I want to try different things. I want to explore things that don’t cost $$$$$$. I am an exhibitionist. I like doing things for others and have always done so. But now it’s time for me to do for myself. How did you find the thing you LOVE to do???? Were you ever in a hole (not the sexy one) and how did you get yourself out?

I drink my way out of it.

 

[Plane_Guy]

I’m bored. I want to try different things. I want to explore things that don’t cost $$$$$$. I am an exhibitionist. I like doing things for others and have always done so. But now it’s time for me to do for myself. How did you find the thing you LOVE to do???? Were you ever in a hole (not the sexy one) and how did you get yourself out?

Pick a location and jump on a plane. Tickets have never been cheaper.

 

[FGB]

You mean start over?

New places, new Hobbies and new friends.

Change your People , Places and Things?

Having had to do this a few times in my life I can tell you it takes from three months to two years to really permanently change.


Yeah...I used to do that,know those people ...do those things.

Or take a long vacation.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Sleep , take a nap.

 

[Escierto]

Pick a location and jump on a plane. Tickets have never been cheaper.

A location? Sure.
Taiwan? Closed.
Singapore? Closed.
Hong Kong? Closed.
Thailand? Closed.
Vietnam? Closed.
Philippines? Closed.
Australia? Closed.
New Zealand? Closed.
Bali? Closed.

Never mind.

 

[HisArpy]

There are many ways to get out of the rut which don't cost a lot of cash. Some are risky, some aren't. Which of them you choose depends on what you desire.


Currently I'm writing a new book which has inspired me to learn how to play the violin. That will probably wait until the book is finished so I don't distract myself from writing, but I'll probably start sometime around Thanksgiving. Not cheap, but to me the cost doesn't matter as much as the learning/doing something new.

Cheap can be something as simple as day hikes, morning sunrise walks with or without friends, getting a dog from the shelter, etc.

Mid range could be road or mtn biking, learning to sail, etc.

Expensive could be learning to fly, gambling, getting married and/or having kids.

 

[hanban24]

I’m bored. I want to try different things. I want to explore things that don’t cost $$$$$$. I am an exhibitionist. I like doing things for others and have always done so. But now it’s time for me to do for myself. How did you find the thing you LOVE to do???? Were you ever in a hole (not the sexy one) and how did you get yourself out?

A lot of times it takes just convincing yourself to try new things and step out of your comfort zone. Happened for me when I went to college and again a few years ago. Just have to be determined to change.

 

[dumbeg4]

A location? Sure.
Taiwan? Closed.
Singapore? Closed.
Hong Kong? Closed.
Thailand? Closed.
Vietnam? Closed.
Philippines? Closed.
Australia? Closed.
New Zealand? Closed.
Bali? Closed.

Never mind.

Spain, mi casa? Open.

 

[Escierto]

Spain, mi casa? Open.

Spain requires proof of vaccination from Americans but other European countries are closed to Americans now. It changes from day to day.

 

[TwoHeadsBald]

I’m bored. I want to try different things. I want to explore things that don’t cost $$$$$$. I am an exhibitionist. I like doing things for others and have always done so. But now it’s time for me to do for myself. How did you find the thing you LOVE to do???? Were you ever in a hole (not the sexy one) and how did you get yourself out?

Never give up and keep exploring and always be on the road of self discovery. Help others along the way helps.

 

[yukonnights]

I’m bored. I want to try different things. I want to explore things that don’t cost $$$$$$. I am an exhibitionist. I like doing things for others and have always done so. But now it’s time for me to do for myself. How did you find the thing you LOVE to do???? Were you ever in a hole (not the sexy one) and how did you get yourself out?

IMO, the hole often begins as lethargy — and these many long months dealing with the COVID pandemic definitely qualifies as a hole.

I would normally say that road trips are a great way to get over lethargy — but now the price of fuel/gas is somewhat restricting that option.

You enjoy being an exhibitionist; Perhaps joining a nudist group — or visiting nude hot-springs or beaches would be a nice change?

Yes, I think most all of us have been "in a hole" of depression / lethargy — some more than others, but it's a common human experience. I'm lucky to live in a pretty dramatic place where people spend lot's of money to visit. So nature is my escape from lethargy. It's said that fresh air and moving water are healthy — something to do with the ionization of the air, as I recall.

And since you enjoy doing things for others; another well known uplifting activity is to use your enjoyment of doing things for others as a volunteer to help those in need.

At the end of it; I think the key is to just get out, hook-up with a friend and do something — anything but sit depressed in the "hole". I know how miserable that can be and hope you can shake it off soon.

 

[pecksniff]

I’m bored. I want to try different things. I want to explore things that don’t cost $$$$$$. I am an exhibitionist. I like doing things for others and have always done so. But now it’s time for me to do for myself. How did you find the thing you LOVE to do???? Were you ever in a hole (not the sexy one) and how did you get yourself out?

1. Join an armed revolutionary movement.

2. Do lots and lots of LSD.

3. Repeat.

 

[pecksniff]

I’m bored. I want to try different things. I want to explore things that don’t cost $$$$$$. I am an exhibitionist. I like doing things for others and have always done so. But now it’s time for me to do for myself. How did you find the thing you LOVE to do???? Were you ever in a hole (not the sexy one) and how did you get yourself out?

You need a new religion.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Be happy

with who you are. As the saying goes, everyone else is taken.

 

[FL30]

I’m bored. I want to try different things. I want to explore things that don’t cost $$$$$$. I am an exhibitionist. I like doing things for others and have always done so. But now it’s time for me to do for myself. How did you find the thing you LOVE to do???? Were you ever in a hole (not the sexy one) and how did you get yourself out?

turn off the computer and leave the house

start reading books - travel books, history books, science, mystery, science fiction, anything that will make you think

go for a walk at a park, go to the lake, go to a museum

lots and lots of things to do, you just have to leave the HOUSE

you can find lots of things to do on the websites of your state, county, city or even on the tourism website for your state, city, county

look for summer/fall festivals that are happening around you - you can google for this info or ask SIRI / GOOGLE

 

[Chernosoth]

Learn how to make and repair instead of buy, especially clothes. If you post nude pics, we could suggest what clothes to make.

 

[HisArpy]

turn off the computer and leave the house

start reading books - travel books, history books, science, mystery, science fiction, anything that will make you think

go for a walk at a park, go to the lake, go to a museum

lots and lots of things to do, you just have to leave the HOUSE

you can find lots of things to do on the websites of your state, county, city or even on the tourism website for your state, city, county

look for summer/fall festivals that are happening around you - you can google for this info or ask SIRI / GOOGLE

This works.







Unless you're in Australia.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I’m bored. I want to try different things. I want to explore things that don’t cost $$$$$$. I am an exhibitionist. I like doing things for others and have always done so. But now it’s time for me to do for myself. How did you find the thing you LOVE to do???? Were you ever in a hole (not the sexy one) and how did you get yourself out?

I was in a hole..., a destructive situation where 'fear' ruled me.
I went to speak with someone I had known and hated most all my life to that point in Time. I asked him what to do... he told me his thoughts on the situation--, which were, "either do what you are told or kill the guy."
That night I walked into the bar, walked up the biggest motherfucker in that group and slapped him in the head with a beer bottle.
I still see him around..., but fear never tries to rule me again.

 

[quasimodm]

I’m bored. I want to try different things. I want to explore things that don’t cost $$$$$$. I am an exhibitionist. I like doing things for others and have always done so. But now it’s time for me to do for myself. How did you find the thing you LOVE to do???? Were you ever in a hole (not the sexy one) and how did you get yourself out?

Thanks to the democratization of professional visual erotica with onlyfans.com and the like, it seems that you could explore your exhibitionism and make money.

That could qualify as doing for others and for yourself at the same time.

Now I just need to find an onlyfans for advice .

 

[rae121452]

i reinvented myself and got sued for patent infringement.

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

I’m bored. I want to try different things. I want to explore things that don’t cost $$$$$$. I am an exhibitionist. I like doing things for others and have always done so. But now it’s time for me to do for myself. How did you find the thing you LOVE to do???? Were you ever in a hole (not the sexy one) and how did you get yourself out?

Grew a beard, wore a stupid hat and vanished from my friends' ken for a couple of months.

That was enough time to then move on with zeal.