Red a woman’s opinion

[Taboohubby]

I’m looking for a woman’s opinion about forced or rape fantasies . Like a lot of women My wife has a rape fantasy. We talk about the fantasy side of it sometimes during sex and we both get turned on by it I realize this is normal. However my wife was actually raped as a teen and I get turned on by that.She doesn’t have any psychological issues or hang ups from it but when she talks about her fabtasy it’s not about what happened when she was young. But I on the other hand can’t help but imagine what it was really like . I try to get her to tell me details cuz I get very turned on by it should I feel guilty?

 

[Sheana_V]

I’m looking for a woman’s opinion about forced or rape fantasies . Like a lot of women My wife has a rape fantasy. We talk about the fantasy side of it sometimes during sex and we both get turned on by it I realize this is normal. However my wife was actually raped as a teen and I get turned on by that.She doesn’t have any psychological issues or hang ups from it but when she talks about her fabtasy it’s not about what happened when she was young. But I on the other hand can’t help but imagine what it was really like . I try to get her to tell me details cuz I get very turned on by it should I feel guilty?

Should you feel guilty? Probably not. You should stop asking her about it though. Reliving horrifying trauma isn't sexy for her.

 

[Runbow]

I’m not sure you really need a woman’s opinion on this.

Perhaps she likes the fantasy because she is in control. She deicides how far it goes and what happens. As opposed to her actual rape, which maybe isn’t much of a ‘turn on’ for her.

She has set a boundary. If you don’t respect it, then she may not want to discuss any fantasies with you. Or even be with you at all.