recovery issues

[skitch]

How do you know when you're over your ex? Is it when you don't care when you find out they're with another? When you don't think about them for a day? I'm just wondering what it takes to get over someone. i know , i know....time.. but i need some clues to show I'm doing better...

 

[CW]

How do you know when you're over your ex? Is it when you don't care when you find out they're with another? When you don't think about them for a day?

Both of the above plus I'd add that you have to feel some sense of normality again. Defining that sense of normal is damn near impossible as it will vary from person to person,,, but once you have that feeling,,, then you will KNOW that you are over the ex.

Wishing you the best.

 

[Ezzy]

A little Light Relief...

How do you know when you're over your ex?

It is after the bump and the front wheels drop back to the pavement that you can be sure you are over your Ex.

Open the door and look down to check.




EZ http://cwm.ragesofsanity.com/s/cwm2/sleep.gif

 

[Merelan]

Okay, enough... I got it.
Hahahahahaha...... What happens when he gets stuck and you think you're dragging him? Is it kosher to ask for help? Or should I just keep going till he eventually drops off.

 

[lickerish]

How's this explanation, it was told to me by a male: You know you're over the ex when it's their weekend with the kids and you don't care that they may be having sex in the same house.

Ok, maybe not so true... It's been 2 years and I still feel he doesn't deserve to have sex. Period. And I know I don't want him back.

 

[jcgirl]

When you have an important decision to make and dont automatically think of how it will affect THEM

 

[April]

How 'bout a serious answer here.

When you think of the good times, and smile.
When you wish them good things in their life, and really mean it.

 

[Guest]

When you think about them... and it doesn't feel like you can't breathe anymore..... and it doesn't feel like your heart is being ripped out of your chest.

When you see them and you smile and can have a polite conversation.

when you can stop asking yourself.... why? and what did I (or we) do wrong?

and you just accept the fact that all things happen for some reason... and yeah maybe its twisted and nuts... but there is a reason....