Recent Sexual exploration/discoveries

[Jason39]

Hi everyone I've been on here for awhile, and posted in a few threads. I must say that this board has certainly led to a sexual revolution for me. I went from a long sexual slump, to a great sex life for now.

My wife has been ill for a long time, so neither of us have been having sex. I was not even interested in it, didn't watch porn or masterbate etc for the longest time. Since she has been getting better, and I have not had to be constantly taking care of her, I have started to masterbate again (About 4 months ago or so).

Thing was, my sex drive was still quite low, and I would pretty much just get it over with really fast with some nice videos or pics.

Then I came to this site while I was looking around. I saw a post about Cock Hero and decided to try it out. It was amazing. I'm not a young wipper snapper or anything, but I had never really tried to take it long and slow, so my orgasms at the end had always been quick and not very powerful. Cock hero trained me to last longer and longer and to build up alot more sexual energy along the way. Just from that the final orgasms where much more powerful and enjoyable...way better then ever before, even with partners!!

In fact, when having sex (only ever had 2 partners, my wife and a girl when much younger), I often almost felt like it was work, concentrating so hard not to cum, and often not even feeling anything at the end because I was focusing so hard.

Anyway this was new to me and while it took more time, it was really worth it. It felt quite good the whole way through, and the finish was amazing!! Using the cock hero videos I gained both control and stamina and it generally increased my sexual excitement and drive.

That was where I was until earlier this week....but along with the increased sex drive, I also gained a desire to try new things. I heard about prostate massagers on here, with some pretty crazy descriptions about how good they could make you feel etc.

I decided to try one out.

My local toy store did not have the one most everyone talks about the Aneros or something like that. Instead it had a vibrating one called the Jester PE, but it looks pretty much the same.

I tried it the other day and it did feel good at first...without the vibration on, but I realized eventually that it really doesn't start to do much until you are already turned on. At that point I did start to notice its effect...and then I turned on the vibration.

Even the first time it was great with the vibration going. It was more intense in 5 minutes then I had felt even after an hour going along with Cock Hero videos. Now that I have more experience with it, I realize I was starting to have involuntary quiverings/contractions the first time even. I couldn't control my self eventually and used my hands which brought me to a quick conclusion...but still a very very powerful one...more so then after my longest edging sessions in the past.

With my first time behind me though, well, I went into it with a mindset of NOT touching myself and really feeling what was possible.

OMG....it's incredible. My body was quivering and contracting uncontrollably. I felt like I was literally having a 5 minute orgasm there for awhile, it was insane. Eventually (much longer then the first time), I couldn't help myself and again, I used my hands, but this time it was a more intense feeling then I have ever felt, just plain insanely good.

I think perhaps it's not a great idea for guys to use this too early in their lives or we may end up having a population shortage eventually. Seriously I don't know how you even could involve a partner in this experience (at least doing anything much for her/him) after it gets going, it feels that good.

Initially I was thinking of involving my wife with this once/if we get back into having a sexual relationship. We both have a good/strong relationship but sex has not been part of it for along time, and I'm not sure if it will be again. I have certainly discovered a more intense sexual experience then I have ever before in my life at this point. It is sad that it doesn't involve another human being and sharing that pleasure with someone else, but at the same time that does make it very easy to fit into a schedule lol.

Looking back at my life, I do wish I had known about this earlier. I have not been a very sexual being. I barely dated, never had casual sex, and for most of my life didn't even masterbate. I didn't know, or have any clue, that it was possible for it to feel this good. It feels like I'm a 40+ year old woman who has never orgasmed and just did for the first time pretty much, and realized what she was missing.

Anyway, thank you very much Literotica, you have made a big difference in my life and expanded my horizons. I'll keep coming here and posting etc, and who knows I may even find other new things to try, but already you have, for the first time in my life, inspired me to really enjoy...and look forward to, sex.

Thank you so much

 

[Misshotndeep]

Glad your opening your mind and horizons. Best of luck and have a good day.

 

[jakereeder22]

Welcome to the wonderful world of prostate play!

Hi everyone I've been on here for awhile, and posted in a few threads. I must say that this board has certainly led to a sexual revolution for me. I went from a long sexual slump, to a great sex life for now.

My wife has been ill for a long time, so neither of us have been having sex. I was not even interested in it, didn't watch porn or masterbate etc for the longest time. Since she has been getting better, and I have not had to be constantly taking care of her, I have started to masterbate again (About 4 months ago or so).

Thing was, my sex drive was still quite low, and I would pretty much just get it over with really fast with some nice videos or pics.

Then I came to this site while I was looking around. I saw a post about Cock Hero and decided to try it out. It was amazing. I'm not a young wipper snapper or anything, but I had never really tried to take it long and slow, so my orgasms at the end had always been quick and not very powerful. Cock hero trained me to last longer and longer and to build up alot more sexual energy along the way. Just from that the final orgasms where much more powerful and enjoyable...way better then ever before, even with partners!!

In fact, when having sex (only ever had 2 partners, my wife and a girl when much younger), I often almost felt like it was work, concentrating so hard not to cum, and often not even feeling anything at the end because I was focusing so hard.

Anyway this was new to me and while it took more time, it was really worth it. It felt quite good the whole way through, and the finish was amazing!! Using the cock hero videos I gained both control and stamina and it generally increased my sexual excitement and drive.

That was where I was until earlier this week....but along with the increased sex drive, I also gained a desire to try new things. I heard about prostate massagers on here, with some pretty crazy descriptions about how good they could make you feel etc.

I decided to try one out.

My local toy store did not have the one most everyone talks about the Aneros or something like that. Instead it had a vibrating one called the Jester PE, but it looks pretty much the same.

I tried it the other day and it did feel good at first...without the vibration on, but I realized eventually that it really doesn't start to do much until you are already turned on. At that point I did start to notice its effect...and then I turned on the vibration.

Even the first time it was great with the vibration going. It was more intense in 5 minutes then I had felt even after an hour going along with Cock Hero videos. Now that I have more experience with it, I realize I was starting to have involuntary quiverings/contractions the first time even. I couldn't control my self eventually and used my hands which brought me to a quick conclusion...but still a very very powerful one...more so then after my longest edging sessions in the past.

With my first time behind me though, well, I went into it with a mindset of NOT touching myself and really feeling what was possible.

OMG....it's incredible. My body was quivering and contracting uncontrollably. I felt like I was literally having a 5 minute orgasm there for awhile, it was insane. Eventually (much longer then the first time), I couldn't help myself and again, I used my hands, but this time it was a more intense feeling then I have ever felt, just plain insanely good.

I think perhaps it's not a great idea for guys to use this too early in their lives or we may end up having a population shortage eventually. Seriously I don't know how you even could involve a partner in this experience (at least doing anything much for her/him) after it gets going, it feels that good.

Initially I was thinking of involving my wife with this once/if we get back into having a sexual relationship. We both have a good/strong relationship but sex has not been part of it for along time, and I'm not sure if it will be again. I have certainly discovered a more intense sexual experience then I have ever before in my life at this point. It is sad that it doesn't involve another human being and sharing that pleasure with someone else, but at the same time that does make it very easy to fit into a schedule lol.

Looking back at my life, I do wish I had known about this earlier. I have not been a very sexual being. I barely dated, never had casual sex, and for most of my life didn't even masterbate. I didn't know, or have any clue, that it was possible for it to feel this good. It feels like I'm a 40+ year old woman who has never orgasmed and just did for the first time pretty much, and realized what she was missing.

Anyway, thank you very much Literotica, you have made a big difference in my life and expanded my horizons. I'll keep coming here and posting etc, and who knows I may even find other new things to try, but already you have, for the first time in my life, inspired me to really enjoy...and look forward to, sex.

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[Jason39]

Congratulations on your discovery and willingness to explore and learn about your body. I know exactly what you mean about wishing your knew about the pleasures that can be derived from prostate stimulation earlier. Many men are shy or uncomfortable with the idea of this form of pleasure, but I hope that the attitude will change with more people sharing positive experiences. There are some good threads popping up on the board if you care to learn more about this subject and I would encourage you to share your experience there for others.

Thanks!! I have been trying to share my experiences in the other threads as well....since they where the threads that inspired me

I do kinda feel like I should run around and shout to the world about how great this is lol....I mean it's really life changing in a way. I can't believe it's not like common knowledge. From other posts etc, it seems like it's possible for every guy to get this kind of reaction...and it's just crazy that most men go through life (And that I went through so much of mine) without it.

I was never really into the whole hunt for sex......which seems to be such a large part of many guys lives. It was something I could enjoy, but basically only with a woman I cared for, because it was intimate and a good way of expressing love and giving pleasure.

It's like my orgasms in the past have been in the 1-10 range on a 100 scale....and now I'm having 80+'s....with who knows what in store later on...not even sure if I could not pass out if it got any more intense!!

There should be like billboards up on the streests and tv comercials and stuff!!! Seriously I think it's unfair/cruel even that it's not mentioned more..or at least I have never heard of it before. Perhaps it has a stigma with being "not straight" or something, no clue...but honestly I think it's something every guy should experience...and I doubt many if any would pass up on it again afterwards.

Perhaps we are just coming into an age when information like this will be readily available to everyone and people will be open enough to try it. Not sure how I would have taken it if someone told me about it in my 20's....although I was always pretty open to any type of sexuality...just not sure if I would have been open enough to try it myself. Even if not in my 20's, it would have been great to find out about this in my 30's though for sure....seems like a few decades of awesome orgasms wasted lol.

 

[bps]

Hi everyone

With my first time behind me though, well, I went into it with a mindset of NOT touching myself and really feeling what was possible.

OMG....it's incredible. My body was quivering and contracting uncontrollably. I felt like I was literally having a 5 minute orgasm there for awhile, it was insane.

I think perhaps it's not a great idea for guys to use this too early in their lives or we may end up having a population shortage eventually. Seriously I don't know how you even could involve a partner in this experience (at least doing anything much for her/him) after it gets going, it feels that good.


Thank you so much

yours is a moving and refreshing post. it is an amazing and profound thing, the sexual pleasure a male can experience without his own cock at the center of it. I imagine the idea is threatening or even scary to some people.

we hear a quite lot these days about the rise of anal. the normalization/mainstreaming of it in our culture. even if that's so, you know that as even more men and women discover the mind-blowing pleasures of butt-related sex it probably will affect conception/birth rates.

 

[Riley69]

Anal orgasms

yours is a moving and refreshing post. it is amazing what a male can experience with absolutely no involvement of his own cock. I imagine the idea is scary to some people.

we hear a quite lot these days about the rise of anal. the normalization of it in our culture. even if that's so, you know that if even more men -- and women too -- discover the mind-blowing pleasures of butt-related sex it will affect conception/birth rates.

I've been able to have anal orgasms for years and they are much more intense than a "penis-driven" orgasm. I've seen plenty of women having orgasms over the years, and when I have an anal orgasm, it seems my body is doing the exact same things a woman's body does when she orgasms. My first wife and I worked our way into a full-swap relationship with her best friend and her friend's hubby. (A long time ago!) Her best friend saw me having an anal orgasm for the first time and she said, "Wow, you cum just like a woman when you do that!"

 

[bps]

With my first time behind me though, well, I went into it with a mindset of NOT touching myself and really feeling what was possible.

I think you really get to the point of things with that. if you think and feel it's possible, it probably is. exploring is all about possibility.

 

[awired50]

Hi everyone I've been on here for awhile, and posted in a few threads. I must say that this board has certainly led to a sexual revolution for me. I went from a long sexual slump, to a great sex life for now.

My wife has been ill for a long time, so neither of us have been having sex. I was not even interested in it, didn't watch porn or masterbate etc for the longest time. Since she has been getting better, and I have not had to be constantly taking care of her, I have started to masterbate again (About 4 months ago or so).

Thing was, my sex drive was still quite low, and I would pretty much just get it over with really fast with some nice videos or pics.

Then I came to this site while I was looking around. I saw a post about Cock Hero and decided to try it out. It was amazing. I'm not a young wipper snapper or anything, but I had never really tried to take it long and slow, so my orgasms at the end had always been quick and not very powerful. Cock hero trained me to last longer and longer and to build up alot more sexual energy along the way. Just from that the final orgasms where much more powerful and enjoyable...way better then ever before, even with partners!!

In fact, when having sex (only ever had 2 partners, my wife and a girl when much younger), I often almost felt like it was work, concentrating so hard not to cum, and often not even feeling anything at the end because I was focusing so hard.

Anyway this was new to me and while it took more time, it was really worth it. It felt quite good the whole way through, and the finish was amazing!! Using the cock hero videos I gained both control and stamina and it generally increased my sexual excitement and drive.

That was where I was until earlier this week....but along with the increased sex drive, I also gained a desire to try new things. I heard about prostate massagers on here, with some pretty crazy descriptions about how good they could make you feel etc.

I decided to try one out.

My local toy store did not have the one most everyone talks about the Aneros or something like that. Instead it had a vibrating one called the Jester PE, but it looks pretty much the same.

I tried it the other day and it did feel good at first...without the vibration on, but I realized eventually that it really doesn't start to do much until you are already turned on. At that point I did start to notice its effect...and then I turned on the vibration.

Even the first time it was great with the vibration going. It was more intense in 5 minutes then I had felt even after an hour going along with Cock Hero videos. Now that I have more experience with it, I realize I was starting to have involuntary quiverings/contractions the first time even. I couldn't control my self eventually and used my hands which brought me to a quick conclusion...but still a very very powerful one...more so then after my longest edging sessions in the past.

With my first time behind me though, well, I went into it with a mindset of NOT touching myself and really feeling what was possible.

OMG....it's incredible. My body was quivering and contracting uncontrollably. I felt like I was literally having a 5 minute orgasm there for awhile, it was insane. Eventually (much longer then the first time), I couldn't help myself and again, I used my hands, but this time it was a more intense feeling then I have ever felt, just plain insanely good.

I think perhaps it's not a great idea for guys to use this too early in their lives or we may end up having a population shortage eventually. Seriously I don't know how you even could involve a partner in this experience (at least doing anything much for her/him) after it gets going, it feels that good.

Initially I was thinking of involving my wife with this once/if we get back into having a sexual relationship. We both have a good/strong relationship but sex has not been part of it for along time, and I'm not sure if it will be again. I have certainly discovered a more intense sexual experience then I have ever before in my life at this point. It is sad that it doesn't involve another human being and sharing that pleasure with someone else, but at the same time that does make it very easy to fit into a schedule lol.

Looking back at my life, I do wish I had known about this earlier. I have not been a very sexual being. I barely dated, never had casual sex, and for most of my life didn't even masterbate. I didn't know, or have any clue, that it was possible for it to feel this good. It feels like I'm a 40+ year old woman who has never orgasmed and just did for the first time pretty much, and realized what she was missing.

Anyway, thank you very much Literotica, you have made a big difference in my life and expanded my horizons. I'll keep coming here and posting etc, and who knows I may even find other new things to try, but already you have, for the first time in my life, inspired me to really enjoy...and look forward to, sex.

Thank you so much

Makes you want to shout from the mountaintops !