So was wondering if i could get some input on a recent discovery i made with my wife, so long story short i found some lesbian porn on her phone as well as some lesbian stories she has been reading which I have NO problem with at all and I find it extremely HOT. However i noticed on one of the searched there was a porn she watched called "Cheating with my husbands sister" now that pisses me off and causes me concern, however it looks like she changed videos to a milf seducing a pizza girl but why would she want to look at that. I cant be to judgemental given my porn history lol however she was so closed off to porn and sex that I have encouraged her so much and I really want to bring it up with her and enjoy these thing throughout our lives we are both early thirties, any input would be great
Recent discovery about wife!!
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Tulip_Love
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Maybe...
...maybe she's gone down the black hole of porn, like you do with YouTube. You know...you're watching something else and veggie you know it, you're somewhere that you completely have no idea how you got there! What I'm saying is...just cause it came up about 'cheating with husband's sister' doesn't mean she wants that. It could just be that the idea of it turns her on, but she doesn't want to act on it. Know what I mean?
...maybe she's gone down the black hole of porn, like you do with YouTube. You know...you're watching something else and veggie you know it, you're somewhere that you completely have no idea how you got there! What I'm saying is...just cause it came up about 'cheating with husband's sister' doesn't mean she wants that. It could just be that the idea of it turns her on, but she doesn't want to act on it. Know what I mean?
Yeah I get that, but she’s so not into sex and porn as much as me and now I see she’s exploring but it just bothers me literally couldn’t sleep
HUNGRYHOLLOW
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Let her keep exploring you have so maybe she’s just curious about what is out there and maybe she’s discovering she might be bi
Don’t push her
I would have no problem if she was bi I kinda think she might be which is ok with me amd not because I’ll try to push a threesome but so we can explore her fantasies together and watch lesbian porn etc
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GPLockwood
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I'd say two things to that:
1. Don't confuse the fantasy of cheating with actually cheating. The forbidden always has a certain allure to it for most folks. I'm guessing those lesbian fantasies are ones she's spent her whole life being told to repress. Not to go too far here, but society bullies so many gay and lesbian people into faking heterosexuality that it's possible that's why she hasn't been much into sex with you over the years. Homophobia does nothing but destroy the lives of innocent bystanders, and the pressure our society puts on people to fake being straight might have possibly saddled you with a lesbian wife who's probably a good person, but just not into guys and can't change any more than us genuinely straight folks could ever decide to be gay. Anyone who thinks sexual orientation is a choice is, by definition, bisexual.
2. I'd consider asking her if she might like to experiment with a woman. If she's bi and up for a three-way, then lucky you! When life gives you lemons...
Regardless of what happens here, good luck and I wish you and your wife all the best!
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I’m a woman, and I love me some lesbian porn, so I feel qualified to offer my perspective here.
Porn is designed and created to appeal to men. Even porn that falls under the ‘for women’ heading is created to appeal to the male gaze before the female gaze.
So it can be challenging to find porn that actually hits my buttons. So if I find something where I like how the women are treating each other, where they genuinely appear to be into each other and getting each other off, I’ll watch it. If the title portrays some relationship that I’m not into, I can ignore that if the actual video is good.
Quite often, the exact same video will appear on different sites with different titles. Titles created to appeal to different kinks, even when the video itself doesn’t support the claim made by the title.
The video titled ‘cheating with my husbands sister’ could very well be the same exact video that’s titled ‘roommates explore’ or ‘best friend helps her through break up’ or ‘college girls tribbing’ or ‘ Santa’s elves behind the scenes’
So unless you have other cause to think she’s considering it, I wouldn’t worry that what she liked about that video was the cheating or that she’s into your sister. It’s much more likely that the still in that thumbnail showed women that she found hot, so she watched them fuck each other. Not because she was drawn to the plot line.
