really understanding one another

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I did not think that I would write another ad so soon. Because for the last several weeks I had been engaged in a mail exchange that I thought was just what I had been looking for.

Unfortunately it came to an end, when the lady involved began to accuse me of having a bad character. With some subtlety at first, and more massively later.

I am afraid that I belong into the category of men, who don't tick in a simple-minded manner. My relative openness and my inquisitive mind cannot be had without some "side effects", so it seems.

So I am afraid I must add a further qualifier to the description of the woman I seek: She must be willing and able to invest the effort that's needed to understand me. Without doubting my sincerity, when I tell her something that may go beyond her immediate cognitive capabilities. Some people are very complex human beings, and sometimes understanding them is not as easy as a famous new politician makes it out to be.

In return I can offer the woman I seek my commitment to aim for an understanding of her as well, without any judgement, even if she should turn out as complex a human being as I am. Below I will summarize briefly the other items I seek in a mail exchange with the right woman for me:

To me it matters less what kind of a woman you are. What matters far more are your attitudes and what you seek in a mail relationship. And that your wishes and desires harmonize with mine.

I am missing sufficient closeness (and intimacy in fact) with a woman, who craves erotica and lust as much as I do. That is my problem in a nutshell. And the only solution to my problem I can see, is finding a woman who feels like I do, AND who wants to attack our common problem by exchanging intimate mails with one another. It's as simple as that.

My signature post outlines what I hope such a mail exchange will bring both of us. If each of us is prepared to give as much as you and I want to get out. Once again here, in short, I hope for (erotic) excitement, for (interpersonal) empathy, and for (intellectual) intercourse involving erotica, but not stopping there. And – as a result – for an additional overall feeling that eliminates some of the emptiness in that respect, which we felt, before we began sending each other mails.

In case my words above resonate within you to some extent, I invite you to peruse the following posts I have writen also:
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1436470
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1421286

And if you feel that you tick a bit like me, and that you want the same as I want, why don't you send me a PM, and we'll get to know one another.
 
I did not think that I would write another ad so soon. Because for the last several weeks I had been engaged in a mail exchange that I thought was just what I had been looking for.

Unfortunately it came to an end, when the lady involved began to accuse me of having a bad character. With some subtlety at first, and more massively later.

And? Was she right or was she wrong? :confused:
 
And? Was she right or was she wrong? :confused:
Primalex, of course she did not tell me what she did completely without any reasons. But that does not mean my character is bad.

It requires the will to understand another human being, all of him, without jumping to fast + easy conclusions; that's what I seek.
 
your profile, Primalex

I read it just now, and I love it!!

Good luck to you for finding the right women to answer you
 
here's a "refresh" bump on a Sunday afternoon

to allow me to catch the limelight for another day or so
 
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