Real life meeting with cyber friends?

[willywanker]

I know it has happened, was even invited to attend one, but just wonder how I (and you) would react if we met in real life someone we had spent a lot of time, either here in the BB or in the chat room having cyber sex with. I know a lot of the people I chat with are married, but about half of those are like me, their partner does not. I've never cheated on my spouse in real life, and would like to think I won't ever, but have enjoyed some very erotic times on line and am just not sure how I would react. Your thoughts, reactions and experiences please.

 

[Stormy]

Did that Saturday........

.....met Rocky Springs. I was nervous, extremely. But, as I told a friend just a few hours ago...I'm in a transition, a self discovery thing. Although it could have been dangerous(which is why I met him in a populated public place), we hit it off great. It's individual preference really, but do be careful. There are idiots all around! Let me know what you decide.

 

[Angel]

It would be cool....

To meet people from Lit. In the proper setting of course.
Literotica House Party.

 

[naudiz]

I've met a lot of MUSHers. For those who have no idea what I'm talking about, a MUSH is an online mutli-user text based role-play game. It's a pretty small online community, and while I've done some sexual themed RP, it tends to be the exception to the rule.

That said, I've had very few problems when meeting people I know online. I think it's important to draw a strict line between fantasy and reality, between character and player, so when I meet an online acquaintance, whatever our characters do or whatever relationship they might have doesn't have much bearing on how we as players interact. For example, I had a character once who was married to one played by a guy I met in RL. We ended up hitting it off well, and we've stayed in touch RL as friends. He's married, I'm engaged. Our characters' relationship didn't cross the line into RL. In fact, it simply never came up.

There have been some people I've met RL from online that made me downright uncomfortable, but the majority of RL meetings have been pretty cool. Some have been one-time conversations over a cup of coffee, and some have evolved into the best friendships I've ever had. I think that the fewer expectations you have going into one of these meetings, the less you set yourself up for disappointment.

 

[Angel]

naudiz

I also play text based RPG's. Well one. and not a free one. (Fucking addictions! LOL)

they have two yearly conventions. I'm planning on attending the one in the summer. So I suppose that counts

 

[naudiz]

Angel

*hee hee*

Most of the MUSHes I play on are based on an RPG gaming system, so whenever there's a gamecon, there will no doubt be a herd of MUSHers geeking the night away. That's how I've met a lot of them. It helps to hit if off if you have a common interest offline.

 

[April]

There are a few people on Lit that I would really like to meet, but that's just for friendship. I don't cyber with anybody. I don't think that's gonna happen, though. Not now, anyway.

 

[Ticklish Girl]

I've met a lot of Yankee fans who post on the Yankees' BB. Many of us have become friends, and every six weeks or so we have a party at a restaurant or somebody's house. Last summer about 80 of us went to a Yankee game and tailgate party, and it was such a success we're going to do it again this summer. I've met a lot of great people from that board.

I'm curious about meeting some of the people I've had cybersex with. I've even talked about it with a couple of them, but I'm not sure if it's going to happen. I'd have to get to know them first. I'm a little extra cautious because the scenes I do with them involve bondage. Once you're tied up, it's a little too late to find out that Prince Charming is really Ted Bundy.

 

[Wizard]

I have met members from this board and it was just like seeing an old friend again..........A real fun time....

 

[naudiz]

If and when time and money allow...

There are so many people I would totally dig having a cup of coffee with. Meeting for coffee is good. It's public enough that if the person you're meeting turns out to be kind of creepy, you don't have to worry about them getting you alone.

I've never met with anyone from online with the intent of having sex. Under those circumstances, I probably wouldn't suggest a coffee shop.

Depends on the coffee shop, I guess.

 

[riff]

The only online friends I have ever met were Russian and I met them in Moscow summer before last. It was a totally rewarding experience.

The only one I ever "cybered" with was a girl named Masha. She read and wrote English fine, but refused to speak it with me (she said she was like a dog- she understood, but could not talk). She took me to this club in a Moscow suburb. According to the music, the setting, the music... everything I saw and heard... I could have been in the states. Except that they were speaking Russian and the vodka was better than anything I could readily get here.

 

[ShyGuy68]

I haven't met anybody from Lit yet, but there are several people that I would really like to meet. I will be going to Massachussets in May, and you never know what will happen when I'm there.

I have met a few people that I've met on-line, and they have all been great experiences. My trip to the states in May is to one of my on-line friends wedding.

 

[Busty]

Some can be great experiences while others might not be so great - I have met a few for coffee and they have been really pleasant meetings - good conversation - lot's of laughing. I would never take it further than that.

 

[Xander]

You know. There are a lot I'd like to meet. All as friends. I dont know if it'll happen though. But just for the record.
I've met a lot of people whom I've met online. Not that many from here though.
And you can never tell what will happen. Sometimes it's extremely good. other times, It suck donkey ass. Most of the time it's somewhere in between.....

Angel. you name the day, and I'm there.
April. Do I really have to go to THAT state??? LOL

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[April]

Maybe not. Like I said, I'm thinking on it.