articfront2000
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Hello everyone. I am writing this to see if there might be any ladies or gentlemen who could help this guy to write sexual homework for my spouse.
Some history; My wife is very conservative when it comes to sex. I was her first at age 24. We are both now 42. She has not been one to experiment or try different things. Our sex life has been tame and infrequent. We have gone for months at a time without. If i dont instigate then we do not have any at all. The longest period was over 6 months. I might mention that she is a Psychiatrist and at times i tease her that she is Lillith Crane from Frasure.
I love to watch her orgasm and know she loves it as well but has a hard time closing her mind to life and opening her mind and body.
Several months ago a friend of mine gave me a game to play to help open her mind and get her to relax and enjoy sex.
The game: we both stripped and stood accross the room. We did rock paper sissors. I won and then had her do something to herself. Then she told me to do something to myself. We each then took a step closer to each other. We continued this till we were next to each other and then i moved to kiss her but held back. She kissed me. I forgot to mention that the one who touched the other first looses. The winner gets to tell the looser how the will orgasm.
Well this was wonderful. She really enjoyed the game. Since then we have played pictionary where the one who didnt get the clues had to perform a action for the other. This was her idea and we both loved it. The sex was wonderful and she had a wonderful orgasm.
I have also had her do homework where she must masturbate for a period of time. She says that she has never made herself orgasm while masturbating.
Two weeks ago she went to a business dinner and i had a paper for her to read when she got home. Me and the kids were out for a while so she had some time alone. She had to get the Rabbitt that i bought her and masturbate to orgasm. and then shower and get dressed with no underwear. When we came home she was just getting dressed. Needlsess to say our sex that night was incredible. and yes she did orgasm with the rabbitt.
Two days later she came home from a dinner and i had a note on the door. She had to get undressed and then choose. 1. go outside and swim and then lay out for a few minutes and then come upstairs or 2. go upstairs and shower and then put on a mask and lay on the bed. She choose 1. and once again our sex was wonderful.
Two days ago i told her that when she left the office to remove her underwear and come home that way. Well she did this and the sex was so so. better than in the past but not as good as it has been recently.
Talking with her she likes the assignments and has told me she is a control person and like the idea of being under my control. She is definately not into BDSM or pain and has laid down some limits.
My problem is this. I need some more homework assignment ideas.
Your ideas and help would be appreciated. I will post a response to the ideas i use and let you know their outcome.
Thank you.
Some history; My wife is very conservative when it comes to sex. I was her first at age 24. We are both now 42. She has not been one to experiment or try different things. Our sex life has been tame and infrequent. We have gone for months at a time without. If i dont instigate then we do not have any at all. The longest period was over 6 months. I might mention that she is a Psychiatrist and at times i tease her that she is Lillith Crane from Frasure.
I love to watch her orgasm and know she loves it as well but has a hard time closing her mind to life and opening her mind and body.
Several months ago a friend of mine gave me a game to play to help open her mind and get her to relax and enjoy sex.
The game: we both stripped and stood accross the room. We did rock paper sissors. I won and then had her do something to herself. Then she told me to do something to myself. We each then took a step closer to each other. We continued this till we were next to each other and then i moved to kiss her but held back. She kissed me. I forgot to mention that the one who touched the other first looses. The winner gets to tell the looser how the will orgasm.
Well this was wonderful. She really enjoyed the game. Since then we have played pictionary where the one who didnt get the clues had to perform a action for the other. This was her idea and we both loved it. The sex was wonderful and she had a wonderful orgasm.
I have also had her do homework where she must masturbate for a period of time. She says that she has never made herself orgasm while masturbating.
Two weeks ago she went to a business dinner and i had a paper for her to read when she got home. Me and the kids were out for a while so she had some time alone. She had to get the Rabbitt that i bought her and masturbate to orgasm. and then shower and get dressed with no underwear. When we came home she was just getting dressed. Needlsess to say our sex that night was incredible. and yes she did orgasm with the rabbitt.
Two days later she came home from a dinner and i had a note on the door. She had to get undressed and then choose. 1. go outside and swim and then lay out for a few minutes and then come upstairs or 2. go upstairs and shower and then put on a mask and lay on the bed. She choose 1. and once again our sex was wonderful.
Two days ago i told her that when she left the office to remove her underwear and come home that way. Well she did this and the sex was so so. better than in the past but not as good as it has been recently.
Talking with her she likes the assignments and has told me she is a control person and like the idea of being under my control. She is definately not into BDSM or pain and has laid down some limits.
My problem is this. I need some more homework assignment ideas.
Your ideas and help would be appreciated. I will post a response to the ideas i use and let you know their outcome.
Thank you.
