I have an experience that happened to me at work. I was forced to have my first gay experience by a very famous DJ. I am a terrible writer. Maybe I'll give it a try or one of the authors can help me? Its an exciting story that I still get off thinking about it.
Real life experience
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Alright, so Cane registered in August of 1999 and he posted only once. It's a safe bet he won't be back to see if someone wrote a story for him. But, I am wondering here...
How many of you have written abou your own personal experiences? If you have, was your story a narrative of your life or was it more of a random hint to your personal life?
Several times people have asked me if I have written about my own personal life, and they have suggested that I should. I don't know what it is, but I guess I am getting jaded sexually. So far, my stories have been an odd mixture of things I have experinced and things I still fantasize about. To me, a "narrative" of my sex life seems too dull.
Anyone else feel this way?
How many of you have written abou your own personal experiences? If you have, was your story a narrative of your life or was it more of a random hint to your personal life?
Several times people have asked me if I have written about my own personal life, and they have suggested that I should. I don't know what it is, but I guess I am getting jaded sexually. So far, my stories have been an odd mixture of things I have experinced and things I still fantasize about. To me, a "narrative" of my sex life seems too dull.
Anyone else feel this way?
sirhugs
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My real life would certainly be too dull to write about, especially the sex part.
Most of my stories are vaguely based on events in real life, but my real life isn't as interesting as the stories- the fiction is taking how I wish things worked and playing it out in my head, then on the computer screen.
My " tigerjen" story and my library story were ideas supplied initially by others, then enhanced by me. Although I have library fantasies, the particular scene was not mine . I did weave in some of my own fantasies. I am always happy to do more of that, which is a reason to visit Story Ideas. I also weave ideas from here into my own fantasies to flesh out the plots.
In my " Donna" stories, my first efforts the first story plot starts with real events. My wife did meet some studs in the bar while I was working. The sex is imagined. In reality, she just got turned on by the attention, to my benefit. The barmaid in the sequels was real too, but we never had sex with her. Nor did we have sex in the sauna. I just wanted to.
My male characters are all reflections of aspects of my personality, but not the whole. I am not as brave in real life as my characers. They represent my feelings more than my character. I was in rl a virgin until quite late, so that theme is easy for me to make realistic ( I hope). I do have frustrations currently from being celibate while my wife plays around, so Loving Wives is a natural. I wish I was more forceful, so exhibitionism and other scenes express that.
My female characters are more of a challenge. I have had feedback they are too two-dimensional. There is some truth to this. I find writing them harder. They reflect my fantasy women. Some of them, like Donna, and my sexy cousin, are very loosely based on real women in my life. But the fantasies tend to make them robots, not real. Must work on this.
I wonder if woman authors have as much trouble doing believable male characters.
Any tips to improve this? ( I know this isn't the writer's foruum, but what the heck)
Most of my stories are vaguely based on events in real life, but my real life isn't as interesting as the stories- the fiction is taking how I wish things worked and playing it out in my head, then on the computer screen.
My " tigerjen" story and my library story were ideas supplied initially by others, then enhanced by me. Although I have library fantasies, the particular scene was not mine . I did weave in some of my own fantasies. I am always happy to do more of that, which is a reason to visit Story Ideas. I also weave ideas from here into my own fantasies to flesh out the plots.
In my " Donna" stories, my first efforts the first story plot starts with real events. My wife did meet some studs in the bar while I was working. The sex is imagined. In reality, she just got turned on by the attention, to my benefit. The barmaid in the sequels was real too, but we never had sex with her. Nor did we have sex in the sauna. I just wanted to.
My male characters are all reflections of aspects of my personality, but not the whole. I am not as brave in real life as my characers. They represent my feelings more than my character. I was in rl a virgin until quite late, so that theme is easy for me to make realistic ( I hope). I do have frustrations currently from being celibate while my wife plays around, so Loving Wives is a natural. I wish I was more forceful, so exhibitionism and other scenes express that.
My female characters are more of a challenge. I have had feedback they are too two-dimensional. There is some truth to this. I find writing them harder. They reflect my fantasy women. Some of them, like Donna, and my sexy cousin, are very loosely based on real women in my life. But the fantasies tend to make them robots, not real. Must work on this.
I wonder if woman authors have as much trouble doing believable male characters.
Any tips to improve this? ( I know this isn't the writer's foruum, but what the heck)
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sirhugs said:
I take it you've been reading some of the outbursts over in Author's Hangout as well? I think any thread, question, or concern directly related to the development of a story *is* appropriate for either two boards.
When I wrote a story in the first person, male point of view, I was told by many people that I did a good job. It was my first story ever written that way.
I don't really have any "tips" to offer, but I thought it looked odd to ony quote the first of the two sentences.
lol When it comes to my male characters, depending on what the story is, I usually try to base them loosely off someone I know. I try to capture their personality, etc.
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Ah, we have something in common.
Welcome to Lit, by the way.
Welcome to Lit, by the way.
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more like what I wish I could find in my personal sex life if only rl sex weren't risky
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Real life sex isn't "too risky" when a couple doesn't cheat on one another.
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BlessedBe said:
Who said I'm part of a couple or even want to be? Hence part of the risky comment. I'd love to live samantha's (sex and the city) life. But I don't want to get a yucky std. At least I can get rid of a pregnancy...some std's are for life.
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deliciously_naughty said:
No one. I was merely responding to your post on this thread.
Boy! If I wrote about my real life it was be a complete loss.My characters are real but the stories are based on what I wish I could get up to with them if I wasn't so spineless and lacking in self esteem.Strangely enough the girl who I write about most ended up being my lover for an all too brief moment in time.Her husband would have objected and the event never repeated itself.But it now means that when I give details of her body and little nuances only a lover would know I am now 100% accurate.I must admit that Ididn't sleep with her just to research my Lit. stories though
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Real Life Stories and Chicklet's Screwed Up Head
Yeah, I've submitted two "true to me" stories. One is a humor story, an eyeful, and very traumatic at that. The second is an essay that I submitted to "Voyeur/exhibitionism" called "In the mind of a pervert" Both have gotten great response. The pervert one a lot of people seem to relate to, which makes me happy.
Chicklet
Yeah, I've submitted two "true to me" stories. One is a humor story, an eyeful, and very traumatic at that. The second is an essay that I submitted to "Voyeur/exhibitionism" called "In the mind of a pervert" Both have gotten great response. The pervert one a lot of people seem to relate to, which makes me happy.
Chicklet
