Raping the willing

[otakukitten]

I'm looking for advice on how to 'rape' my husband the next time we have sex. He likes it when I start to get dominant, then takes over after a few minutes. I want total and complete control with him. I picked up some soft silk ropes a few weeks ago at a crafts store and have them hidden away.

Ideally, I want to tie him up and tease him until he's ready to cum, but there's also the problem of him cumming too quickly lately. I'm a mostly submissive type, so I don't tend to top all that often.

 

[infinity706]

Well, you could do that, but a little naked wrestling might be fun, too. Of course someone will likely have to give up and submit to the sex part at some point.

 

[tustin92614]

Great question!! You'll need some preparation and an element of surprise!! I'd suggest asking him to put on a blindfold, and have him stand while you strip him.

Have the ropes already tied to the headboard and hidden from view. I'd suggest having a velcro cuff or something quiet and quick to secure.

Direct him to lay down, and straddle his chest. move his arms up toward the headboard, and get the cuffs on as fast as possible. I wouldn't worry too much about the legs. With the hands secured, you'll be in control.

As for the cumming too quickly part, one of the reasons to tie him up is so that you can make him do you, too!! A lttle handi and oral work for him, then straddle up to his face and get some for yourself. A little more oral work for him, then some more for you!!

Let me know if you need more suggestions!!!

He'll have a great time!!

 

[nipple jewelry]

All great suggestions so far. Even more elaborate is an outside setting. Anyway to get him in a old abandon office, parking lot by himself? Can you sneak up on him?

I did this once for my husband with a male friend of mine. Scared the hell out of my husband at first but once he felt the female he was all for it. Took a lot of planning. Would I do it again, NO. but for a once and done, yes.

A variance on this is to first get him in the car, then blindfolded him, drive him around, stop in a wooded area, old office, etc and rape the hell out of him. If you have a girlfriend to help, even better!

Be creative, he will kiss your feet for it (read: buy you some Tiffiany jewelry! )

S

 

[fire_breeze]

You might also want to check out the BDSM Forum's Library for ideas.

 

[otakukitten]

Be creative, he will kiss your feet for it (read: buy you some Tiffiany jewelry! )

S

Nah, I'm not much for jewelery. His last attempt to woo me with jewelery was nice (pretty 1 carat diamond heart pendant), but I like him instead. Material things are not my style.

I like the ideas so far, especially the blindfolding. While he can't see well without his glasses, I know that complete loss of a sense drives him batty. So I have to wonder what the loss of two senses would do to him.

 

[Cajon555]

Before you actuall tie him up, I think you need to make sure that he is down for that--or up for that--whatever. If the two of you have never talked about bondage and you have gotten the OK from him to try this, it could be a really bad idea. If I agreed to a blindfold with my S.O. and then restraints were tossed in without my agreement, I would feel pretty unconfortable with the whole thing, and with my S.O.