Rape Fantasy?

[ToySoldier]

I've asked this question in other forums and it doesn't get the best response. Forgive me if this is the wrong place to ask this I've heard it before from other girls but I don't know how common it is. My girlfriend recently told me that she has had fantasies of it in the past but obviously she'd enjoy her thoughts more than real rape. So, I was thinking...if she wants it, is it worth trying? And if so, how? I'm quite honestly, terrified by the thought of what could go wrong. Has anyone tried it and do you have any pointers?

 

[FurryFury]

The thing is, rape fantasies are common but they are NOT all the same. What that means is that you need to talk with her on the elements that she would need or like for it to be good for her.

You might find that she feels a need to be tied up.

Or that she needs to fight hard enough that one or both of you could be hurt.

Or that she simply would like to pretend to be asleep and be awoken with a hand over her mouth and made to fuck.

There are so many possibilities but only the two of you can determine what would make this fantasy work for you both and that will only happen with ongoing open and frank communication.

Good luck to you both.

Fury

 

[Quint]

Ditto to the communication. Don't think of it as "spoiling" anything...think of it as guaranteeing that you won't get kicked in the nuts!

For me, the fantasy started off as a desire to be physically overpowered and made to fuck while I wasn't ready. There are all sorts of ways to play with that theme, though...once you've talked it through with her, you should have plenty of options for a nice zesty scene that you feel comfortable initiating. It doesn't have to be high-impact on your part. Just contain the situation immediately and don't let up.

But talk first! There are too many buttons in this game; you don't want to accidentally push the wrong ones!