Rape fantasies???

[psyche]

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Nice story psyche,,, I never took advantage of anyone whilst I was working.... If you need help being held down, just let me know. I like restraints... it makes the teasing that much more pleasurable. (for me too)
I'm not into rape... seems like pain to me. I like pleasure too much, and pleasuring.

God Wing, how can I turn an offer like that down? You can make me lose control anytime!

 

[Tallfella]

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God Wing, how can I turn an offer like that down? You can make me lose control anytime!

Licks tip of pencil mind if I take notes?

 

[psyche]

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Licks tip of pencil mind if I take notes?

Go ahead Tallfella, but you have to let me read them when your done. Seems like a waste of a nice tongue licking a pencil!

 

[psyche]

No more rape fantasies? Being held down, having no control?

 

[Tallfella]

No more rape fantasies? Being held down, having no control?

I have loads but its the weekend you get the weekends free LOL

 

[psyche]

I have loads but its the weekend you get the weekends free LOL

What a terrible tease you are Tallfella!

 

[Tallfella]

What a terrible tease you are Tallfella!

You think I'm bad ?

Well there was a sadist and a masochist got married a formal normal wedding. they get to the bridal suite on the wedding night and they strip off the the masochist puts on bondage gear and prostrates himself in front of his bride.
"Beat me whip me abuse me !"
He whines.
She laughs impales his asshole on her spike heeled boot and grinds down then laughs evilly
"No!"

 

[Voosla]

I fantasize about rape too. You guys could be right, it's not actually a rape fantasy, just loosing control, being ravished. Never really thought about the difference.

 

[psyche]

You think I'm bad ?

Well there was a sadist and a masochist got married a formal normal wedding. they get to the bridal suite on the wedding night and they strip off the the masochist puts on bondage gear and prostrates himself in front of his bride.
"Beat me whip me abuse me !"
He whines.
She laughs impales his asshole on her spike heeled boot and grinds down then laughs evilly
"No!"

Too funny! I need a laugh!

 

[gothic_nymph]

Well not so much rape fantasies but defiantly I fantasize about not being in control. Being tied up, held down... ect.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Well not so much rape fantasies but defiantly I fantasize about not being in control. Being tied up, held down... ect.

Come on over to the BDSM Forum, you'll be in good company there.

For those who think fantasising about rape is wrong: -

Rape roleplay has almost no bearing on R/L rape. There's nothing wrong with what we on the BDSM Forum prefer to call a TBF (taken by force) fantasy. In TBF fantasies the 'attacker' is someone to whom the 'victim' is sexually attracted and just as in all the nonconsent stories we have here, the 'victim' always winds up enjoying the experience. This kind of fantasy is about loss of control to an extreme degree and it allows women to fantasise about being fucked in a way that they would never usually allow. It free them from the 'guilt' attached to knowing that they might enjoy being objectified and used.

Dominant/sadistic men who fantasise about the act of rape are very far removed from the type of man who would actually go out and violate a woman against her will. Just as dominant men would not raise a flogger to a girl who had not consented and begged for it, so he would equally abhor the thought of actually raping a woman. They are just fantasies, like horror films are just entertainment. It's all tomato ketchup, everyone's acting and nobody gets hurt.

 

[satindesire]

Come on over to the BDSM Forum, you'll be in good company there.

For those who think fantasising about rape is wrong: -

Rape roleplay has almost no bearing on R/L rape. There's nothing wrong with what we on the BDSM Forum prefer to call a TBF (taken by force) fantasy. In TBF fantasies the 'attacker' is someone to whom the 'victim' is sexually attracted and just as in all the nonconsent stories we have here, the 'victim' always winds up enjoying the experience. This kind of fantasy is about loss of control to an extreme degree and it allows women to fantasise about being fucked in a way that they would never usually allow. It free them from the 'guilt' attached to knowing that they might enjoy being objectified and used.

Dominant/sadistic men who fantasise about the act of rape are very far removed from the type of man who would actually go out and violate a woman against her will. Just as dominant men would not raise a flogger to a girl who had not consented and begged for it, so he would equally abhor the thought of actually raping a woman. They are just fantasies, like horror films are just entertainment. It's all tomato ketchup, everyone's acting and nobody gets hurt.

Yes, let us all remember that real rape isn't about sex at all, it's about power.

Taken By Force fantasies, those are fun.

 

[DiscusDave]

Bravo...

Brilliantly put Velvet.

 

[Tornia]

I love being forced ... not raped, but forced. It's all about being a little bit out of control isn't it?

 

[HowMayIPleaseU]

I love the fantasy of rape... definitely not in favor of the reality....

But the taken by force fantasies... mmmm... oh mama mia... those do it for me

 

[scotsmitch2001]

What she said

I personally like the struggle. The best was when my ex (we were together at the time) woke me up while on top of me and held my arms as he made love to me. He had teased me to hell the night before.

Bel

A woman once told me that if a guy has sex with a woman while she is sleeping..it is rape

 

[satindesire]

A woman once told me that if a guy has sex with a woman while she is sleeping..it is rape

Sex has to be consensual, meaning both partners have to be in good sound mind and in agreement that sexual contact will take place.

If one partner is unconscious, consent cannot be given. Therefore, technically, it IS rape.

She could be asleep, drunk, passed out, sedated from drugs, whatever. If she's not clear headed and a guy has sex with her, he can be prosecuted...even if he's her husband or boyfriend.

 

[sereneone4u]

I totally agree that the real experience of rape is not what women fantasize about. Rape is a crime and about hurting women and causing fear to feel powerful.

On the other hand, the fantasy of rape is a turn on for me. For me the appeal of this type of encounter is the idea of trying to resist someone who is a stranger and who I should not be attracted to and yet my body physically responds to him. You do see that commonality in some of the nonconsent stories. My personal favorites are about a cop who stops 'me' and realizes that he could in fact take advantage of the situation. So there we are, no chance of him getting caught and me totally helpless to do anything about it. The fantasy also never includes anything that would cause any damage or other trauma, except the fact that you responded sexually to this man who skillfully manipulated you to the point that you could not control yourself. He is strong but gentle, firm in his advances but not mean, he is so overcome by his desire for you, that he is also out of control, he can't help himself, which is also part of the turn on. He looks at your breasts and needs to feel them in his hands. He smells your scent and he needs to get closer and taste you on his lips. His cock is so hard that he can think of nothing except how badly he needs to fuck you. So he pushes you gently against the car, frisking you, but he is not looking for anything, he is enjoying the feeling of touching you and you can't do anything about it. His hands move over your body and in spite of yourself you respond to it even though you know it's wrong. By the time he moves his hand into your panties and and puts a finger into your pussy you are dripping wet needing him to fuck you as badly as he needs to fuck you...........

I totally and completely agree.

 

[nipers]

???

I have a ? if you wife willnot give it up and when she is sleeping you jerkoff and shoot your cum onto herIs that rape or just sick?

 

[satindesire]

I have a ? if you wife willnot give it up and when she is sleeping you jerkoff and shoot your cum onto herIs that rape or just sick?

Stay in school, kids.

 

[Eilan]

I have a ? if you wife willnot give it up and when she is sleeping you jerkoff and shoot your cum onto herIs that rape or just sick?

Let's take a stroll down How-To memory lane.

 

[naxalite0906]

Come on over to the BDSM Forum, you'll be in good company there.

For those who think fantasising about rape is wrong: -

Rape roleplay has almost no bearing on R/L rape. There's nothing wrong with what we on the BDSM Forum prefer to call a TBF (taken by force) fantasy. In TBF fantasies the 'attacker' is someone to whom the 'victim' is sexually attracted and just as in all the nonconsent stories we have here, the 'victim' always winds up enjoying the experience. This kind of fantasy is about loss of control to an extreme degree and it allows women to fantasise about being fucked in a way that they would never usually allow. It free them from the 'guilt' attached to knowing that they might enjoy being objectified and used.

Dominant/sadistic men who fantasise about the act of rape are very far removed from the type of man who would actually go out and violate a woman against her will. Just as dominant men would not raise a flogger to a girl who had not consented and begged for it, so he would equally abhor the thought of actually raping a woman. They are just fantasies, like horror films are just entertainment. It's all tomato ketchup, everyone's acting and nobody gets hurt.

Yes, let us all remember that real rape isn't about sex at all, it's about power.

Taken By Force fantasies, those are fun.

Both are very valid points. However, due to past experience, sometimes these fantasies may be hard to act out, or hit a nerve.

My ex was raped and I went through the pain of it with her when she was trying to deal with it. Because of this, it is a matter that would hit home if I tried it, so it makes it a little tougher to deal with.

No one is saying the fantasy is wrong as it is seperate to actually raping someone. But if you want to act this fantasy out, make sure you don't bring it up to someone who may have been affected by rape in the past.

 

[drinkmeup83]

A woman once told me that if a guy has sex with a woman while she is sleeping..it is rape

Ohh I used to love when I would wake in the middle of the night to find my ex messing with me...That always led to the best sex! But we were open and he knew I was always up for sex so it was definitely not rape.

 

[satindesire]

Both are very valid points. However, due to past experience, sometimes these fantasies may be hard to act out, or hit a nerve.

My ex was raped and I went through the pain of it with her when she was trying to deal with it. Because of this, it is a matter that would hit home if I tried it, so it makes it a little tougher to deal with.

No one is saying the fantasy is wrong as it is seperate to actually raping someone. But if you want to act this fantasy out, make sure you don't bring it up to someone who may have been affected by rape in the past.

The only way to play rape with someone is to talk it out beforehand and agree upon it, because if you don't, then that's REAL rape. Obviously if one person was uncomfortable with the idea they simply wouldn't agree.

 

[Pinkneonsocks]

Psychology. an imagined or conjured up sequence fulfilling a psychological need; daydream.

I know it's tacky to pull a definition from a dictionary but the words "rape" and "fantasy" just don't go together in my mind. Rape is something that doesn't leave you fulfilled after. Based on what I've heard from women who have indeed been raped - that is not what they are left feeling like. To my knowledge they are left feeling exactly the opposite - empty.

Everytime I see someone use the two words together I just get a sick feeling. I don't wish rape upon anyone.

The idea of being completely helpless and sexually dominated by a stranger is a completely different thing. Not rape.