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EmeraldKitten

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I've been wondering.. so if ya'll could fill me in, that'd be great. ;)

First off, what's the deal with guys liking long hair?
Is it because it's more feminine? Or is it because it makes grabbing a hold of it easier? ;)
Not to say every man prefers long hair, because I'm sure there are some that do not. But as a hairdresser, all I hear is 'if I cut it any shorter my husband/boyfriend will kill me.'
Yikes, ya silly goose. This shit is fried and it NEEDS cut off, I don't care what your man's gonna do to ya.
Is long hair worth it, if it looks like a scraggly crack whore's head? Just wondering. :D
In my personal case, yes, my boyfriend would prefer long hair. But guess what? I've cut it short, and nothing bad happened to me, lol.
Have I gone back to my 'spikey in the back' sling? No. But only because that haircut took me two years to grow back out, and I'm not in a hurry to do it again. ;)

Secondly, why are blow jobs so popular, and why do I have to be so damn good at it? :p
No, seriously. What makes the world's best blowie?

Hmm.. that is all. Please discuss. :)
 
I love long long hair, but short fits some women so well, though I have never used it to grab onto (my first girlfriend wouldn't do doggy style, and the last woman I was with... that situation was a mess). And I try to talk a lot of women into shaving their heads just for the hell of it. So I don't know...

And I have only ever had one blowjob, so I really don't know...
 
There is a whole range of fetishes around long hair. e.g. tied up by long haired ladies

But then, there are fetishes about almost any feminine attribute or even lack of attribute e.g. bald women.

Unlike some short hair, long hair can be arranged in a variety of styles from formal to casual. Rearranging the hairstyle can present a different woman, so a long-haired woman can appear to be goddess, lover or whore in the same day.

From personal experience with girlfriends I know that very long hair requires considerable time for maintenance, so I'm not enthused about hair below the waist or highly styled hair but I like shoulder length hair, below shoulder hair (short hair, and layered hair and, and...).

I just like real hair on a woman's head.

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Long hair is nice because when you help a woman put on her coat, you gather it all in one hand and hold it off her neck. Then she gives you an adoring, "where did you learn that?" look.

There is no point to long hair if it doesn't look good. A woman is better off showing a bare neck.

Why are blowjobs popular? If you had a penis, you wouldn't waste time asking this question. It's one of those, if you have to ask, questions.

The thing that makes or breaks the blowjob is enthusiasm. It must be totally goal oriented and demanding.

Some women give blowjobs like they are cleaning an oven. It has to be done, but they don't want to get any of the stuff on them.
 
Why are blowjobs popular? If you had a penis, you wouldn't waste time asking this question. It's one of those, if you have to ask, questions.

I don't have time to reply to all at this point.. I'm running late with my day! lol.
But I did want to clarify- I'm not an idiot. I know why blow jobs are popular, lol.
The first part of that question was sarcasm, the second part was the true question. :)

Okay, I'm really late.

Keep posting, this is interesting! :)

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Long hair is nice because when you help a woman put on her coat, you gather it all in one hand and hold it off her neck. Then she gives you an adoring, "where did you learn that?" look.

There is no point to long hair if it doesn't look good. A woman is better off showing a bare neck.

Why are blowjobs popular? If you had a penis, you wouldn't waste time asking this question. It's one of those, if you have to ask, questions.

The thing that makes or breaks the blowjob is enthusiasm. It must be totally goal oriented and demanding.

Some women give blowjobs like they are cleaning an oven. It has to be done, but they don't want to get any of the stuff on them.

I think this about sums it up.

Except for the part about using her long hair to hold her big toes in place when you hog tie a woman. With her head pulled back that way, she has to look deep into your eyes as she struggles to get free.

Oh, wait.... Never mind, that was something i was thinking. :eek:
 
Not all men prefer long hair on women, but I agree that statistically, most probably do. I'd guess it is because it makes them look more uniquely feminine. Yes, men can grow long hair, but it never looks as smooth and pretty as it does on a woman. Short hair on a woman looks pretty much the same as short hair on a man with a similar cut.

I could also point out that some women prefer long hair on their men, too.

As for the blowjob question, I can't improve on what bronzeage said.
 
As to blowjobs, Bronzeage summed it up. If she's not into it, that sorta takes the air out of the balloon.

Now, assuming you're into it:
No teeth, unless veeeeeerrry lightly. Even then, you're straying into personal likes or dislikes. YMMV

Don't be afraid to jack it while you suck it. Give your neck and tongue a rest.

Cup the balls, sort of like you're rolling dice. That part where the nutsack meets the taint is pretty sensitive - where you can feel the inside part of the cock.

Smile. I know, that's difficult, but it goes with the enthusiasm thing. Look into his eyes.

Oh, and here's a little song for you.
 
Hair, long or short, on a woman should be in a style that would distinguish her femininity. Some styles, hair really short - on a guy they would be called a crew cut - shouldn't be worn by a woman unless she is making a statement of her sexuality. Although that just might depend on the woman herself as some women can pull off the short look and still be considered feminine.

Personally I like medium length hair on most women. Long ratty looking hair is an immediate turn off. Short butch looking hair is too. Just my likes and dislikes. I know most women like their hair short because its easier to take care of.

Blow jobs...it's been a while but from what I remember, suction and an active and enthusiastic tongue are key. Also, softly caressing hands on the vital part is helpful. And wide smiling eyes looking up into yours helps a lot.
 
Soo.. it's a good thing I could suck a golf ball through a garden hose, right? lol.

Interesting input you guys. :) I likey. :)

Me personally? My hair is just about down to my bra strap in the back.. sides are a little shorter since I have it framed around my face. I like having long hair- it hasn't been this long in.. well, years. There is just something sexy about it... but I also feel just as sexy when it's shorter. *shrug*
I wondered if it was more a fetish thing, or more a feminine thing.. that was the purpose of the question.

As far as the blow jobs go, good advice ya guys. :)(Or input or whatever ya want to call it. :p) Again, me personally? I don't 'mind' it, and I don't feel like its a chore. (Well, I don't feel like that most of the time, lol. But when ya do it almost every day, it can sorta get boring. :p) I've even been woken up from a nap (more than once!) with something brushing against my mouth. Can anyone guess what that might be? lol.
I know everyone is different, and they have different things that they like.. that's why I was curious. :)

Thanks everyone. :kiss:
 
I used to have super long hair. It was down to the middle of my back. I could never go back to that. My hair's super thick, so it wasn't exactly pretty or feminine. I have to keep it at or above shoulder length or else it looks like crap. My fiance loves my hair short. I mean, there's enough for him to get a handful still, so I guess it's not SUPER short... I think the reason for the preference is girls usually save the short hair for when they get to be older. But I dunno... I think super short hair on an attractive girl is really hot. A little androgyny is good sometimes.

As a girl, I don't understand why blow jobs are so popular. What does it matter what hole a guy sticks it in? :p Being eaten out is a different story though. NOTHING else feels like that.

My guy's BJ preferences? He's a little different than most guys. He enjoys enthusiasm as much as the next guy, but he also really gets off on the idea that he's forcing me into it. Strange as it is, turning my head from him and clamping my jaw shut can get him very hard. Being very ticklish, I pretty much have to keep my hands clear of his balls or else he'll poke my eye out. He doesn't like strong suction. He prefers light suction if any at all. Recently he's been really into pushing my head into him and making me gag. Sounds awful, but I don't mind. He also loves to feel teeth. I still haven't found his "boundary" for how much teeth is too much though. I'm too afraid. >.<

Just goes to show you how preferences can vary. :)
 
I used to have super long hair. It was down to the middle of my back. I could never go back to that. My hair's super thick, so it wasn't exactly pretty or feminine. I have to keep it at or above shoulder length or else it looks like crap. My fiance loves my hair short. I mean, there's enough for him to get a handful still, so I guess it's not SUPER short... I think the reason for the preference is girls usually save the short hair for when they get to be older. But I dunno... I think super short hair on an attractive girl is really hot. A little androgyny is good sometimes.

As a girl, I don't understand why blow jobs are so popular. What does it matter what hole a guy sticks it in? :p Being eaten out is a different story though. NOTHING else feels like that.

My guy's BJ preferences? He's a little different than most guys. He enjoys enthusiasm as much as the next guy, but he also really gets off on the idea that he's forcing me into it. Strange as it is, turning my head from him and clamping my jaw shut can get him very hard. Being very ticklish, I pretty much have to keep my hands clear of his balls or else he'll poke my eye out. He doesn't like strong suction. He prefers light suction if any at all. Recently he's been really into pushing my head into him and making me gag. Sounds awful, but I don't mind. He also loves to feel teeth. I still haven't found his "boundary" for how much teeth is too much though. I'm too afraid. >.<

Just goes to show you how preferences can vary. :)

The bold above: The same goes for a blowjob. ;) :D
 
As a girl, I don't understand why blow jobs are so popular. What does it matter what hole a guy sticks it in? :p Being eaten out is a different story though. NOTHING else feels like that.
True story!! lol

My guy's BJ preferences? He's a little different than most guys. He enjoys enthusiasm as much as the next guy, but he also really gets off on the idea that he's forcing me into it. Strange as it is, turning my head from him and clamping my jaw shut can get him very hard. Being very ticklish, I pretty much have to keep my hands clear of his balls or else he'll poke my eye out. He doesn't like strong suction. He prefers light suction if any at all. Recently he's been really into pushing my head into him and making me gag. Sounds awful, but I don't mind. He also loves to feel teeth. I still haven't found his "boundary" for how much teeth is too much though. I'm too afraid. >.<
I'd agree with the 'forcing you into it' part.. as far as my boyfriend goes. I'll say no, but I do it with a smile so I don't hurt his feelings, and I think he thinks I'm teasing.. and he likes it. :) I'll also clamp my mouth shut and he just smiles and coaxes me. Finally I laugh, my mouth opens, and it's a done deal lol.
I used to think you had to suck like a hoover, but then I discovered he was pretty much just as content if I didn't. Hmm. As long as it's in there, and he can thrust and fuck my mouth, we're in business, lol. Which makes life pretty easy actually. As he says, all I've gotta do is say 'ah'. :D
The gagging thing- he's always kind of been.. hmm.. fixated on that. I disappoint him. In four years I've gagged three times, lol. Once, he did hit the back of my throat wrong, but the other two.. well.. I'm not really a fan of saliva.. and if I think about it, it bothers me. :eek: I wonder if it's a manly thing, as in, 'yeah bitch, gag on my super huge cock.'... lol. I don't know.
My boyfriend also enjoys teeth, but obviously, he doesn't want me to bite it off, lol. The second blow job I gave him, I was trying to figure out how to keep him in my mouth and swallow at the same time. So I 'expertly' manuvered his cock to the outside of my teeth and was trying to swallow without shutting my mouth.. yeah, that doesn't really work. So my teeth closed more than I meant for them to, and I bit him- but I think what was worse was that it was just a little pinch of skin, LOL. Needless to say he yelped and jerked back.
Too bad that didn't cure him of his blow job fixation, LOL. :p
He had had several girlfriends before me, and on the fourth blowie he came, and looked stunned. No one had ever gotten him off just by a blowie before. His face was pretty priceless actually, lol. Amatuers. :D What was extra hilarious for me, was that I'd never given a blow job before him... and at that point, he started not beliving me, LOL. Oh well. :p
 
So, is there a wrong way to do a blowjob? Adam doesn't think so.

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Women generally look good with long hair until they reach a certain age, then they look better with it short. If a woman is going to perform in a video giving a blowjob, she should have short hair, or at least pinned back to avoid all that annoying brushing the hair back as it keeps falling down and blocking the view. If she is blowing me, personally, her hair length, or where it falls. doesn't matter. I just lay back and enjoy.
 
Long hair on men and women tells a bit about health.

Or about which shampoo and conditioner they use.

Hair is dead cells. It can reveal what a person's health WAS when that hair was growing, but not what their health is now.

For example, people poisoned by frequent small doses of arsenic will have arsenic traces along the length of their hair.

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