Raise a loud huzzah

[NemoAlia]

sweetjulia, your story reminds me of something that happened once to me:

My at-the-time lover and I were asleep, having zonked out after a good bout of solid sex. We hadn't even bothered to dry off before we drifted off, and we woke up unexpectedly having anal sex (a first for us). We jumped away from each other so fast (surprise, and no-condom fear, and general shock at having woken up to such an intimate act that neither of us had initiated) and ran to the shower where we didn't even try to do anything but giggle nervously and scrub wildly.

After that, though, anal sex did eventually become one of our staples.

 

[hurtme]

my first time with anal sex (and i have only done it twice) it hurt like hell, felt like my poor little asshole was bleeding...but from lack of adequate lube, not from the pain everyone else says they feel...and afterwards, it didn't hurt at all...ok, well, very little, i don't think i have a terribly high tolerance for pain, but that makes me feel a little wierd that it didn't hurt more, considering i had never done any anal play before that first time...I was expecting to be in excrutiating, near tears kind of pain...and to be hurting for days afterwards, and i wasn't...
I regret the person i gave my "anal virginity" to, it was a bad choice...at least i got to make the choice this time...
anyway, three cheers to you quint...you SHOULD be very pleased and proud of yourself...it always feels amazing to get over a boundry...

 

[Pure]

bump

there are several good threads on this topic, see examples at the end of this posting,

but quint's statement intrigues me--and i believe i agree with it. any comments?

[compared to vaginal sex]

Q:I find anal sex ... more innately humiliating

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other good threads

Hey can someone help get some hot links up for these?

cut and paste:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=144896

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=133821

 

[Shankara20]

there are several good threads on this topic, see examples at the end of this posting,

but quint's statement intrigues me--and i believe i agree with it. any comments?

[compared to vaginal sex]

Q:I find anal sex ... more innately humiliating

====
other good threads

https://forum.literotica.com/showhread.php?t=144896

https://forum.literotica.com/showhread.php?t=133821

I don't seem to get the links to open. FYI

To the question - I do not connect anal sex to humiliation outside a set up for a play scene. IMHO - It can be in some ways a closer connection between two lovers, due in part to the level of communication required so no pain is involved. I believe some who are interested in anal sex but are not able, for whatever reason, to request it, want to be made to "take it", be humiliated into it. That relieves them from taking responsibility for their own desires.

It is a larger subject than I addressed here, these were just my first thoughts....

 

[NemoAlia]

For me, anal sex isn't inherently more humiliating...

But with most Doms, I've played it that way! You know, even just in casual conversation it turns into flirting with humiliation, etc. For example:

"I'd love to hear you shouting 'Tort reform! Tort reform!' with my cock up your ass!"

 

[Marquis]

It can be in some ways a closer connection between two lovers, due in part to the level of communication required so no pain is involved.

That's it, I've lost it.

 

[Pure]

maybe someone can help with those links in my first posting (10:43 am). they seem always to get abridged when i simply type them.

 

[Marquis]

maybe someone can help with those links in my first posting (10:43 am). they seem always to get abridged when i simply type them.

The dots are an ellipsis pure.

 

[Pure]

I know that, M, but they (dots) seem fatal to getting the link to work. Ideally the machine would fill in (reconstitute) the dots correctly.

And i can't stop the ellipsis from being made without messing things up like --adding space after first bracket, dropping final bracket

[ url]https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=144896[/url

so i've turned of the 'url' recognition option. so they can at least be pasted.

 

[Quint]

...........

 

[Pure]

sorry quint

i was simply trying to keep there from being 200 threads on anal sex. i tend to assume--mistakenly, it appears--that if someone doesn't delete material, and leaves it searchable and readable to Lit's million dropins, that it's OK with them to bring it up for further discussion.