racial slurs during sex

[Shrubbery]

Ok, this may be fairly touchy subject, and isn't something I ever thought I'd be interested in. I've never been turned on by interracial porn (or at least, I've never been turned on by it BECAUSE it is interracial, some of it is still good porn after all), or been more attracted to women of a particular ethnicity, or really understood why or how race has anything to do how sexy someone is.

So a few months ago I started sleeping with an Indian girl a couple years older than me. She was very experienced and fantastically filthy in bed, fulfilling all my dirtiest fantasies and introducing me to some new ones. The one that shocked me the most was that she loved me using racist language and degradation while we were fucking.

I was brought up by communist parents and consider myself very left wing. I suspect this has something to do with why I found it so fucking hot, in that it broke a whole bunch of really strong taboos. I wonder if it's similar to calling a woman 'slut' and 'whore', in that I can't imagine it being hot if it's being used by someone who might actually say things like that in a derogatory way. Maybe it's different for some but for me it's a way of accessing the parts of yourself that are normally kept shut off and allowing yourself that which is forbidden.

Would love to hear other people's thoughts on this, and find women to explore it with

 

[blkjames]

Ok, this may be fairly touchy subject, and isn't something I ever thought I'd be interested in. I've never been turned on by interracial porn (or at least, I've never been turned on by it BECAUSE it is interracial, some of it is still good porn after all), or been more attracted to women of a particular ethnicity, or really understood why or how race has anything to do how sexy someone is.

So a few months ago I started sleeping with an Indian girl a couple years older than me. She was very experienced and fantastically filthy in bed, fulfilling all my dirtiest fantasies and introducing me to some new ones. The one that shocked me the most was that she loved me using racist language and degradation while we were fucking.

I was brought up by communist parents and consider myself very left wing. I suspect this has something to do with why I found it so fucking hot, in that it broke a whole bunch of really strong taboos. I wonder if it's similar to calling a woman 'slut' and 'whore', in that I can't imagine it being hot if it's being used by someone who might actually say things like that in a derogatory way. Maybe it's different for some but for me it's a way of accessing the parts of yourself that are normally kept shut off and allowing yourself that which is forbidden.

Would love to hear other people's thoughts on this, and find women to explore it with

take it from a black guy that truely enjoys anything comming out of a white womens mouth.as long as it done out of passion not out of anger.love when they tell me how much they love the word cock ))

 

[GirlCrush]

I get oddly aroused when my lover starts hurling anti-semitic remarks at me.



not really.

 

[Shrubbery]

not really.

um.... ?

 

[Scentofawoman]

Pretty sure that would be her thing because I know I would stop everything and walk away.

 

[slowpoking]

I get off when my wife calls me a cracker.


not really

 

[Shrubbery]

Guys there's no need to mock. I wasn't offending anyone as far as I can tell. If it doesn't interest you, why did you look at the thread?

 

[blkjames]

Guys there's no need to mock. I wasn't offending anyone as far as I can tell. If it doesn't interest you, why did you look at the thread?

well said,shit whats up with rude ass people anymore

 

[bdlover]

So a few months ago I started sleeping with an Indian girl a couple years older than me. She was very experienced and fantastically filthy in bed, fulfilling all my dirtiest fantasies and introducing me to some new ones.

An Indian girl? Really? Damn - why can't I find Indian girls like that? Most are so vanilla.

The one that shocked me the most was that she loved me using racist language and degradation while we were fucking.

I was brought up by communist parents and consider myself very left wing. I suspect this has something to do with why I found it so fucking hot, in that it broke a whole bunch of really strong taboos. I wonder if it's similar to calling a woman 'slut' and 'whore', in that I can't imagine it being hot if it's being used by someone who might actually say things like that in a derogatory way. Maybe it's different for some but for me it's a way of accessing the parts of yourself that are normally kept shut off and allowing yourself that which is forbidden.

Would love to hear other people's thoughts on this, and find women to explore it with

I'm Indian and I have to say that when I'm subbing to a woman, I don't want her using racial slurs on me. This has a lot to do with the kind of racism that I faced when I was in elementary school.

 

[EclipseNight]

Coming from a black British gal, I love dirty talk during sex. My partners never said "N*gger" or "N*gga" etc, if they did I think I would be turnt on.

I like to be forcely taken, and I love to date white guys/girls, so them being in control of me and then calling me every nasty name, seems delightful!

 

[blkjames]

Coming from a black British gal, I love dirty talk during sex. My partners never said "N*gger" or "N*gga" etc, if they did I think I would be turnt on.

I like to be forcely taken, and I love to date white guys/girls, so them being in control of me and then calling me every nasty name, seems delightful!

the n word gets me so ready when i an into sex,just push me to give them the best ride of there life)

 

[Shrubbery]

An Indian girl? Really? Damn - why can't I find Indian girls like that? Most are so vanilla.

Hehe, guess I was just lucky..

I'm Indian and I have to say that when I'm subbing to a woman, I don't want her using racial slurs on me. This has a lot to do with the kind of racism that I faced when I was in elementary school.

I totally get that. Like I say, I think it's totally different if it's at all 'close to home'. For the woman I was seeing I think it was a bit different, as she grew up in India in a fairly sheltered environment and never really experienced racism, so to her it was something exotic and taboo rather than having ever had to face the unpleasant reality

 

[EclipseNight]

Excuse me, don't mean to go off topic.

But can the poor yanks who obviously dislike this "type" of stuff, LEAVE.
The man asked a question, if you're not going to properly answer why even click this topic?

When grown folk try to "troll" like they're kids it just all goes to hell. Just get your kid to troll us, they're most likely do better anyway. Write like they have common sense. Knows about capital's and what not.


I'll stop ranting now.

 

[EclipseNight]

the n word gets me so ready when i an into sex,just push me to give them the best ride of there life)

So it doesn't offend at all?
The guy I want is a white man who lived in the racist days, he probably won't call me the N word, but if he does I think I'll like it, I really do.

 

[blkjames]

Excuse me, don't mean to go off topic.

But can the poor yanks who obviously dislike this "type" of stuff, LEAVE.
The man asked a question, if you're not going to properly answer why even click this topic?

When grown folk try to "troll" like they're kids it just all goes to hell. Just get your kid to troll us, they're most likely do better anyway. Write like they have common sense. Knows about capital's and what not.


I'll stop ranting now.

whats up rude people,shit go some where else,few mess it up for all

 

[Shrubbery]

Excuse me, don't mean to go off topic.

But can the poor yanks who obviously dislike this "type" of stuff, LEAVE.

Thanks EN

I do like the occasional religious people who wander through this site posting about how terrible and disgusting everything we're doing is. I guess they're just so offended and disgusted by it, they felt they really ought to create an account and log on to a sex site, in order to be properly offended and disgusted

 

[blkjames]

Thanks EN

I do like the occasional religious people who wander through this site posting about how terrible and disgusting everything we're doing is. I guess they're just so offended and disgusted by it, they felt they really ought to create an account and log on to a sex site, in order to be properly offended and disgusted

would not blame the reliigious falks,just some ass holes who hate everthing

 

[Shrubbery]

would not blame the reliigious falks,just some ass holes who hate everthing

sorry yes, I only meant the ones who use it to judge and look down on others

 

[blkjames]

sorry yes, I only meant the ones who use it to judge and look down on others

ok,now thats better ))

 

[HeyAll]

I wouldn't want that done to me, but I definetely get the appeal.

It makes sex that much more taboo. And it adds more dirtiness and submissiveness to it.

 

[bad_dave]

I was watching some pegging porn yesterday (white on white) and the girl said to the guy "I bet you love this big N***** cock don't you", it totally took me out of the moment because the PC side of my brain kicked in. I think the problem her was that it was white on white, the girl had a black dildo but I don't think that changes anything.

I enjoy verbal abuse during sex and I think it would be different in the moment and probably if a black girl had said that during the clip it wouldn't have bothered me.

 

[slowpoking]

Guys there's no need to mock. I wasn't offending anyone as far as I can tell. If it doesn't interest you, why did you look at the thread?

I was one of the mocking Yanks, but I didn't mean anything by it. Slurs during sex don't do anything for me, but I have no complaints if others enjoy them. I have my own kinks, so who am I to cast stones. It just gave me an image of a woman calling me a cracker, and I thought it sounded funny. I'm sorry to have distracted from the original poster's topic.

 

[Shrubbery]

I was one of the mocking Yanks, but I didn't mean anything by it. Slurs during sex don't do anything for me, but I have no complaints if others enjoy them. I have my own kinks, so who am I to cast stones. It just gave me an image of a woman calling me a cracker, and I thought it sounded funny. I'm sorry to have distracted from the original poster's topic.

Hehe, that's cool.

The cracker thing was actually pretty funny

 

[SophieUK]

take it from a black guy that truely enjoys anything comming out of a white womens mouth.as long as it done out of passion not out of anger.love when they tell me how much they love the word cock ))

Hear, hear, lets not be too 'PC'..in the throes of passion...I love it when black guys call me names too..

 

[RawMonsterLove]

I was one of the mocking Yanks, but I didn't mean anything by it. Slurs during sex don't do anything for me, but I have no complaints if others enjoy them. I have my own kinks, so who am I to cast stones. It just gave me an image of a woman calling me a cracker, and I thought it sounded funny. I'm sorry to have distracted from the original poster's topic.

The cracker slur is funny.